1. At the age of 50, Shi Xiaohong returned home with secret steps, full of enthusiasm to give his dear wife an unexpected surprise.
However, he was negligent and forgot to bring the key to the warm door of the house, so he had no choice but to temporarily settle down in the hotel the next day.
Time flies, time is like an arrow, Shi Xiaohong has gone through five glorious decades of life. During the year, he had just finished a film shot in another province and rushed back home non-stop.
Although the night is dark, he has a small surprise in his heart, eager to bring a sweet surprise to his beloved wife Xie Lan.
So, Shi Xiaohong quietly came to the front of the house, lest she disturb his wife and ruin the surprise. However, fate seemed to play tricks on him, and just as he reached for the key, he was surprised to find that his pocket was empty, and it turned out that he had forgotten the key! Shi Xiaohong was anxious and knocked vigorously outside the door, but Xie Lan, who was asleep, never heard any sound.
Helpless, Shi Xiaohong could only sigh deeply, and turned around to find a small hotel nearby to take shelter in.
Looking at his wife's reaction, Shi Xiaohong secretly rejoiced that although the surprise plan failed to come true, at least it didn't make his beloved worry about his whereabouts and safety. He smiled shyly, determined to think twice before surprising his wife next time, so as not to find himself in such an awkward situation again.
Second, the process of the two meeting and falling in love
The two met for the first time in a movie and developed a crush on each other
It was a film called "Yellow Earth and Blue Earth", and Shi Xiaohong and Xie Lan's first encounter was at this passionate shooting site. At that time, Xie Lan served as the heroine of the film, and was full of curiosity about the male lead that he was about to work with.
The director replied succinctly and clearly: "Shi Xiaohong." ”
Little Red? What a poetic name, Xie Lan couldn't help but gently caress his chin with his fingers, lost in thought. Could it be that this actor has a delicate and handsome appearance and an elegant temperament? The mind involuntarily paints a vague portrait of this mysterious partner.
However, the director's next move completely subverted her imagination. I saw him pointing to the crowd on the side, and said casually: "The one holding a barbell and wearing a vest over there is Shi Xiaohong."
When Xie Lan turned his head to look at the voice, he was greeted by a muscular hunk with a strong physique and a fierce appearance, and the green tendons on his hands were impressively visible, showing the huge strength contained in his body, as if he could easily lift her up with only one hand, and his majestic arms were dazzling.
Over time, from the initial strangeness to each other, to the later friendly companionship, and finally to becoming a couple in love, the process is picturesque and unforgettable.
At first, in the days when they first met in the crew, Xie Lan and Shi Xiaohong did not establish a deep friendship. Whenever the shooting is over, Xie Lan always chooses a secluded corner, quietly picks up a book, and immerses himself in the ocean of knowledge.
And whenever Shi Xiaohong walked past her, she was always deeply attracted by her preoccupied look.
After many observations, Shi Xiaohong gradually found that this quiet girl has always maintained the same habit, no matter when and where, as long as she has leisure time, she will devote herself to the sea of books, as if completely isolated from the world around her.
This rare spirit of concentration made Shi Xiaohong deeply admired, so he mustered up the courage to take the initiative to talk to her and ask her about the type of books she was reading.
In this way, after getting along for a period of time, the two became more and more familiar from the initial strangeness, and developed from familiarity to good friends who talked about everything. One day, Shi Xiaohong even visited Xie Lan's home as a friend.
As soon as he stepped through the door, he was struck by the chaos of the room—a room filled with boxes and bottles of all kinds, covered in a thick layer of dust, apparently unattended for a long time.
Shi Xiaohong proposed to Xie Lan through wine, and then the two officially entered the marriage hall.
Once, Shi Xiaohong and a few friends made an appointment to travel to Changchun. Before leaving, he specially invited Xie Lan to accompany him, but unfortunately, Xie Lan politely declined his invitation.
Halfway through the journey, Shi Xiaohong's car unfortunately had a rear-end collision, although there were no casualties, but the thrill at that time still made them palpitate.
