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In the entertainment industry, there was once a "model couple" who not only walked through 25 years of ups and downs hand in hand, but also sang and sang with each other. Their marriage even made Ni Ping sigh: "I can't find a wife like you in the world, and your husband will remember your hard work with his talent." ”
is over half a hundred years old, this "good wife" who is famous for always supporting her husband unexpectedly bid farewell to the family she has dedicated to for many years, left her husband who finally returned home, escaped from the seemingly long-term marriage, and became a simple Liu Su again.
What made her give up her marriage, perhaps as the saying goes, is like a person who drinks water, and knows whether he is warm or cold.
Become dependent
In 1982, the young Niu Qun married Liu Su, who was 8 years younger than him, which was a marriage blessed by family and friends, especially the master Liu Xuezhi, Liu Su is Liu Xuezhi's baby daughter and Niu Qun's younger sister.
Master and apprentice are like father and son, son-in-law is half a son, Liu Xuezhi turned his apprentice into a son-in-law, kissing and kissing, not only because of affection, but also because he valued the modest efforts of the herd to study, hoping to let his daughter rely on her for life and let her cross talk skills be inherited.
25-year-old Liu Su is the Su'er in the mouth of her parents, and since then she has also been known as her father's apprentice, her husband's "Su'er", and since then she has become the "cow sister-in-law" in the eyes of people. When she was young, her heart was full of sweetness.
Before marriage, Niu Qun and Liu Su made a sweet agreement to "support each other and sacrifice each other". But at that time, the herd was seeking a breakthrough in her career, in order to develop in the cross talk industry, on the day when the husband and wife were supposed to get the certificate together, the herd asked her comrades to get the marriage certificate instead.
And he himself was obsessed with work and stayed in Wuxi to create cross talk. This also got Liu Su's understanding, after all, hard work is not a shortcoming, even the romantic spirit of the times.
Marriage nourishes life as well as career. The herd of cattle that has been stumbling in the cross talk world for a long time finally met Jinfeng Yulu and met Feng Gong, who was also in urgent need of a partner.
Wind and water
In the years after marriage, in order to support the career development of the herd and raise their children, Liu Su took on more roles as a wife and mother. In the eyes of the people around the herd, Sister-in-law Niu is a virtuous helper who can't make mistakes.
In this small family, Liu Su became a supporter of the herd wholeheartedly. Niu Qun proudly mentioned one thing, before he became famous, the life of the family was still very poor, but Niu Qun was obsessed with photography, this hobby is extremely expensive, Liu Su gritted his teeth and took out all his savings.
A Fujifilm camera of more than 600 yuan is a proof of his wife's love for him in the memories of the cows. However, with such proof, he rightfully thirsted for more. After partnering with Feng Gong and becoming famous in cross talk, Niu Qun naturally asked his wife to resign from the iron rice bowl.
Although she was reluctant to leave the unit where she had worked for many years, although she didn't want to be a full-time wife, and although "mutual support" became "one party support", Liu Su still quit the iron job and became self-employed out of sacrifice to the family and obedience to her husband.
Behind a successful man, there is often a woman who pays silently. And the stability of marriage may be a proof of the stability of life, in the eyes of Feng Gong, who has experienced his partner Liu Ji going abroad, at least for a period of time, the herd should be a stable and sustainable partner.
In the cross talk circle, a stable partner is very important, every successful performance is inseparable from the recognition of the public, and the public likes to see familiar faces, and Feng Gong's laughter after "I want to kill you" every year is a proof of affection.
But neither Feng Gong nor Liu Su should have imagined that although they regarded the success of the herd as important, the herd itself did not.
Darkest hour
In the career of the herd, Liu Su can only succumb to the position of "good wife" and support all his decisions. But in terms of direction, Liu Su has no need to participate in decision-making.
When the development was good, the cow herd unexpectedly proposed to Feng Gong that he wanted to go to the sea to do business, and if he didn't succeed, he would come back to partner with Feng Gong in cross talk.
Cracks quietly appeared between Feng Gong and the golden partner of the herd, but it was not until the herd announced that he would go to Mengcheng to become the deputy county magistrate that people were surprised to find that there was a huge gap between them. But the person who really suffered the biggest impact was Liu Su, who was silently hidden behind the scenes.
Before her husband went to become the deputy county magistrate, Liu Su had no idea. In the herd announced the naked donation of family property, she was the last person to learn from others.
That year, Liu Su was facing the darkest moment of her life: her mother who was sick and admitted to the hospital needed to be taken care of, her son who was going to school needed to be taken care of, and the family's income was only a few wages she had since quitting her iron job bowl, and the monthly salary of more than 2,000 yuan for the herd in the modern publishing house.
When other actors relied on commercial performances to earn millions a year, Liu Su had to accompany his mother alone, struggling to calculate expenses, the herd had no income at that time, but from time to time she asked for money to help others, but it did nothing to help her difficulties.
From the time her mother was admitted to the hospital due to illness and finally passed away, Liu Su painfully found that her husband had only been with her for three days. This apprentice whom his father values and a husband who gives all his support have become a luxury even when his mother wants her son-in-law to visit more often.
In the four years in Mengcheng, the herd did not return home for three Spring Festivals, and the family was his most reliable support. But does this support also need to be maintained, and it needs to be put into some care? This is the simplest and most simple question, but it is the one he does not look at.
After her mother left, Liu Su's mental state was on the verge of collapse, she couldn't figure it out, she was extremely regretful, after facing the herd of grief but devoting herself to the cause of the deputy county magistrate, she still had to defend him in front of the media: although she was wronged, she understood his hard work and hoped that he could take care of his health.
Marriage is like drinking water, knowing its own warmth and coldness. At the age of 58, when the herd was about to toss and move, Liu Su finally left his "good wife" without looking back, and chose to break up with the herd in a low-key manner.
Obviously, the cattle herd is about to retire, and it is clear that he is about to have a retirement life of family reunion, but Liu Su ended his marriage resolutely and in a low-key manner.
Maybe in those late nights full of grievances and sleeplessness, in those who are struggling to support the image of their husbands, love and family affection are also being worn out, turning into ashes with the wind, gathering is a fire, scattering is full of stars, for Liu Su and the herd, separation may have become a better choice.
Reference: China Entertainment Network: 2007-10-31: Niu Qun and Liu Su officially divorced Twenty-five years of model couples broke up
Nanjing Newspaper Network: 2004-8-28: Liu Su, the wife of the herd: once on the verge of collapse