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In Beijing in 1991, in an ordinary shoe store, the famous CCTV host Ju Ping was choosing a pair of sneakers for his father. She was engrossed in carefully comparing the style and size of each pair of shoes.
In her life experience, this seemingly ordinary shopping affair became a turning point in her fate.
In the process of picking out shoes, Ju Ping was approached by a tall, energetic man, who was Jiang Qixing, the manager of the shoe store. He had a military career, and his every move exuded masculinity.
With his unique enthusiasm and expertise, Jiang Qixing took the initiative to recommend several comfortable shoe styles suitable for middle-aged and elderly people, which left a deep impression on Ju Ping.
However, fate seems to have arranged everything long ago. Two days later, Ju Ping found that her father's new shoes did not fit, so she went to the shoe store again to change them. Unexpectedly, she met Jiang Qixing again.
He still enthusiastically helped Ju Ping choose shoes, and even showed her several ways to tie her shoes.
The two chance encounters in just a few days made us even more impressed.
Jiang Qixing was attracted by the professionalism and affability that Ju Ping exudes on television. The contrast between her sparkling on TV and approachable in life struck a deep blow to Jiang and prompted him to resolve to pursue Ju Ping.
However, in the eyes of Jiang Qixing's colleagues and friends, his idea is simply fantastical. Ju Ping, as a popular actress on CCTV, attaches equal importance to beauty and talent, and has many suitors, how can she fall in love with a small store manager who sells shoes? To everyone's surprise, Ju Ping was not bound by her status, was moved by Jiang Qixing's sincerity, and gladly accepted his fiery pursuit.
Despite the doubts around Ju Ping, especially from her parents, she was able to stick to her ideas and remain unmoved. Her mother once said to her earnestly: "Feelings are a big thing in a woman's life, and you can't be sloppy."
But her father advised her to think twice. However, Ju Ping was carried away by love, but she was even more determined in her choice, and she desperately wanted to prove that she was not wrong.
In 1976, Ju Ping, who was only 10 years old, resolutely decided to sign up for the selection of the Galaxy Broadcasting Art Troupe of the Central People's Radio and Television.
The skinny girl stood out from the crowd of contenders and became the only student to be selected. Ju Ping's life ushered in an important turning point.
During the eight years spent in the art troupe, Ju Ping fully absorbed various artistic nutrients. She met like-minded friends such as Hang Tianqi and Cai Guoqing, and everyone worked hard for each other and grew together.
What's more worth mentioning is that Ju Ping was also fortunate to sing on the same stage with artists such as Jiang Dawei and Li Guyi, and these profound experiences have laid a solid foundation for her future hosting career.
However, the path of art is never easy. Family constraints prevent Ju Ping from owning a piano, but her curiosity has not diminished. What seemed unbelievable to others became Ju Ping's daily routine - she carefully traced the keys of the piano on the table, humming a melody in her mouth, and her fingers flying on the "keys".
It was with this diligent training that Ju Ping surprised everyone with her talent through her excellent piano playing skills on an unexpected occasion.
In 1981, Ju Ping graduated from Beijing No.11 School. Although she could have the opportunity to further her high school studies, she chose Beijing Preschool Normal School in order to become independent as soon as possible and reduce the burden on her family.
This decision reflects the maturity and responsibility of the young girl Ju Ping, fortunately, she has enlightened parents who give her full understanding and support. They never interfered with their daughter's choices, but silently sheltered her from the wind and rain, allowing her to pursue her dreams without any worries.
Because of a chance, at the end of 1983, Ju Ping recorded a program on CCTV with the art troupe. She looked radiant and slim on stage, and her smile revealed a different temperament from other kindergarten teachers, which immediately attracted the attention of the staff of the children's department.
At that time, there was a very lack of children's program hosts, and except for the storyteller Sun Jingxiu's grandfather, there were almost no other hosting images that could be deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. However, the appearance of Ju Ping just filled this gap, making her a representative of the children's program hosts of that era.
However, the road to the host was not smooth. At that time, the TV station had clearly stipulated that only talents with a bachelor's degree were recruited, and Ju Ping was only a secondary school student.
In order to realize her dream, Ju Ping resolutely launched an arduous effort. For half a year, she rode her bicycle back and forth between the Education Bureau, TV stations, and schools, and finally got her wish in November 1984 and officially became a member of CCTV, thus starting her brilliant hosting career.
This is a period of struggle, which makes Ju Ping grateful. She understands that it is the stage of CCTV that has enabled her to complete her infinite talent in her dream and professional field, and realize the countless subtle to grand imaginations in her heart.
