In July 2018, the Jinchang Psychological Counselors Association organized a condolence activity for left-behind children, and in Jinhe Village, Shuangwan Town, Qiqi (pseudonym), who was only 6 and a half years old, received Pan Xiufen's attention. Knowing that Qiqi's parents were divorced, the two went their separate ways, and they had been raised by their grandparents since 5 months, Pan Xiufen suddenly felt compassion. After obtaining the consent of the child's grandparents and the child, a few days later, Pan Xiufen brought the child to the house, so that the child could fully enjoy the love of father and mother.
Since then, every New Year's holiday and winter and summer vacation, Pan Xiufen will bring Qiqi home to give her children mother-like care. Every year on Children's Day and birthday, buy gifts for children and take children to Texas to enjoy Western food. Seeing that Qiqi was small, Pan Xiufen bought zinc gluconate and calcium acid, took her to the Maternal and Child Health Hospital for physical examination, and urged the child to eat nutritious meat, eggs, milk, fruits, and vegetables. Over the years, Qiqi's daily necessities, school supplies, and nutritional products have basically been provided by Pan Xiufen. In the words of the grandparents, the child's food and clothing are basically managed by Pan Xiufen and his wife. Qiqi also affectionately called Pan Xiufen and his wife "Mom and Dad".
During holidays, "Mother Pan" often takes her children around, telling them about geography, history and culture, and stimulating their interest and dreams in learning. Teach children to ride bicycles, learn to play checkers, learn to stir-fry, and make noodles, so as to cultivate children's self-care skills. Make a beautiful chapter for children and record the beauty of children's growth.
In order to build up the child's self-confidence, in the summer of 2023, when Qiqi is about to enter junior high school, she will take the child to Jiayuguan Fangte for a vacation, so that the child can grow in knowledge. In order to let the child receive a high-quality education, in the fall of 2023, "Mother Pan" will transfer the child to Jinchang No. 3 Middle School and be responsible for picking up and dropping it off. At the same time, actively help apply for public rental housing so that children have a stable place to live. Now, every Saturday and Sunday, "Pan's mother" takes the child home, improves the child's life, helps the child take a bath, and washes clothes.
In adolescence, in order to let children have a correct understanding of their own bodies, "Mother Pan" popularizes mental health knowledge for children in a timely manner, guides children to correctly handle the relationship between male and female classmates, and adjusts and resolves bad emotions. At the same time, Pan's father and Pan's mother often communicate with the child's grandfather about the child's learning, thinking and parenting style to help the child grow up healthily. Today, the child has a good attitude towards learning, has good academic performance, and also serves as a member of the class learning committee.
As a parent, the best love for your child is companionship! Pan Xiufen knows that a person's growth is a long way, especially adolescent children, who need "parents" to care, educate and guide them correctly. Mr. and Mrs. Pan Xiufen said: "On the road of Qiqi's growth, we are all loyal companions of our children, and we are willing to accompany our children forever, so that children can grow up healthily under our love and companionship, and become useful talents for the country in the future and repay the society!" ”
Source: Jinchang Women's Federation