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As we all know, South Korea is not as big as one of our provinces, but people in their country have an inexplicable self-confidence and always think that South Korea is very big.
When I was studying in Korea, almost all the Koreans around me thought so, and I was speechless until I saw the world map they had learned, and I really understood why they were like that.
So I wanted to correct their concept, so I invited a few Korean classmates to come to China to play, who would have thought that as soon as the plane landed, they began to say that China was all kinds of bad, but after ten days of sightseeing, they cried and apologized to me on the day they left!
01
After graduating from university, I chose to study in Korea, and at first I was looking forward to my trip to this country, but when I actually started my study abroad, I regretted it a lot.
At that time, I was faced with a lot of options and many schools to study, and they were from different countries, so I chose Korea without hesitation.
When my family learned about my choice, they didn't understand why I chose to study in such a country, because they saw Korea as a very small country and didn't like people in this country from the bottom of their hearts.
In fact, until now, I don't understand what happened to me at that time, I just wanted to go, and now I think about it, either because I was tempted by food, or I was obsessed with which star I wanted to chase stars.
In short, I came to South Korea with great expectations, but reality gave me a merciless slap in the face.
After I arrived in South Korea, the first thing I came into contact with was the Chinese countryman, which really confirmed the saying, the villager saw the countryman, the tears were in his eyes, and he met someone who spoke the same language in a foreign country, which was very kind.
They came to Korea a year or two before me, and they told me not to expect too much from Korea, because the greater the expectation, the greater the disappointment.
At first I didn't understand what they meant, but after three months of living here, I realized it.
Eight out of ten Koreans are arrogant, the remaining two are conceited, machismo can't stand it, let's put aside the Korean culture, but look at Korean men, you know why South Korea's fertility rate is low, why Korean women don't want to get married and have children, there must be a reason.
I just arrived in South Korea and need to introduce myself, I am a very introverted person, I am nervous about this person scene, and finally finished the introduction, the Korean classmate in the class, still a man, came to me and said that my match today exposed all the flesh on my stomach, and I should wear a loose version of the clothes.
My Korean male classmate, on the premise that we had never met once, the first thing people said to me was "You are wearing the wrong clothes!" ”
I'm already afraid of society.,After he said this, I didn't know how to put on clothes.,And Korean boys PUA are really masters.,He said I'm not good-looking.,Not good figure.,So help me correct something.,I feel like he's right.。
But later, after the senior sister's click, I had an epiphany on the spot, isn't this a proper PUA me, and I don't know him, why do I just introduce myself, and he can comment on my dressing.
Even after we went out to dinner once or twice, he thought I liked him, and I was really speechless, so I took a detour when I saw him in the future.
In addition, I really can't stand the strict culture of seniors and seniors in South Korea, and I can't talk back when I am taught by my predecessors, let alone talk back, even if I am younger than you, as long as people learn earlier than you, I have to shout my seniors when I meet.
Secondly, when I was studying in Korea, the herniated disc in my waist became more serious, and I had to bend down and bow when I saw everyone, and I greeted my seniors in this way, and my waist never got better.
What's even more outrageous is the self-confidence engraved in the bones of Koreans, most Koreans look down on foreigners, and their natural sense of superiority really doesn't know where it comes from.
During the time I was studying in South Korea, I talked about a Korean boyfriend, and it was the first time I saw someone who had to be AA no matter what he did, but he chose to respect one person and one way of life.
02
After talking to this Korean boyfriend for a while, I really thought that Chinese men were really nice, and I remember that time I followed him to meet his family.
According to Chinese etiquette, when you visit your elders, you must bring something with you, but your Korean boyfriend not only didn't let you bring it, but also said, "I just let you go to the house to play, not to say that you are going to get married or something, you don't have to be so formal!" ”
After hearing this, I was about to explode, but in the end, I thought about it, it was probably the cultural differences between the two countries, and I took a deep breath and endured it.
Then I told him that in China, when a boy takes a woman to meet his parents, he recognizes the girl and wants to enter the palace of marriage with the girl. ”
Angry that I didn't buy anything, I went to his house, sure enough, his mother saw me coming empty-handed, her face collapsed directly, and in the subsequent conversation, intentionally or unintentionally, she said that I was not polite, did not understand etiquette, and the Chinese were indeed arrogant people.
At first, when I heard her mother say this, I respected her as an elder, and I kept giving my boyfriend a look and trying him to speak for me, but no one said anything.
After his mother asked me if I could cook, I would teach my husband and children at home in the future, serve my in-laws, and I would be disliked if I couldn't cook, and said that I didn't know how Chinese tutors were like this.
