1. The doubts when you are at the top of happiness
Li Hong, a 45-year-old famous CCTV anchor, is now enjoying a harmonious and happy life journey. Although her career is thriving and she has won the reputation of "intellectual goddess" from the audience, she has always adhered to the principle of low-key and peaceful, humble and introverted.
Li Hong has only appeared in a handful of variety shows and has never appeared in public or used any social media platforms to show herself. Such a mysterious and plain way of life has caused endless speculation and speculation about her private life from the outside world.
Some ill-intentioned people began to unscrupulously fabricate false information and malicious slander about her in the online world.
Some people claim that Li Hong has married into a wealthy family, and her husband Jun is a prominent business tycoon; Some people also spread rumors that his father-in-law was imprisoned on suspicion of economic crimes, and that her husband had betrayed his marriage and Hongxing was out of the wall.
There are even people who fabricate the absurd story of his own brother who was imprisoned for drunk driving.
These rumors swept in like a storm, ruthlessly impacting Li Hong's life. As an experienced host, after the baptism of wind and rain, Li Hong did not make any response or explanation to these baseless accusations, but continued to move forward with a calm and calm attitude.
She knows very well that she is not afraid of shadows, and her innocent heart is the best way to fight back.
In the face of these gossips, Li Hong behaved unusually calmly. With a graceful smile, she dispelled the suspicions of the outside world, as if all the strife was merely a passing cloud for her.
Years of life experience have given her a tenacious and confident heart, and no right or wrong can shake her in the slightest.
Second, the arduous and difficult road of part-time work and study
If you want to explore the secret of Li Hong's success, you have to mention the fighting spirit that she has deeply imprinted in her heart since she was a child. Li Hong was born in an ordinary rural family, the family was not wealthy, and life was quite difficult.
Her father is the main breadwinner of the family, while her mother is bedridden and in a worrying state that requires frequent medication for treatment.
When Li Hong entered her teenage years, her family's financial situation suddenly fell into trouble. In order to alleviate the heavy responsibility of their parents and share the financial pressure of the family, Li Hong and her younger brother had to make a difficult decision in desperation - to give up their studies and go out to work to earn a living.
During those days, the two siblings carried heavy responsibilities, shuttling between cities every day, trying their best to find a livelihood. Whether it's working as waiters in a restaurant or working as a street cleaner, they always put themselves into it with great ambition to earn a meager salary to support their families' financial hardship.
However, the hardships of life have not dampened Li Hong's enthusiasm and desire for learning. Whenever night fell and everything was silent, she would quietly take out her textbook and study tirelessly in the dim light.
She cherished a beautiful dream that one day she would be able to walk through the school gates in a neat school uniform and ponytail without any worries like any other of her peers.
What I still remember is that one day, Li Hong dragged her tired body and just returned home from busy work, when she found her mother sitting by the kang with a melancholy face. Li Hong immediately stepped forward to ask what was going on, and her mother explained the current predicament of the family.
Hearing this, Li Hong burst into tears, and her heart was filled with endless pain, but she did not complain because of this, but firmly chose to continue to work hard to survive.
3. The twist of fate of the experience of escaping marriage
Time flies, and in a blink of an eye, Li Hong has reached the age of eighteen. At this time, her deep thirst for knowledge burned like a fire, and she finally mustered up the courage to express her desire to return to school to her mother.
However, her mother dealt her a heavy blow - it turned out that her parents had already arranged a family affair for her while she was away from home to work, and the wedding would be held on her eighteenth birthday.
Hearing this sudden bad news, Li Hong seemed to have suffered a thunderbolt from the sky, and the whole person collapsed instantly. She once cherished the dream of returning to school, but was ruthlessly pushed into the abyss of an "arranged marriage".
Her mother told her that the bride price had been accepted and that the banquet had been prepared, and that the wedding must be held on the appointed date anyway.
Faced with such a cruel reality, Li Hong struggled hard, shouted loudly, and even threatened with his life. She longed to change her fate through learning, but was forced to embark on a path of "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law".
She really couldn't accept such an arrangement, and the whole person fell into unprecedented despair.
She strolled the streets, her heart full of confusion. Suddenly, a terrifying thought crossed her mind - she walked into a pesticide store and without hesitation bought a bottle of the highly toxic "dichlorvos" pesticide.
She decided to use this extreme way to have a final battle with this marriage and do her best for her future.
At the moment when Li Hong was about to take a risk and risk betting her life, fate suddenly turned over like a rock in a flood. Looking at their daughter's flame-like enthusiasm for studying and ruthless rejection of arranged marriage, Li Hong's parents couldn't bear it and were moved.
After seeing their daughter's determination so brave, they abandoned their original plan and decided to reverse the engagement.
As a result, Li Hong successfully escaped the disaster, returned to school, and opened a new chapter in her life. Since then, she has worked harder and achieved outstanding academic results, and finally entered the university with excellent grades and embarked on a new journey in her hosting career.
