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Yishu, a name that people love and hate. Her novels have been adapted into hit series that have captivated countless viewers. But have you ever thought that this talented writer has a private life?
She has not been in contact with her brother Ni Kuang for 20 years, and she has a war of words with her nephew Ni Zhen on the Internet, and even ignores her biological son. What kind of complex and contradictory soul is this? Today, let's unveil Yishu and see how this thorny rose blooms with amazing brilliance in the literary world.
From a troubled student to a rookie in the literary world
Yishu, formerly known as Ni Yishu, was born in Shanghai in 1946. He moved to Hong Kong with his family at the age of 5 and showed an amazing memory from an early age. However, this smart little girl is a problem student in the truest sense of the word.
She doesn't like to study and is often penalized. Once, she was criticized by the teacher for not memorizing the text, and she was so angry that she memorized the entire article in one go. Perhaps it was this rebellious character that laid the groundwork for her future writing career.
Under the influence of his brother Ni Kuang, 16-year-old Yishu began to try his hand at writing. Her debut novel, "Summer Vacation Passed", caused a sensation upon its release.
Inspired by this, Yishu began his writing career, and successively wrote works such as "Sweet Aunt" and "The Prince and the Lotus in the Garden". Soon, she became a rookie in the literary world.
However, the price of fame is heavy. Yishu couldn't stand the discipline of the school and resolutely chose to drop out. On Jin Yong's recommendation, she joined Ming Pao, the largest newspaper in Hong Kong, as an editor. This decision set her life on an unusual path.
Love life: chicken feathers in one place
Yishu's love life can be called a drama of ups and downs. At the age of 18, she chased and married Cai Haoquan. This marriage came and went quickly. Only three years later, Yishu chose to divorce and even gave up custody of his son.
"Poor couples mourn everything. Cai Haoquan is too poor, and he can only live a hard life with him and be a rough mother of children. "
This is Yishu's evaluation of this marriage. Her determination is shocking, and her attitude towards her son is even more puzzling. According to reports, Yishu did not meet his son until he was 11 years old. Since then, the mother and son have not been in contact with each other. Even if his son wanted to see his mother when he grew up, Yishu refused on the grounds that it would "affect his family".
After the divorce, Yishu soon returned to his familiar circle. She has met many popular actors and actresses, including the famous actor Zheng Peipei. The two became best friends who talked about everything. However, Yishu made a shocking move - she snatched Zheng Peipei's boyfriend Yue Hua.
The beginning of the relationship was fraught with controversy. Zheng Peipei chose to quit and left the United States. And Yishu and Yue Hua resolutely got married despite the pressure of public opinion. However, the marriage did not last long. Yishu was always insecure and often quarreled with Yue Hua. Sometimes, an argument can even turn into a physical altercation.
In the end, the marriage ended in failure. Yue Hua later recalled that he was not sure if Yishu had really loved him, and felt more like a trophy. This statement can't help but make people question Yishu's emotional outlook.
Family Relationships: Cold as Frost
If Yishu's love life is a mess, then her family relationship can be described as "cold".
Yishu and his brother Ni Kuang have not been in contact with each other for 20 years, which is shocking. You must know that Ni Kuang is not only Yishu's brother, but also gave her a lot of help when she first entered the literary world. However, it is such a brother and sister who have chosen not to contact each other for 20 years.
In 2013, Ni Kuang revealed in an interview that every time he called Yishu, he would be forwarded to the message box. The outside world speculates that the reason for the stiffness between the brother and sister may be related to Ni Kuang's son Ni Zhen.
In 2005, a scolding war broke out between Ni Zhen and Yishu on the Internet. Ni Zhen accused Yishu of domestic violence and framed his young self. He also commented on Yishu's first marriage, saying that Yishu was afraid that his son would come to her to ask for money.
"People are afraid of being famous, pigs are afraid of being strong, ......"
This sentence expresses the helplessness of celebrities. Yishu's family conflicts were made public, which not only greatly reduced her image, but also made people sigh: In Vanity Fair, family affection is so fragile.
Netizens are hotly discussed: mixed reviews
This incident quickly aroused heated discussions among netizens on the Internet. Some netizens think that Yishu's behavior is too selfish, and it is really despicable to be so indifferent to his relatives.
"As a mother, how can you ignore your own children? This is so irresponsible!"
Some netizens also expressed their understanding of Yishu's choice, believing that everyone has their own way of life and outsiders should not judge too much.
"We don't know the specifics and shouldn't jump to conclusions. Maybe Yishu has her own troubles?"
Some netizens look at this issue from another angle, believing that Yishu's experience is precisely the source of her literary creation.
It is precisely because of these complex life experiences that Yishu can write so many moving works. An artist's life is often not ordinary. "
Interestingly, some netizens focused on Yishu's talent. They believe that Yishu's literary achievements are undeniable, regardless of his private life.
"Publishing my debut novel at the age of 16 is so talented! Her novels have been adapted into so many hit dramas, which shows that everyone still recognizes her creation. "
Of course, some netizens expressed their appreciation for Yishu's attitude towards life. They believe that Yishu lives very freely and does not care about the eyes of others, and this courage is worth learning.
Although the practice is controversial, I have to admire her for daring to love and hate, and for having the courage to pursue the life she wants. This kind of refusal to admit defeat may be the reason why she can write so many classic works!"
Write at the end
Yishu's life is as wonderful as her novels. Her talent is undeniable, and her controversy is real. She is like a thorny rose, beautiful and intimidating.
Perhaps, it is this contradiction and complexity that has made Yishu's unique literary charm. Her work touches people's hearts precisely because she understands the complexity of human nature. She used her life experience to show us a real world, a world full of love and hatred.
However, we can't help but ask: can the artist's talent be a reason to ignore family affection? How do you find a balance between self-pursuit and family bonding? These questions may be worth pondering for each of us.
What do you think of Yishu's life choices? Feel free to leave your thoughts in the comment area.