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In 1984, a unique and powerful Renaissance swept through the ancient city of Beijing, and it was this trend that brought an enthusiastic young director Chen Kaige to the fore, who won the highest honor with his first film masterpiece "Yellow Earth".
The film was rooted in real life and deeply dissected human nature, causing a sensation at the time that was like an earthquake, allowing the young director to successfully enter the Beijing literary and art circles and sweep the trend.
On this cusp, Hong Huang, a famous lady in Beijing, has a deep curiosity and admiration for this talented young director. Born into a family of scholars, Hong Huang was bathed in the family spirit of his grandmother and mother who pursued knowledge and strive for perfection since he was a child.
Her maternal grandfather was a well-known literati, and her mother was an aristocratic lady with an elegant temperament and a good conversation.
However, unlike other ladies, Hong Huang has an independent personality and does not agree with the "smile without showing teeth" and behaving in a disciplined manner instilled by his mother. When she was 12 years old, her parents sent her to the United States to study English and foreign affairs, expecting her to become an outstanding diplomat.
However, after Hong Huang returned to China after completing his studies, he chose to work in a foreign-funded enterprise.
In stark contrast, Chen Kaige brought a new feeling to Hong Huang. This talented and polite young man has the same style as Hong Huang's grandfather, which makes Hong Huang fascinated.
The two have similar interests, quickly fall in love, and get married.
After getting married, Hong Huang did not feel at home as his mother expected, but continued to be active in the business world and was keen on social interactions. Chen Kaige, on the other hand, hopes that his wife can play the traditional role of "good wife and mother" and devote herself to family life.
The huge difference in the concept of life between the two made their newlywed Yan'er sweetness soon fall into crisis.
In 1991, when Chen Kaige's directing career was in full swing, his film "Singing While Walking" won many awards in one fell swoop and won wide acclaim in the international film industry. At a film festival, although Hong Huang was reluctant, he reluctantly agreed to Chen Kaige's invitation.
She originally thought that this was just an ordinary public event, but she didn't expect Chen Kaige to suddenly make some arrogant remarks at the end of the event, which aroused her anger.
At the moment of leaving, Chen Kaige said to Hong Huang a little proudly: "From now on, I will also be among the upper class." ”
For Hong Huang, this is undoubtedly Chen Kaige's best interpretation and footnote of her "utilization". In her eyes, Chen Kaige entered the marriage hall hand in hand with her because of her illustrious family background and rich network resources, rather than sincerely cherishing her as a person.
However, Hong Huang could no longer endure Chen Kaige's worldly and vain market atmosphere, and this patience had reached its limit.
So, Hong Huang clenched his determination at that moment and decided to part ways with Chen Kaige. It was only not long after the end of the film festival trip that she resolutely filed a divorce request for Chen Kaige.
Although Chen Kaige was reluctant to give up and tried his best to keep it, Hong Huang's determination was like a rock and indestructible.
As a Hong Huang from a famous family, her desire for freedom and pursuit of ideals make her unable to tolerate being used and exploited by others. As soon as the decision to divorce was made, she immediately began to deal with the relevant matters with a resolute attitude and without hesitation.
After divorcing Chen Kaige, Hong Huang did not give up on himself because of this, but pursued his career ideals more firmly. She has founded a number of high-profile fashion magazines in China, such as the popular "iLOOK World City" and "Youth Family" for young people, and has made outstanding contributions to the vigorous development of China's fashion industry.
In particular, since its inception in 2003, iLOOK World City has always focused on local Chinese designers and has never involved the introduction of foreign designers and their works.
Over the years, the magazine has vividly presented thousands of outstanding domestic designers and their extraordinary works to a wide audience, which is really valuable.
While achieving brilliant achievements in his career, Hong Huang's marriage road is full of ups and downs and thorns. After divorcing Chen Kaige, she once fell in love and entered the marriage hall with a French man.
However, this marriage did not last long, and the two parties finally chose to part ways due to the huge difference in life philosophy and values.
Faced with several failed marriage experiences, Hong Huang's heart was turbulent, but she was never discouraged. She firmly believes that one day she will be able to meet the soul mate who shares her interests.
In fact, the dawn of luck quietly came in 2004.
As early as 2004, Hong Huang met Yang Xiaoping, a close friend who was quite a researcher in a certain field. Surprisingly, this Yang Xiaoping is not a well-educated elite in everyone's eyes, nor is he a descendant of a famous family, but his unreserved understanding and support for Hong Huang is exactly what Hong Huang has been looking forward to for a long time.
However, Hong Huang's feelings for Yang Xiaoping are deep and warm, and her thoughts about him are surging like a tide. Under her mother's repeated admonitions, she firmly expressed her heart: "I am deeply intoxicated by the good times I spent with him, and having children only makes our lives more fulfilling and happy." ”
In the face of her mother's strong opposition, Hong Huang did not flinch because of this, she knew that Yang Xiaoping was the one who could bring her real happiness. So, she resolutely went against her mother's expectations and chose to walk into the palace of marriage hand in hand with Yang Xiaoping.
After marriage, Yang Xiaoping always respected and supported Hong Huang's determination to pursue his career, and his thoughtfulness, understanding and support made Hong Huang feel warm. Once, Hong Huang took the initiative to ask Yang Xiaoping if she would be dissatisfied with her long hours of working outside the home and neglect to take care of her family.
Yang Xiaoping responded affectionately: "Everyone comes to this world with their own mission."
Hearing this, the doubts in Hong Huang's heart suddenly disappeared. She deeply realized that Yang Xiaoping was completely different from those husbands in the past, he was so tolerant and open-minded, and fully supported her dreams.
Soon after their marriage, they adopted a lively and lovely little girl together, and together they created a new family full of love and warmth. As a stepmother, Hong Huang cares for her stepdaughter, but she does not force her daughter to call her "Mom", but cherishes the intimate relationship with her like a friend.
In public, Hong Huang always shows a brave and straightforward attitude, she never hides her opinions, and often mercilessly criticizes and satirizes the moral shortcomings of some celebrities.
For example, when Chen Kaige's film "Wu Ji" caused controversy, Hong Huang bluntly accused him of being "narrow-minded" on social media; Regarding the well-known director Jiang Wen's work "One Step Away" was ridiculed by the rich second-generation Wang Sicong, Hong Huang resolutely defended the reputation of director Jiang Wen and publicly condemned Wang Sicong's inappropriate remarks.
What Wang Sicong couldn't have foreseen was that the much-talked-about film "One Step Away" turned out to be the generous investment of Wanda Group, which was run by his noble father! However, his reckless speech not only made Hong Huang feel extremely angry, but also angered his own father, and suffered strong reproach from Wang Jianlin.
And Hong Huang, who once had an agile and sharp speech style, has also aimed his guns at his peers in the fashion industry. Su Mang, a former editor of a fashion magazine, was unfortunately the target of her attack, and Hong Huang unceremoniously accused her of "impure thinking".
In order to ridicule Su Mang's kitsch behavior, Hong Huang even criticized her mercilessly in his autobiographical novel "Miss Zhang".
It can be seen that Hong Huang is a person who dares to speak up and express his views frankly. However, it is worth noting that although she always behaves sharply in public, when she returns to the family, she can quickly remove this "armor" and transform into a gentle, virtuous, quiet and elegant wife and mother.
In recent years, as her career has gradually stabilized, Hong Huang has chosen to spend the rest of her life with her husband, renting a piece of farmland in the suburbs and living a leisurely "pastoral life".
She will go to the fields and cultivate the fields herself, indulge in the embrace of nature with her husband, and enjoy the peaceful and harmonious good time.