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Now, Yu Li, who has entered her birthday, is alone and immersed in this bustling city full of steel and concrete, spending the rest of her life. In the past, she was an eye-catching "sexy goddess" in the entertainment industry, so much so that the famous director Zhang Yimou deeply admired her and praised her as a "dream lover".
Looking back on the past, Yu Li's graceful figure, beautiful face and eyes full of moving aura are enough to make many male audiences crazy.
However, as the years passed, Yu Li gradually shifted her focus to the pursuit of her career. She resolutely shuttles between the various crews and devotes herself to each new role.
However, opportunities are always fleeting, and she finally missed the best opportunity to start a happy married life, and it is difficult to escape the fate of being lonely and old.
Looking back on Yu Li's life journey, it is not difficult to find that she has dreamed of becoming an outstanding dancer since she was a child. At the age of 12, she was finally admitted to the Hunan Provincial Song and Dance Troupe as she wished, and regarded dance as her life's work.
However, fate often likes to play tricks on people. After spending 6 years in the song and dance troupe, a sudden stage accident completely overturned the trajectory of her life.
It was an ordinary day, and Yu Li was participating in a crucial performance. However, during the last move of the performance, she unfortunately fell off the stage at a height of 17 meters.
Luckily, she fell into the pool and survived, otherwise the consequences would have been unimaginable. Even so, she suffered a severe fracture in her arm, and the pain was excruciating.
When Yu Li woke up from her coma, the doctor told her solemnly: "You can no longer dance, your arms can no longer withstand the vigorous movement." This was a bolt from the blue for Leigh, and she could only lie quietly in the hospital bed, hoping that it was just a nightmare.
Just when Yu Li was at a low point in her life, a chance encounter brought her a ray of hope. One day in 1982, Yu Li was invited by a friend to visit her friend Xia Gang.
At that time, Xia Gang was still an acting student, and he was anxious about his graduation project.
When Xia Gang saw Yu Li's graceful figure and her smile as bright as the spring sun for the first time, he seemed to feel the long-lost youthful atmosphere. Yu Li's tall figure, fair complexion like snowflakes, coupled with those seemingly intelligent eyes, shocked him.
Faced with such a precious opportunity, Xia Gang did not hesitate at all, and immediately sent a sincere invitation to Yu Li, hoping that she could play an important role in her upcoming graduation work "We Are Young".
Although her dream of dancing is gone, Yu Li's love for performing arts remains the same, and she accepts this challenge without hesitation.
It was this performance experience that opened the door to the road of acting for Yu Li, who was only 19 years old.
With her excellent appearance and excellent acting talent, Yu Li quickly emerged in the entertainment industry and became a leader among many actresses. In 1985, she officially joined Zhuying Studio, where she met Zhang Yimou, a photographer who was not yet famous at that time.
That day, Yu Li was wearing a pair of skinny jeans, and her slender legs were perfectly displayed, which made people unable to take their eyes off. Her face is even more stunningly beautiful, and a slight smile can touch the softest places in people's hearts.
Since then, Zhang Yimou has been deeply attracted by Yu Li's unique charm and regards her as the "dream lover" in his heart.
Zhang Yimou still clearly remembers the scene when they first met. He humorously recalled: "I remember that there were three male actors on the set arguing over her.
Although his heart is full of expectations, Zhang Yimou is just an ordinary photographer after all, and he doesn't dare to think anything wrong about Li.
With the passage of time, Zhang Yimou gradually transformed this hidden feeling into a deep friendship. They started as strangers, gradually developed deep friendships, and eventually became confidants who talked about everything.
Now, many years have passed, whenever Zhang Yimou has made brilliant achievements in the film industry, Yu Li will always be there in person and give him the most sincere blessings with her warm smile; Similarly, whenever Yu Li encounters setbacks on the road of acting, Zhang Yimou will always give her endless encouragement and support.
This long and sincere friendship is undoubtedly the most valuable treasure in Yu Li's life.
However, on the road of love, Yu Li has experienced twists and turns. In 1995, she fell in love with the talented actor Ma Jingtao. At first, Ma Jingtao was considerate of Li's care.
He deeply understood Yu Li's dissatisfaction with his addiction to alcohol, and for Yu Li's sake, he was ruthless and resolutely got rid of this bad habit. The relationship between the two of them is like a calm lake, and they have entered the stage of discussing marriage matters.
However, at a critical turning point, Yu Li suddenly proposed to end the relationship. The reason is simply because both parties are fully committed to their respective careers, and although there have been no conflicts or disputes, the relationship has gradually faded unconsciously.
Yu Li longed for more love and companionship from Ma Jingtao, but Ma Jingtao was engrossed in her work at that time, and made a painful choice between her relationship and career, so she could not fully take care of Yu Li's emotional needs.
The news of the breakup was like a heavy slap in the face, hitting Jing Tao hard. This once peerless man cherished and relied on Li's existence so much, and even confessed in front of the public that Yu Li was one of the three most precious women in his life.
At one point, he fell into a deep depression and almost walked into the abyss of self-destruction.
And Yu Li is also full of mixed feelings about this. On the one hand, she is grateful to Ma Jingtao for his deep friendship with her; On the other hand, she has made up her mind to end the relationship in a peaceful way, avoid more strife and hurt that may arise in the future, and leave each other with the last good memories.
After the breakup, Yu Li put all her energy into work, trying to cover up the scars in her heart through her busy life. At a friend's party, she met the famous host Zeng Guocheng by chance.