Later, he said even more excessively, "Sure enough, people in small countries are so rude, but I can also understand that surviving in such a backward small country is like that!" ”
I couldn't bear it, I didn't need to endure it anymore, I replied directly to his mother, "First of all, your son didn't let me buy gifts, so you don't have to be angry with me here, and secondly, we Chinese understand etiquette very well, and we have never seen the first time we saw our son's object, and we insulted it, and even rose to the country, this is what you call upbringing?" ”
"You can say that China is a small country, is a backward country, it means that your personal knowledge and vision are here, you South Korea a country still doesn't know if there is a big province in China, and I really don't know who gave you the courage to dare to say that China is small, and now China is not lagging behind, you won't stay in the seventies and eighties, auntie people have to keep pace with the times!"
She was stunned by my output, she didn't expect me to be able to scold her like this, and her boyfriend didn't expect it, so she hurriedly stepped forward to pull me, "You are not a good thing, your mother is so bullying, you are silent, we are finished, even if I don't get married in this life, I won't look for you!" ”
Later, my boyfriend came to me again, and I verbally refused, and I told my senior sister about it, and the senior sister said that Korean boys are famous mom boys all over the world, although their sense of male power is very serious, but in front of their parents, they are exceptionally obedient.
Then when I said that my boyfriend's mother disliked the Chinese elementary school, the senior sister was shocked and said that she didn't understand, and at this time, the Korean elementary school girl next to me spoke.
"Why don't you understand, the map clearly shows that China is very small, a small country, so we don't pay attention to it, and even we think that you Chinese come to study in our country because China is too poor to survive!"
I can't help my temper when I hear this, a small country? Did she really look at the map, I was about to step forward to fight, I was stopped by my senior sister, she let me take a look at the map they studied, I was shocked, sure enough, I covered my ears and stole the bell to see the Koreans!
03
The senior sister invited those Korean schoolgirls to come to China to play, we were just about to have a holiday, and the Korean schoolgirls agreed without thinking, and we all held our breath and wanted to prove that we were right.
When they arrived in China, as soon as they got off the plane, they were shocked by the scene in front of them, "Dafa! Sister, this is the best airport in your country! ”
My senior sister and I said that China's airports are not much different, especially in popular tourist cities, and the airports are better, they don't believe it, but they haven't closed their mouths during the subsequent trips.
I took them to Chongqing, the magic capital, to let her feel a wave of high-tech trains shuttling through buildings, and then took them to Hangzhou, to feel a wave of Yiwu shopping madness.
Then there are Yunnan, Suzhou, Shanghai, Beijing, etc., they are not only impressed by the beautiful scenery, but also captured by the Chinese food, they feel that this is all the cities in China.
I said no, it's just a few, and we've only visited a small part of these cities, and if you do a good job, you won't have to go for a few years.
They were shocked by China's big picture again, apologized very sincerely for their previous inappropriate remarks, and said that they no longer wanted to return to China, they wanted to settle in China!
Looking at their current attitude, and the kind of unremitting when they first came to China, I couldn't be happier in my heart, when I first came, I remember that the plane was late, so they let them take a taxi.
My senior sister and I suddenly rolled our eyes to the sky, "Please don't take the eyes of your small countrymen, look at our big China, we say that the plane takes two hours, and it is estimated that it will take two days to take a taxi!" ”
After so many days of playing, this group of people no longer dared to say anything like China, and when they returned to China, each of them left tears of remorse, saying that they did not want to leave, and they regretted saying China.
I bought each of them a real map of the world for them to keep as a souvenir to see what the world is really like, and I hope that they can go home and publicize what they have seen and heard in China, and correct some Koreans' views on China.
With the rise of China, some countries continue to smear China because they are afraid, which is really speechless, but it also shows that they are afraid of China, and China is really getting stronger and stronger.
Some international friends have detailed the news that smeared China, but paper can't contain the fire after all, and the truth will be revealed to the world sooner or later.
And with the development of tourism, China is the best choice for many international friends, as long as they come to China, they will definitely refresh their perception of China, and then they will promote it after returning to China, whether it is with family or friends, or on social accounts, it is beneficial to China.
Some people say that what is the use of changing the minds of one or two people, of course it works, it adds up, people will pass it on, and personal experience is not more convincing than any evidence? Do people say I'm right?
(This article declares: This article is a short story, the content is purely fictional, please watch it rationally, the picture is selected from the Internet, and the infringement is deleted!) ）