Without this opportunity, Ju Ping would have become an obscure kindergarten teacher living an ordinary life. Because of this, she cherishes this hard-won opportunity and works diligently in CCTV.
She has successively hosted popular programs such as "Tangram" and "Big Windmill", winning the love of countless audiences, and the reputation of "Sister Ju Ping" is even more popular.
From a little girl with a dream to a CCTV master ⛹️, Ju Ping overcame difficulties and completed a gorgeous transformation with sweat and perseverance. But does the success of the career also indicate the happiness of the marriage? ?️ Let's continue to look down.
The palace of marriage often draws a gap between longing and reality. The combination of Ju Ping and Jiang Qixing did not escape this fate. In January 1993, their love crystallization - son Jiang Yiyao was born, adding infinite joy to the family.
However, ordinary days are like firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, endlessly. With the emergence of trivial things in life, marriage is gradually shrouded in haze.
Jiang Qixing's machismo at home has become more and more obvious, leading him to believe that all housework has become Ju Ping's job as a matter of course. One day, a colleague of Ju Ping's came to visit and witnessed a poignant scene: Ju Ping was leaning over to wipe the floor, while Jiang Qixing sat comfortably on the sofa, occasionally commenting on the fruits of his wife's labor.
This scene is in strong contrast to Ju Ping's image on CCTV.
However, the most unacceptable thing for Ju Ping is Jiang Qixing's attitude towards children. Once, Ju Ping, who was busy in the kitchen, suddenly heard her son's crying, and without saying a word, she hurriedly ran to check without even wiping her hands.
However, Jiang Qixing, who was sitting in the living room, was indifferent, his wife's anxious inquiry did not get his attention, and he responded in an indifferent tone: "How can children be so delicate, they naturally don't cry when they are tired of crying."
These words were like a sharp knife, deeply piercing Ju Ping's heart.
At the same time, Ju Ping's career is becoming more and more prosperous. She not only became the host of the Spring Festival Gala, but also successfully released a solo album, and her popularity is increasing day by day.
However, Jiang Qixing's career deteriorated, his income plummeted, and the huge contrast made his already dissatisfied psychology more and more irritable. He began to be jealous of Ju Ping's success, and it became commonplace to show face and lose his temper with the people in his family.
Faced with her husband's deteriorating mood, Ju Ping chose to be forbearant and tolerant at first. She knows that marriage requires mutual understanding and dedication, and hopes to give each other more opportunities to make corrections.
However, Jiang Qixing did not understand his wife's kindness. He failed to cherish it, but became more and more unbalanced, and the long-term cold violence gradually consumed the couple's feelings.
Ju Ping tries to communicate with her husband in the hope of salvaging her precarious marriage. But the result of communication is always a quarrel, Jiang Qixing seems to be unable to accept the fact that his wife is better than himself, and his self-esteem makes him unable to bow his head.
In a heated argument, he blurted out: "If it weren't for me, would you be where you are today?" This passage was like a basin of cold water, which made Ju Ping wake up from her illusions about marriage.
Ju Ping began to reflect on her relationship with Jiang Qixing. In the past, Jiang Qixing's enthusiasm and carefulness made her believe that she had found her soul mate. Now, however, the gentle and considerate man has vanished like a human being, replaced by a selfish, lazy, moody stranger.
What worries Ju Ping even more is the impact of this family atmosphere on her children. Although Jiang Yiyao is young, the child's mind is sensitive. The conflict between husband and wife, even if the husband and wife deliberately cover it up, will be perceived by him.
Ju Ping saw her son hiding alone in the corner many times, timidly watching his parents quarrel, and the frightened eyes made her heart like a knife.
As time passed, Ju Ping realized that in order for her son to have a healthy growth environment, she also needed to find her own happiness. Although this decision may be confusing to many, she knows that it is the only right choice.
In 1999, when her son Jiang Yiyao was only 6 years old, 33-year-old Ju Ping resolutely decided to divorce. Although her heart was full of reluctance and heartache, she understood that this was not the end, but the beginning of a new life.
In 1999, when 6-year-old Jiang Yiyao was immersed in the happy time of childhood, 33-year-old Ju Ping was facing a major choice in life. In this year, after much deliberation, she made a difficult but correct decision: to end this suffocating marriage.
Divorce is not an easy decision for anyone, especially for a well-known TV host. Despite this, Ju Ping knows that instead of barely surviving in pain, it is better to choose liberation and create a new future for herself and her son.
The moment the red seal on the court verdict was stamped, Ju Ping's eyes moistened. Her tears were not because she was reluctant to be married, but because she was relieved of her courage.