This young man, who was four years younger than her, instantly ignited Yu Li's hope for re-pursuit of love. They are passionately in love with each other, as if every day they want to snuggle up, kiss, and date...... Everything is as unreserved as a couple in love.
However, Zeng Guocheng is still young after all, and his thoughts and opinions are still a little young. The gossip that kept surging around finally made Yu Li unbearable. Once again, she chose to end the relationship peacefully, and despite the pain in her heart, she still hopes to make the last good memories for both of them.
After experiencing that emotional torture full of ups and downs, Yu Li suddenly stepped into the public eye, causing a heated discussion about her private life. Rumors poured in, and she was even accused of having an inextricable relationship with a married Hong Kong and Macau chaebol, and was maliciously slandered as "Hong Kong's first mistress".
There are also rumors that she has been violently attacked by the main room, not only physically injured, but also infertile, however, Yu Li has maintained her usual silence, she did not make any direct response to this, but chose to keep a low profile, and maintained a cautious attitude towards the veracity of these rumors.
Looking back on Yu Li's tortuous emotional journey, we can't help but feel emotional: thankfully, she at least once had a sincere and long-term friendship - that is, a deep friendship with the famous director Zhang Yimou.
Dating back to the moment they first met, Zhang Yimou was attracted by Yu Li's unique charm and was unforgettable. That day, Yu Li was wearing a pair of skinny jeans, and her slender legs were perfectly displayed, which made people look at her.
Her dazzling appearance is even more stunningly beautiful, a shallow smile can make people's hearts move, Zhang Yimou humorously recalled that at that time, there were three male actors on the set who fought for her.
Although Zhang Yimou was just an unknown photographer at that time, and he did not have the courage to express his heart to Yu Li, his deep appreciation for her was very sincere.
He regards Yu Li as a "dream lover", and wholeheartedly transforms this affection into respect and love for her.
As time passed, they went from strangers to confidants who talked about everything. Zhang Yimou sublimated the deep love in his heart into a purer and more eternal spiritual friendship.
From acquaintance to intimacy, they became the most important friends in each other's lives.
Time flies, Zhang Yimou has successfully directed many popular film works, and every time he wins an award, Yu Li will always appear on the scene, sending him the most sincere blessings with her warm and enthusiastic smile.
On the contrary, when Yu Li encounters difficulties in her acting career, Zhang Yimou will not hesitate to give her encouragement and support, and provide her with valuable opinions and suggestions.
This innocent friendship has gone beyond simple love or dependence, and has become an indispensable spiritual pillar in Yu Li's life. She has experienced twists and turns on the road of relationship, and it is undoubtedly a great blessing in life to have such a close friend.
Perhaps, this friendship is more precious and lasting than love.
Since the perfect ending of the TV series "Micro Times" in 2014, Ms. Yu Li, who is over the age of old, bravely chose to leave the brilliant showbiz focus, return and enjoy the quiet life she dreamed of.
Looking back on the past, she was like a blooming delicate flower at that time, leading people's attention; However, as time passed, she was finally freed from the seemingly endless shackles of characters and was able to return to her true self.
Since then, she no longer has to run around for each new work, avoiding falling into the whirlpool of so-called rumors, so that she can regain control of her life and live an orderly life.
In this bustling and noisy city, Ms. Yu Li found her own pure land, and sometimes gathered with a few old friends to reminisce about the past and share those interesting stories.
Although they have lost the grace of their youth, their love for life is still the same, and their vision for the future is still firm.
Faced with a solitary life, Ms. Yu Li showed extraordinary calmness. When she was young, she had experienced the sweetness of love and also endured the pain of love. However, with the precipitation of the years, she has gained insight into the truth of many things, and has learned to accept the gifts and givings of life.
Perhaps, marriage is not an inevitable stage of life, and being single can also live a fulfilling and happy life. Ms. Yu Li's current life situation is undoubtedly the best interpretation of this concept.
She did not feel sorry for herself because of loneliness, on the contrary, she found unprecedented ease and pleasure in this exclusive freedom.
Some people may feel sorry for Ms. Yu Li's lonely life, but she herself doesn't care about it. Because she knows that marriage is not the only destination in a woman's life, whether to enter the palace of marriage is only a choice in life, not a difficult problem that must be answered.
We should respect and appreciate Ms. Yu Li's unique understanding of life. In this materialistic era, she dared to break free from the shackles of the world and pursue a maverick lifestyle, and this sincere love for life is truly admirable.
Looking back on Ms. Yu Li's life, she has struggled in the ocean of love many times, and she has also deeply felt the pain caused by emotional trauma. But she never gave in because of this, but tried to find her own path in life with a more determined and courageous attitude.
In fact, celibacy is not a tragedy of fate, on the contrary, it represents the ultimate in uninhibitedness, individuality and choice! Through Ms. Yu Li's personal experience, we have profoundly understood this truth of life full of wisdom and depth.
As fellow women in modern society, we should also unswervingly steer our own life paths, have the courage to face the endless possibilities of life, and boldly pursue the deepest desires of our hearts.
It is true that living alone may bring loneliness, but this loneliness gives us precious alone time, helps us find our long-lost selves, and establishes the direction and value of life.
Let us applaud an independent woman like Ms. Yu Li, and wish her and all female friends with free souls to embrace the warmth and beauty of this world in the years to come.