"Funny Family" is a very classic Korean drama. The plot revolves around the daily life of Li Shuncai's family. There are laughs, there are tears, which is endlessly evocative.
When I first watched it, I thought everyone in the show was fine.
But when I revisited it this time, I felt that Xu Minjing was not as good as I had always thought, and even she was quite annoying.
01
Ambiguity and pursuit of his friend's predecessor Li Minyong
In "The Biography of Zhen Huan", Zhen Huan's sister Zhen Yulian is recognized as a good fate.
She once said a sentence: "My sister loves, I will not be contaminated in the slightest." ”
Defending the sister, nor everything that belongs to the sister, has a xiao thought, this is the real sister.
But Xu Minjing is not like this, even if she and Shen Zhi claim to be the best sisters.
She also knew that Shen Zhi and her ex-husband Li Minyong still had a lot of possibilities, and the two still had great possibilities, and when they came together again, she took advantage of the convenience of her work to try to be by Li Mingyong's side, making a fuss, selling good, and currying favor.
After a while, she would flash her starry eyes and say to Li Mingyong, "Teacher Li, you really look like Brad Pitt." After a while, she held up her chin again and made a fool of herself at Li Minyong and said, "Teacher Li, you are too handsome, just like seven." ”
The appearance of not avoiding suspicion makes people feel very uncomfortable.
Some people may say that Xu Minjing was only unconsciously attracted to Li Mingyong and did not perceive anything wrong with her behavior.
But is that really the case?
Not to mention that at the beginning, even after Xu Minjing and Li Mingyong determined the relationship, Xu Minjing would be uncomfortable when facing Shen Zhi.
This kind of discomfort is the embodiment of a weak heart.
Why is the heart weak? Probably because she also felt that her behavior was wrong.
In fact, in my opinion, not only can the friend's wife not be deceived, but the friend's ex is also a forbidden area.
Just like in "The First Half of My Life", there was a problem between Tang Jing and He Han, and even they themselves knew that it was difficult for the two to work together to the end.
But whether they can get to the end is one thing, luo Zijun's intervention is another matter.
The world is not without men, why not stare at the ex of a friend?
After all, friends and exes used to be sweet too. Then, how do you get along between these two people?
If people get together, are you worried that they will quarrel when they don't agree, or that old feelings will rekindle?
If so, you have to make a trade-off between a friend and a loved one.
So when friends are no longer friends, do you think it's all worth it?
02
His attitude towards Yoon-ho is ambiguous
In addition to her attitude towards her friends, Xu Minjing's attitude towards Yoon Ho is also somewhat wrong.
To be precise, Xu Minjing is a good teacher. He pays attention to every classmate in the class and gives them attention.
And when Xu Minjing came to Fengbo High School, her care was naturally given to Yun Hao.
Yun Hao, this person, in school, seems to want the wind to get the wind, and the rain to get the rain. But at home, he is always at the bottom of the food chain.
Grandpa lost something and wanted to find him, and his mother's money was missing, and she wanted to scold him. No one even listened to his defense and convicted him.
Such a Yun Hao has scars in his heart.
So when he meets a teacher who will listen to him gently and communicate with him seriously, he falls.
Yoon Ho can't help but approach Xu Minjing.
Xu Minjing is also aware of Yoon-ho's ambiguity. Under normal circumstances, Xu Minjing should keep a distance from Yoon Ho and slowly let time wash away the traces of ambiguity.
But Xu Minjing did not do this. She also often took the initiative to find Yoon Ho and ask yoon Ho to help her do things. Once Yoon-ho disagrees, she coddles her.
As a result, Yoon Ho fell deeper and deeper.
And in terms of things, Yoon Ho is not a person without measure, just like he had a good feeling for Jiang Youmei at the beginning, but after seeing Jiang Youmei and his brother Lee Min-ho come together, he did not entangle, and even turned around quite dashingly.
When it came to Xu Minjing, even if Yun Hao used his affection deeper than before, if the boundaries were drawn, would he really be so obsessed?
03
epilogue
I've always enjoyed watching "Funny Family" and think it's a particularly good-looking next meal drama.
But when I revisited this time, I felt that Xu Minjing was very annoying.
It's not that her personality is bad and her character is poor, it's just that she has a very sense of no boundaries and will consciously do something uncomfortable.
In our lives, we are also likely to meet people like Xu Minjing.
She may often do things that make us feel uncomfortable, but if we want to accuse, it seems a bit pretentious.
But in fact, you have to know that this uncomfortable feeling is actually your emotion, giving you an early warning.
Therefore, when you feel this uncomfortable emotion, you can carefully recall the reason for the uncomfortable emotion and try to avoid this similar situation afterwards.
If you can't avoid this situation, you can also consider keeping a distance from the "Xu Minjing".) friend appropriately.
After all, people live a lifetime, try to be as happy as possible.
Why not be happy because you are always accommodating to someone who doesn't care about your feelings?
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