He will surely end sadly.
The popularity of the Internet has allowed us to see many people we have never seen before. I wanted to write out the man's self-name, but I thought of the person's behavior, so that he would not come to the door and get entangled with me, so I could only avoid saying the person's honorific title. Just call it someone.
This person is over sixty years old this year, originally engaged in wedding officiating in Jinmen as a profession, has two marriages, has two daughters and a boy, after two failed marriages, he is alone.
He claimed to have two properties in Jinmen, but after the divorce, he had nowhere to live, so he rented a house alone.
He said that he has a pension, more than 2,000 yuan a month, and dozens of savings in his hand, saying that it is for his son to become a family in the future.
That's pretty much the way this person is.
A man in his sixties, if he has a pension of 2,000 a month in hand, and he is a person, he can live no matter what. As long as you are careful about your budget, you can smoke and drink, and you must have no problem.
If you have a little money, such as being a self-media, you can increase your income more or less a month, and you will have a relaxed life.
So did he. There used to be an account with more than 100,000 fans. According to his own account, the income in a day used to be around a few hundred yuan. I'm a little envious.
It's just that he later deleted the number. This is what he said himself, whether he deleted it himself, or was banned, it is unknown.
Why did he delete an account that could cost hundreds of dollars a day? Because it has to do with women.
I must have met him very early. Early last year, I saw him traveling to the Northeast on his bicycle alone. One person, one car, riding along the national highway, this kind of travel is what I like, so I became interested in him.
It's just that his mouth is too fine, and his temperament is a little incomprehensible. It is easy to get into trouble when you talk too much, and if you don't know the general situation, you will have fewer ways to retreat.
He rode the Northeast, and he got into a lot of trouble because of his broken mouth along the way. First, he picked up the courier, but the security guard didn't let him in, so he quarreled with the security guard, which alarmed his uncle. I lost my phone again, and I was at a loss for what to do. Then I knew that this person's heart was not mature, and he was panicked and lost in trouble, and he was not a person who could get things done.
Then a lady found him, and the two of them drove on a journey. Later, the lady had an accident while driving, and the car needed to be repaired, so he left the lady alone in a different place, and he went back to Tianjin alone.
This made me have an even worse impression of him. The lady had an accident while driving, and at this time it was the time when I needed to care, I threw the lady alone to repair the car, which was obviously an unacceptable escape for me.
The lady repaired the car and returned to Tianjin, where the two lived together.
Within a few months, unsurprisingly, the two had a conflict. The man left the woman's house and began to travel alone.
If this matter ends here, and they put it down lightly, it will be just a dewy couple, and it will be a passing cloud.
However, he began to "reflect" on the lady on the Internet, so the scolding war began, and each said that they would take legal measures.
Then his account of hundreds of thousands of followers disappeared.
I took the trouble to write about him in such detail, just to elicit what I wanted to say. That is, what is good for life in old age?
What determines the quality of life in old age?
And take this person as a story.
I have no hope for his later life. There is a good chance that his later life will be a little bleak.
One is that he does not have his own fixed housing. He said that he owned two properties, but when he returned to Jinmen, he had to rent a house to live in. In the future, when his health is in condition, he can't wander around, and when he returns to Tianjin, he will most likely have to rent a house.
People who are over the age of sixtieth birthday and are not in good health, and if they rent a house to live, this life will obviously not be easy.
The second is that his family relationship is very conflicted. In both marriages, all the children stayed with the woman. In this way, there will be a real physical condition in the future, and it is uncertain whether his children will be able to take care of him.
In his old age, lying on the hospital bed, he didn't even have a relative who brought water and medicine around him, which seemed to be a little sad.
The third is that he has always claimed that he has deposits, hundreds of thousands. He said that he was preparing to start a family for his son in the future. In his opinion, this deposit is a rich asset, but in fact, it is just a drop in the bucket for a young man to start a family.
His pension is only more than 2,000, and in the future, when his son gets married, his little income will not be enough. And what about the two daughters? Don't give a dowry at all?
He saw that his old age life was coming, and it would definitely be a bloody storm.
This brings me to a question. In later life, if you want to have a high quality, do you need an economic foundation or a sophisticated human relationship?
I think that the economic foundation is only one aspect, and the level of understanding of the world determines the quality of life in old age.
It is obviously not possible to live without an economic foundation in old age, but it is not always better to have more. As long as you have enough food and drink, looking at a mountain will only make you lose your inner peace and increase your troubles.
The control of human feelings is the key to determining whether you are happy in your later years. Human affection is human nature, grasp the weaknesses of human nature, learn to get along with others, have a harmonious social relationship, family affection, friendship, be able to experience warmth, and have someone to help in case of trouble, life will be smooth.
Sophistication is also human affection. Wang Shouren has long said that everything in the world is all about human feelings. If you want others to be good to you, the premise is that you want to be good to others. People have passed the sixtieth birthday, learn to have fellowship with others, be more tolerant, less ridiculed, pay more, and complain less. This is how people know about your upbringing.
Be kind to others and be a decent person.