Fourth, the indifference under the attack of rumors
Perhaps it is precisely because of Li Hong's mysterious and low-key lifestyle that her success process was once shrouded in various rumors. Some people claim that she married into a wealthy family, and her husband was a wealthy man; There are also rumors that her husband is cheating, and even her father-in-law is being imprisoned for economic crimes.
What's even more bizarre is that there are rumors that her own brother has been sentenced to prison for drunk driving.
However, in reality, all this is a rumor made out of thin air, and there is no basis for it. In fact, Li Hong's husband is just an ordinary university professor, and the two have been together for many years, and their relationship is harmonious and happy, and they have never had the slightest suspicion.
As for her younger brother, not only did he not go to prison for drunk driving, but he was an extremely outstanding talent, he was admitted to the Beijing Film Academy with his unremitting efforts, and after graduation, he became a high-profile film director, and cooperated with many senior directors to shoot many popular film and television masterpieces.
In the face of these malicious slanders and attacks, Li Hong has always remained calm and composed, and has never made any refutations or self-defenses. With just a silent and reserved smile, she dispelled all doubts and rumors.
She knows that she is always innocent, her heart is pure and immaculate, and no amount of slander can shake her faith. She has a calm and confident heart, and no matter how much wind and rain rage, it can't hurt her in the slightest.
However, despite Li Hong's ability to deal with it calmly, these gossips still brought some trouble to her life. As a front-line host, she often becomes the focus of attention and doubts.
Many people began to speculate and doubt privately whether there was an unknown secret behind the host, who was known as the "goddess of intellectuality".
The feeling of being spied on and slandered was like a hammer beating, which made Li Hong feel deeply depressed and troubled. She seems to have turned beyond recognition, and has become a "treacherous" and "ungrateful" character, which is completely inconsistent with the firm and sincere character she has always adhered to.
In the fifth part, the dilemmas caused by rumors are endless
Although Li Hong was able to face the rumors with a smile on her face, these baseless gossip still had an impact and hindrance on her life and career that could not be ignored.
As the brightest star on the public stage - a first-line host, she is often questioned and maliciously speculated from all walks of life.
More and more people are secretly snooping and speculating in private, whether this famous host, known as the "goddess of knowledge", really has hidden motives that deviate from the public eye as described in the rumors? Some people even have the mentality of watching a good show, looking forward to digging out the so-called "explosive news" from Li Hong.
This feeling of being watched and suspected made Li Hong, who has always been low-key, feel depressed and troubled. She felt as if she had been distorted and misunderstood, portrayed as a "treacherous" and "ungrateful" person, in stark contrast to the integrity she had always displayed.
Whether in front of or after people, Li Hong has to act cautiously and carefully protect herself, so as not to be maliciously interpreted and used by people with ulterior motives. She must always be on high alert to prevent herself from falling into the distractions and hurts caused by those unfounded rumors again.
This kind of survival pressure and many troubles made Li Hong feel physically and mentally exhausted. The girl who used to be innocent and kind, loves to learn, and works hard, but now she has to be vigilant at all times, for fear that she will become the "protagonist of rumors" and be criticized by everyone.
In the sixth part, adversity casts the sublimation of quality
Thankfully, Li Hong was not overwhelmed by these setbacks and doubts. She always maintained a calm heart and a calm attitude, and elegantly resolved all criticism.
In fact, Li Hong has experienced an otherworldly quality of will along the way. From the difficulties of the family environment in his childhood, to the bitterness of being forced to drop out of school and work; From the resolute decision to run away from marriage to the struggle to re-embark on the road of study, she has stepped out of her own life path step by step with her perseverance and courage.
There is no doubt that Li Hong has achieved remarkable achievements today, but these did not happen overnight. With her unwavering hands, she tore through the dark curtains, fighting difficulties and overcoming obstacles along the way.
It is precisely because of countless hardships and experiences that Li Hong has been forged today's calm and boundless mind, and can calmly deal with the turmoil of the world.
Looking back, she was inconspicuous at that time, her family was poor, but she had an endless thirst for knowledge. In order to subsidize his family's expenses, he had to interrupt his studies and go out to work, working hard day and night.
In order to realize her dream of studying, she resolutely resisted the arrangement of an arranged marriage. In the long journey of life, she continued to break through many difficulties with her perseverance and willpower, and finally stepped onto the stage of the host and became a leader in the industry.
It is precisely because of the countless hardships and obstacles that Li Hong can face the complexities of life so calmly. She knows very well that she has been tempered by the baptism of time, and even if she is slandered and questioned now, it is only a trivial setback.
With such a tenacious inner world, no amount of wind and rain can shake her in the slightest.
Therefore, Li Hong's success today is not accidental, but the inevitable result of repeated adversity. It is with her tenacious fighting spirit and courage to move forward that she gradually changed the trajectory of her destiny and finally climbed to the top of her career.