Ladies and gentlemen of doctors who are wearing stars and moons in the hospital and saving lives and helping the wounded, I want to talk to you about a social hotspot that is closely related to you today - the marriage and love market!
Recently, there has been a joke circulating on the Internet, saying that the doctor has become prosperous in the marriage and love market with the iron brand of "two stable and three high", and he is firmly on the first place in the list. Hey, I want to laugh out loud when I hear it, this statement sounds like the truth, but the actual situation, tsk tsk, that's very different!
First of all, let's take a look at the connotation of "two stable and three high". Isn't the so-called "two stability" stable jobs and stable incomes? This doctor's iron job bowl is naturally stable, and in terms of income, it must be envious and hated by most people. As for the "three highs", everyone understands that they have high academic qualifications, high IQ, and high emotional intelligence. After years of hard study, the doctors' knowledge reserves, coupled with the communication skills and adaptability they have cultivated after dealing with patients for a long time, are definitely full of skill trees. It sounds like a doctor is synonymous with a perfect husband, killing men in other industries every minute!
But, guys, do you really think that the blind dates are all robots that only look at surface data? The marriage market is not as simple as your usual judgment of a patient's condition, and the higher the score, the better the match!
The profession of a doctor, regardless of the scenery, is burdened with huge pressure and super work intensity. On duty, surgery, and various emergencies, which one can make you take a breather? Not to mention making an appointment after work, it's good to be able to eat and sleep on time. Which of the doctors I know often takes holidays into it in order to save patients? They have the ability to save lives, but they often spend very little time with their families.
Think about it from another angle, doctors have given a lot while contributing to society. When they are looking for a partner, they may crave more understanding and support. I came back from work as tired as a dog, and I just wanted someone to listen to patiently. When you encounter a problem and are frustrated, I hope that your other half can give you some encouragement and encouragement. Therefore, for doctors, the most important thing to find a suitable other half in the marriage market is not how bright the external conditions are, but the spiritual fit!
Besides, now that there are no doctors in society, which industry is not facing huge competitive pressure? Although the label of "two stable and three high" shines, it is not unique to you. Moreover, the editor wants to say that every day around work, leaving the other half aside, beware that the "TA" has long been snatched away by other young men who are shushing and asking for warmth!
So, fellow doctors, it's time to let go of your "two stable and three high" tsunderes and take more time to manage your emotional life! Participate in some social activities, meet some new people, and maybe you can meet someone who really understands you and supports you. Don't let your passion be dedicated to the patient, but forget to find the most suitable partner for your life.
Finally, what I want to say is that love is never a one-sided effort, it needs mutual understanding and hand in hand. I believe that there is always such a person who is willing to accompany you through those difficult days and become a strong backing in your life. Come on, doctors! Find your "she", hold the hand of the son, and encourage her!