The flowers in the park are particularly lively, and in the afternoon, I walked to the intersection of the park near my home, and saw a few sleepy fortune tellers setting up stalls, they were very low-key to set up two maza, and the ground was covered with unclear patterns.
Because I was bored, I stopped and asked for a hexagram, and the chubby fortune teller said a lot of things in a slightly greasy tone that were a little accurate and a little inaccurate, and in the end I only remembered one sentence: Girl, you will meet a noble person this year.
To be honest, the reason why I can remember this sentence is all because of the word "noble" in the other party's mouth, and I had no intention of appreciating the flowers for the next few hours, and my mind was full of wonders about what kind of person is considered a nobleman.
Until dusk fell, the street lamps on the side of the road scrambled to turn on, and I caught a glimpse of my shadow in the glass mirror outside the mall, and my mind suddenly brightened, "Hey, isn't that the glass reflected my nobleman?" ”
Every glamorous and outstanding person you see in the crowd has ugly scars on the soles of their feet, because they have come by the tip of a knife all the way.
There is never a shortcut in life, everything can only be done on oneself, and those who rely on others will often fail in hope.
As the saying goes, the mountains will fall, and everyone will run. This is not a negative but a clear recognition of the reality, there is nothing in this world except for oneself, which can really be relied on for a long time.
Nietzsche said, "He who cannot obey his own orders must be commanded by others." "Those who depend on others will be subject to others, and without independence, they cannot control their own destiny.
You have to understand that no one in this world will always let you rely on unconditionally, and the so-called "noble" in the mouth of the fortune teller is only the one who can wake you up.
No one can become another person's nobleman, and a good life has always been fought for by oneself.
Yu Hua said: "There is no path in the world that is repeated, and no life can be replaced. "Life is long, if you always want to rely on others, fantasize about good luck coming, and so on, your heart will never be stable.
At any given time, you can only rely on yourself if you want to live a wonderful life.
In this life, it is not easy to get the help of nobles, everyone regards nobles as Bole, in fact, the real nobles are only the ones who become Maxima.
Shakyamuni said, "Whoever you meet, he is the person you should be in your life, and it is no accident that he will definitely teach you something." "As the saying goes, the master leads the person to practice, and the person who teaches you will also teach others, but as for whether or not you can achieve positive results, you still have to rely on your own efforts.
Don't have any illusions that someone cares more about you than you do, selfishness has always been human nature, and you imagine yourself to be far lower in the minds of others than you really are.
The gap is something that cannot be avoided, all we can do is to persuade ourselves emotionally from the beginning, don't hope for others, the so-called "noble" may appear, or may not show up in this life, it all depends on your understanding, what you realize is beautiful, and if you can't realize it, it will become a regret.
You are your own nobleman, and whether you can thrive in this life depends on yourself. Don't be superstitious about the so-called "fortune", its existence is more of a psychological suggestion than a coincidence.
We are all mortals in the race against time, there is no shortcut on the way forward, no detour is the most solid shortcut, smooth sailing is just a good wish, no one can always go smoothly from beginning to end.
Life has always been boring and dull, only let yourself run to feel the refreshing wind and flowing scenery, maybe in the process of running occasionally feel irritable and boring, when the light slowly grows old, and then look back, even if you think of the past troubles, you will involuntarily have a happy smile on your face.
Wang Xiaobo once said: "When people are young, they feel that there are people everywhere and other people's business is your business, but after middle age, they feel that there is nothing in the world except for their families." "There is nothing wrong with being young, there is nothing wrong with middle age, what is wrong is time and the perception that is never up to standard, too many things are waiting until you really understand, and the past has long been with the wind.
Yu Qiuyu said in "Borrow My Life": "The road of life, rely on yourself to walk step by step, what can really protect you is your own life choice." If you really can't wait for the wind to come, then go to the clouds yourself. "Life is a hard journey, don't be naïve to think that you can rely on others when you encounter problems, rely on others for everything, this journey will no longer be a trip, but a disaster.
Everyone is trapped in their own predicament and is too busy to take care of themselves, maybe affection can help you, but that can only be a temporary support, if you want to really stand up, you can only rely on yourself.
May you be able to live as the sun, and from now on, you will never have to express your inner melancholy through the moonlight and light in the dead of night.