When night fell, everyone arrived at the hotel to rest. At the dinner table, after three rounds of wine, Shi Xiaohong couldn't help but sigh that he was over thirty years old, but he was still alone. Seeing this, the friends around him said to him frankly: "Brother, if you really like a certain girl, you should be brave enough to confess, otherwise I am afraid that you will miss the opportunity."
The sound of the phone in the distance shocked our protagonist Shi Xiaohong, and the sudden marriage proposal made him have no time to answer, and the other party had hung up the phone in a hurry.
It wasn't until he woke up from the hangover the next day that Shi Xiaohong realized that his words and demeanor under the influence of alcohol were really embarrassing, and the shame was like a heavy boulder, so that he had nowhere to hide, however, just when Shi Xiaohong was worried, Xie Lan from the other end of the phone surprised everyone and accepted his marriage proposal, so after this unexpected proposal, the two quickly established a relationship, and soon after, smoothly entered another new stage of life - newlyweds.
3. Tell the story of marriage
The two resolutely supported Dink, and Shi Xiaohong understood his wife's worries
After entering the palace of marriage, Shi Xiaohong and Xie Lan jointly decided to give up childbearing temporarily and chose to live a dink life. One of the most important reasons is that Shelan's parents are both deaf and mute, and she is deeply worried that her children will inherit this physical defect.
As a considerate husband, Shi Xiaohong expressed full understanding and full support for his wife's concerns.
It was undoubtedly extremely rare for a newlywed couple to be willing to sacrifice their reproductive rights in order to avoid the obstacles that their offspring might encounter. However, since both are career-oriented actors, it is also a wise trade-off to put the fertility issue aside for the time being and focus on the development of their careers.
And just like that, they firmly embarked on the Dink road.
Shi Xiaohong's thoughtful care for his wife and parents-in-law in life
Despite her busy work, Shi Xiaohong has never neglected her care and love for her wife and parents. Whenever Xie Lan finished filming and went home physically and mentally exhausted, Shi Xiaohong always silently took care of everything at home for her.
Once, as soon as Xie Lan stepped through the door, he was surprised to find that the originally cluttered room had been cleaned up in an orderly manner and the floor had been wiped spotlessly. It turned out that while she was away, Shi Xiaohong carried out a thorough cleaning at home alone, and even carefully purchased laundry detergent for her to help her wash the clothes that had accumulated for a long time, so that his tired wife could return to a clean and warm family environment.
In addition to her endless love for her wife, Shi Xiaohong selflessly poured this deep affection into her father-in-law and mother-in-law. He often buys daily necessities for the two elderly people and accompanies them on leisurely walks, showing the thoughtfulness and care of family members.
In the middle of winter one year, Xie Lan's mother ushered in the seventieth beautiful spring and autumn of her life. However, Xie Lan was unable to return home in time to accompany him because he was filming a new drama.
After learning this information, Shi Xiaohong didn't think about it, and immediately set about preparing a grand birthday banquet for her mother-in-law, and sincerely invited many relatives and friends to participate in the grand event.
On the day of the banquet, her mother was surrounded by strong family affection, and Xie Lan also deeply thanked her husband for his careful arrangement and care.
Shi Xiaohong's romantic surprise action
For a man full of romantic feelings, creating a surprise for his wife is undoubtedly an excellent way to show his love. In this regard, Shi Xiaohong's performance can be called easy.
Once, when Sheran returned home from a busy day of filming, she was amazed by what she saw: a table of fragrant delicacies and a beautiful cake to decorate.
Although Shi Xiao's infrared watch seems to be rough and bold, in private, he takes care of his wife. When Xie Lan was in a bad mood during the filming and gained a little weight, Shi Xiaohong was even keenly aware of it.
In order to help his wife recover her health, he did not hesitate to take her outdoors for a running exercise and accompany her to maintain a beautiful figure.
An actor's career often needs to be on the move, and Shi Xiaohong will also use these opportunities to bring some unexpected surprises to his wife. Once, he planned to pick a beautiful bouquet of flowers for his wife to show his heart, but he couldn't find any flowers at the local market.
Faced with a dilemma, he decided to buy a few fresh cucumbers from a farmer instead of flowers. Although this idea is a little immature, this sincere care and thoughtfulness makes people feel full of romance.