Photo/Princess, please talk about entertainment
Editor/Princess, please talk about entertainment
Preface
In real life, many men are unable to extricate themselves from the trap of "scumbags" and find it difficult to regroup. Many male compatriots fell because of "scumbags" and could no longer get up. However, who would have predicted that a tragedy would unfold in a hotel room that "forgot to close the curtains"? Recently, Lin Dan and his wife participated in an event. In the photos at the scene, Xie Xingfang did not look at Lin Dan at all and focused on taking care of the child. This raises questions about why they haven't been separated for years. Today, let's walk into the story of Lin Dan and Xie Xingfang.
Without Lindane, I would have been doing well
Xie Xingfang has shown a strong sense of personal growth and independence, especially after Lin Dan's derailment. Instead of being knocked down by this turmoil, she chose to focus on her children and personal development. Her Weibo content has shifted from the turmoil of the past to a daily routine about accompanying her children to events and sharing parenting experiences.
This transformation shows her courage and wisdom in the face of adversity. In a variety show, she expressed unequivocally: "I haven't had a relationship with Lin Dan, will my life become unbearable because of this?" Her words reveal her firmness and sanity, demonstrating her attitude of not being influenced by the outside world.
Xie Xingfang is clearly a visionary woman who understands that men are not always reliable. As a result, she began to learn new skills and interests, which are reflected in her recent Weibo content, showing the abundance and diversity of her current life. Even after giving birth, Xie Xingfang still maintains an excellent figure, no less than any big star.
Many people have noticed that Xie Xingfang's appearance has changed significantly in recent years compared to the past, and she has become more ambitious, capable and confident. These changes reflect her personal growth and increased inner strength. In the past few years, she has successfully created her own mother and baby brand and become a president, worth more than 100 million. Her achievements are not only a testament to her business acumen and decision-making skills, but also her unwavering determination in her pursuit of independence and success.
She also occasionally plays badminton with her children, and cultivates children's sentiments in this way. This parent-child interaction not only enhances her intimacy with her children, but also demonstrates her responsibility and love as a mother. In their relationship, Lin Dan seems to have become a character who is more focused on the development of the child. He returned to the family and committed himself to being a good father. However, it is difficult to determine whether he can also be a good husband.
Lin Dan and Xie Xingfang
Lin Dan fell in love with Xie Xingfang at first sight on the court when he was 14 years old. He thought that the two had no intersection, and it happened that Xie Xingfang's team came to study where he was. At first, he frequently showed himself in front of Xie Xingfang, telling jokes and doing funny moves, and it wasn't until they trained together for a long time that he had the courage to ask for a phone number. When she asked Xie Xingfang out for the first time, Lin Dan was so excited that she didn't sleep all night.
Xie Xingfang is a slow-burning, gentle girl who is a little ignorant about love. The first time they ate together, Lin Dan expressed his love. Although Xie Xingfang didn't have any special feelings for this little boy, in the face of Lin Dan's perseverance, daily text messages and phone calls, she finally agreed to his date.
After falling in love, she discovers that Lin Dan is not as naïve as she thought before, and he can take care of her emotions considerately. Originally, they planned to date secretly, but unexpectedly, Lin Dan kissed Xie Xingfang excitedly after a game victory, which happened to be captured by the camera. Luckily, their achievements have also earned recognition for the relationship. After years of long-distance love, the two finally entered the palace of marriage. They chose to hold their wedding in a place where they had participated in the Olympics together and witnessed Lin Dan's victory.
Many elites in the sports world came to congratulate, and Xie Xingfang chose to retreat into the background and was willing to be a housewife. Interestingly, even eight years of emotion can no match for loneliness. On the occasion of 13 days after Xie Xingfang gave birth, #林丹出轨#成为热搜的焦点. Lin Dan then quickly made a public relations response, admitting that he had failed his family.
Xie Xingfang also reacted, determined to continue to maintain the marriage. Although the comment section is full of accusations against her, "how can cheating be tolerated". But in fact, she is a determined and sober woman, and in her social media profile, she describes herself as a badminton world champion and the founder of the brand. She has never labeled "Lin Dan's wife". Perhaps, from that moment on, she had already thought about how to deal with it in the future. Some people think that Lin Dan became cautious after the derailment turmoil, and patience became his trademark. But the truth is that both parties understand that their marriage has died in name only.
She shines in her own right
In the eyes of many people, she is often referred to as "Lin Dan's wife" or "the companion of an Olympic champion". She is generally regarded as an excellent wife, kind, tolerant, and radiant at heart. He himself is also radiant. She is fair-skinned, beautiful, tall and tall, and is not only skilled on the badminton court.
He once won 21 points in just 6 minutes, and won a total of 24 world championships in his career. She became world number one at the age of 26, an achievement that shows her exceptional talent and determination. Such a woman can be unknown for love, which is why people admire her.
At that time, she was an opponent who could defeat Lin Dan, making all men want to conquer. Ever since he had let the goddess fall, he had also grown tired of this life. In front of outsiders, she is forced to hide her feelings and take care of the child wholeheartedly.
Some netizens thought she was too weak and didn't even dare to file for divorce. But in fact, divorce is not the best choice for her, these "big heroine" statements are all false, in fact, interests are important. The commercial value of Lin Dan is obvious, and his endorsement fee is equivalent to the struggle of ordinary athletes for many years.
Xie Xingfang's family situation is not good, she has spent most of her years training in Beijing, and her parents rarely come to visit. She hopes that her children can grow up in a loving environment and not leave regrets like her. In fact, she just wants to have someone who plays the role of a father as her child grows up. Many people regard Xie Xingfang as "an evolved version of Ma Yili", one is "cherishing the people in front of him", and the other is "a man who knows how to change". The same is true for the two in dealing with similar incidents – choosing to forgive.
In the entertainment industry, such things are not uncommon. Chen Sicheng once met with two ladies at night, and Tong Liya has not publicly stated her position so far. Judging from the situation of the two over the years, it can be understood that Xie Xingfang's choice is correct. Xie Xingfang publicly forgave the man after the "touching the buttocks" incident, but in fact, her attitude has quietly changed.
Before he cheated, she was busy at home alone with household chores and taking care of the children. After the derailment, she began to pay more attention to her appearance, showing a different style every time she appeared, and her dress became more refined, no longer plain, equipped with luxury bags, and her clothes were constantly changing. Of the 10 companies invested by Lin Dan, six are directly related to Xie Xingfang. In contrast, Lin Dan seemed a little lonely.
After retiring from the army, he had to work in his wife's company. Now he is not as high-spirited as before, which also highlights Xie Xingfang's brilliance. On the opening day of the company, the interaction between the two seemed very cold, and there was no trace of the warm interaction between the husband and wife.
epilogue
Behind the glamour, life often has an unknown heaviness. Xie Xingfang, the Olympic champion who once shone on the badminton court, now faces a complicated family situation. After the "touching the buttocks" incident, she chose to be tolerant on the surface, but the changes in her heart were difficult to hide.
The indifferent eyes, the disdain and exhaustion that were unintentionally revealed, revealed the struggle and strength in her heart. She didn't bother to look at Lin Dan, and the focus of her eyes was only on the innocent son. This child is the meaning of her life, and it is also the reason for her persistence and sacrifice.