She was finally freed from the unpleasant shackles of marriage, as if she had been reborn, and her body was surging with infinite strength.
Since then, Ju Ping has devoted herself to her career and educating her son, and her tenacity and perseverance have made her like a phoenix, reborn in the flame of her career.
She has won the "Golden Microphone Award" countless times, was named "CCTV's Top Ten Hosts", and also served as the producer of "Windmill Turn". At the same time, in her spare time, she also found time to sort out her life experience, condense it into words, and publish her autobiography "Pingju" to inspire more women in distress.
However, the brilliance of her career is inseparable from the hardships of Ju Ping, who is a single mother. In some special festivals, such as Children's Day, Spring Festival, etc., due to work, she can only be absent from her son's life, and her heart is full of guilt.
However, Jiang Yiyao did not complain, but was proud of his mother.
One day, Ju Ping missed her son's birthday and felt very sad and blamed herself. However, her son Jiang Yiyao gently comforted her and said, "Mom, I know you're busy, it's okay." Whenever I miss my mom, I turn on the TV and watch the show you host, so that it feels like you're right next to me.
Ju Ping was deeply moved by these unpretentious words, tears rolled in her eyes, and she was both distressed and relieved. She felt sorry for her son's sensibility, and was relieved that her efforts were not in vain.
Despite Ju Ping's remarkable career achievements, the label of a 33-year-old single mother still makes relatives and friends worry about her life's events. They have matched her with her, hoping that she can start a family again.
However, after a failed marriage, Ju Ping's view of marriage has changed radically.
However, the wheel of fate is always full of surprises. When Ju Ping thinks that she will always depend on her son, fate provides her with an incredible twist. This turning point will lead her to the other side of happiness.
In 2009, Beijing gradually entered the coolness of autumn, and this year, life gave Ju Ping an unexpected surprise. At a gathering of friends, the 43-year-old met Yang Shuo, who had also experienced marital failure.
Yang Shuo is a businessman born and raised in Beijing, and after years of hard work, his career is quite successful. Compared with his friend Jiang Qixing, he does not have that aggressive momentum, but seems more restrained and down-to-earth.
When they first met, both parties were deeply and well impressed with each other. However, Ju Ping has not been able to open her heart because of various concerns.
As a single mother, Ju Ping's biggest concern is that her marriage will cause trouble for her son. She deduced in her mind more than once whether her son would feel left out and suffer grievances if she remarried.
Thinking of this, Ju Ping hesitated.
However, Yang Shuo, a careful person, quickly sensed Ju Ping's troubles. He did not hurriedly confess, but used practical actions to slowly resolve Ju Ping's concerns. In an in-depth conversation, Yang Shuo said to Ju Ping sincerely: "Ju Ping, please believe me, I will treat you sincerely and take good care of your children."
If I marry him, he will be our shared child.
After knowing that Yang Shuo's words touched Ju Ping's heartstrings, she remained cautious, but on every date after that, Yang Shuo would specially invite Jiang Yiyao to go with her.
Whether it's a gourmet restaurant or a playground, he prioritizes his children's preferences. He will listen carefully to Jiang Yiyao's thoughts and answer every immature question attentively.
As time passed, the relationship between Yang Shuo and Jiang Yiyao became closer and closer.
Once, Jiang Yiyao had a high fever and Ju Ping was on a business trip. When Yang Shuo learned the news, he did not hesitate to ask for leave and rushed to the hospital. When Ju Ping rushed back to the ward in a hurry, what she saw was Yang Shuo gently coaxing her son while holding him.
At that moment, Ju Ping experienced unprecedented warmth and steadfastness.
The smart Jiang Yiyao was keenly aware of the changes in his mother. One day, he took the initiative to say to Ju Ping: "Mom, I think Uncle Yang is very good, if you like him, I will support you."
The child's innocent words moved Ju Ping to tears.
Yang Shuo's sincerity and his son's support and encouragement finally made Ju Ping let go of her defense. After a year of getting along, in 2010, 44-year-old Ju Ping made another major decision in her life: she decided to enter the palace of marriage with Yang Shuo again and marry her son together.
After marriage, with Yang Shuo's help, Ju Ping felt that the burden on her shoulders was lightened a lot. Every time she travels, she no longer worries about having no one to take care of her at home. Yang Shuo knew that Ju Ping was old, so he offered not to have children, and poured his fatherly love into Jiang Yiyao, treating him as his own.
This year, Ju Ping looked more radiant than before, and the corners of her eyes and eyebrows were full of happiness.
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