The trivialities of life and the pressures of the workplace are intertwined into a complex picture of middle-aged women, in which we often struggle and make choices, but often forget that we have the right to choose our own lifestyle.
In recent days, the words "feel free to me" have been shining in my heart like a beacon, illuminating the way forward for me.
Yes, as Mayer Musk said in Life by Me: "Don't let age and other things hold you back." ”
These four words are not only her life motto, but also my expectations and commitments to my own life.
First, the cause is up to me
Women in the workplace, have you ever had such an experience: on the one hand, there is a heavy job, and on the other hand, there is a family responsibility, both of which are like two mountains, overwhelming you.
I have had such moments, and my heart is full of struggle and helplessness. However, during this time with my children, I have come to understand that work and life are not incompatible.
I started trying to handle work when my child was quiet and be there for her while she was playing. This pace of life has made me feel more relaxed and free than ever before.
I told myself that I work to live, not to live to work. I want to find a balance between the two and make every day meaningful.
As Mademoiselle Chanel said, "My life has never pleased me, so I have created my own." ”
We all have the right to choose our own way of life and let our career and life coexist in harmony.
Second, the emotion is up to me
Marriage is an important part of life, but it is not the whole of our lives. I used to have too many expectations and fantasies about marriage, thinking that it could change my destiny.
However, as time went on, I came to understand that marriage is just a part of life, and true happiness needs to be earned on your own.
Mayer Musk, who chose to divorce after nine years of domestic violence, told us: "I spent too long waiting for that person to change, or that bad relationship to change. But in the end, I realized that I was the only one who could change. ”
Yes, we can't hope for others to change our lives, we need to create happiness on our own.
In marriage, we need to be independent and autonomous, and not lose ourselves in order to cater to others. We have to believe that we can only have true happiness and fulfillment if we are strong and independent enough.
3. Beauty by me
The day before yesterday, I went out with my kids, wearing an old pair of pink wide-leg pants and shoes.
The compliments from my children made me feel happy and made me reflect on my lifestyle.
We often use busyness and exhaustion as an excuse to ignore our outward appearance. However, true beauty is not only in appearance, but also in inner fulfillment and self-confidence.
Mayer Musk said in "Life by Me": "True beauty is wonderful on the outside and on the inside." ”
I was inspired by this quote. I started to try to change my lifestyle, no matter how busy and tired I was, to find time to take care of myself. I want to make myself glamorous from the inside out.
Audrey Hepburn once said, "Elegance is the only beauty that does not fade." ”
I think it's not just an external beauty, but an inner temperament and attitude. We must learn to love ourselves, be kind to ourselves, and make ourselves the most beautiful women.
epilogue
Life is short and precious, and we can't let the pressures and expectations of the outside world hold us back. We must be brave enough to pursue our dreams and happiness, and let our lives be full of color and vitality.
No matter what lifestyle we choose, we must firmly believe that I am at ease, and I am the master of my life!
As Nietzsche said, "Every day when you don't dance is a failure of life." ”
Let's dance bravely! Use our wisdom and courage to create your own wonderful life!