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Preface
The son's death and mother-in-law sued her daughter-in-law for reimbursement of the medical expenses paid in advance, and the court's decision has attracted attention. How the incident developed and what do you think about it, let's take a look.
The mother-in-law sued her daughter-in-law for reimbursement of medical expenses
The matter of the mother-in-law suing her daughter-in-law has finally come to an end, so what is going on?
Although every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and it is normal for the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to be difficult to get along, what a serious situation it is to get into the court.
It turns out that everything is still because of money!
Time also starts from before the death of Ms. Wang's husband Mr. Li, Mr. Li since he married Ms. Wang, more than ten years of marriage was finally cut off due to illness, during Mr. Li's illness, his family took good care of him, among which his mother Han was meticulous care for his children, and paid related medical expenses up to more than 30 yuan many times.
And Mr. Li's wife saw her mother-in-law behaving like this, and she also said that her mother-in-law would pay it back in the future.
However, the patient passed away in 2017. The matter was thought to be over because of Mr. Li's death, but he didn't want his mother Han to sue his daughter-in-law in court after Mr. Li's death.
The reason why Han made such a decision was based on her daughter-in-law's previous promise to repay the medical expenses, so in her eyes, this money was a recognized debt relationship.
On the other side, Ms. Wang, the daughter-in-law, doesn't think so. Ms. Wang felt that Han's actions should be based on family affection and should not be counted within the scope of legal responsibility.
This rather controversial relationship of responsibility directly pushed the discussion to the top, and everyone rushed to express their opinions.
The topic aroused heated discussions among netizens
This matter has a high degree of attention, and it is also because the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been difficult to achieve peace since ancient times, so it has also been divided into two gangs in the comment area, with daughters-in-law and mothers-in-law.
Many daughters-in-law think that Ms. Wang's idea is not wrong, after all, Mr. Li is her own son, and he should be taken care of and helped as a relative when he is sick, so no matter what aspect, it is appropriate to pay for his son's medical treatment.
There are also some netizens who stand on their mother-in-law Han and bluntly say that their daughter-in-law's move is too outrageous.
Many people think that Ms. Wang is the first to go back on her word, after all, when Mr. Li was sick before, only her mother-in-law took care of Mr. Li during the medical expenses, and Ms. Wang was far less than her mother-in-law.
So in everyone's opinion, Ms. Wang's move is also quite indifferent, and she has not fulfilled her promise to repay the medical expenses she said before, so these netizens feel that her mother-in-law Han did the right thing.
Just when everyone was disturbing and making a lot of noise, there was a new development in this incident.
Decisions from the courts
Just recently, the court's verdict came out, and the court rejected Han's lawsuit and said that the money would be withheld from his son's estate. The reason is that this is indeed an act made for the mother-child relationship, and it is not considered to be the category of management without cause.
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The reason why the court made this decision was not only that it was compliant from a legal point of view; And in a more macro sense, it is also worth thinking about.
Why causeless management is not established, this is to talk about what causeless management is. At the beginning of the establishment of causeless management, it actually existed so that members of society could help each other, and it existed without legal or contractual obligations.
Therefore, in essence, it is incompatible with this case. If the three persons involved in the incident are not related by marriage or affection, if these relationships are included in the condition of uncaused management, this is a different situation.
There is a legal obligation between relatives, and if this relationship is classified into the category of causal management, it will be contrary to the norm, ignoring the emotional value, and is not conducive to the development of society.
Therefore, it is not appropriate to make a decision between relatives by causeless management, and other appropriate ways should be chosen to deal with it.
What does it take to build a strong family relationship?
This dispute over money also makes us think that families are not connected by interests today; Just as society needs human affection, families also need affection to maintain.
You must know that family affection is a feeling rooted in the bones, and it is a selfless emotion that can never be easily measured by money. But the relationship also needs to be maintained by everyone in the family.
Communicate more and keep in touch often, which is the basic operation that goes without saying, communication and exchange will not only shorten the emotional distance, but also find some problems.
But we must also have a good sense of boundaries, although we are all a family, we must still know that everyone is an independent individual, everyone has their own personal space, and we must not cross the line at this time; A good family relationship is to achieve a degree of care, rather than a bottomless snoop, and a clear sense of boundaries can often avoid many unnecessary disputes.
If there are really serious problems to deal with, such as the above-mentioned financial problems, it is also necessary to clarify the problems and take action, make it clear that family assistance does not belong to the category of uncaused management, and avoid unnecessary disputes; After all, there are many people who have tried to close their cases in this way without success.
Therefore, the maintenance of family affection cannot be dealt with overnight, it requires everyone to participate together, and care for and consolidate it with a normal and stable attitude.
epilogue
I also hope that this incident can give you a profound enlightenment, and you may wish to have more patience to communicate and understand when dealing with family incidents; But when it really comes to the stage where it is necessary to seek help, it also boldly takes up legal weapons to protect its own rights and interests.
Of course, I also hope that there will be fewer disputes about the family, so that everyone can feel the warmth of the family is a blessing; The premise of protecting a beautiful family is the joint participation of everyone.
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Information sources:
Douyin video: Fuzhou release, Dianshi news
Today's headlines: Beijing News "Mother paid medical expenses for her son, and her daughter-in-law sued her daughter-in-law for return after her son's death and was rejected by the court"
Beiqing.com, "Mother Pays Medical Expenses for Her Son, Sues Her Daughter-in-law for Refund After Her Son's Death and Is Rejected by the Court"