Are you a trouble-prone person?
Anyway, I am.
In life, many people like to be lively, but at the same time, they are afraid of trouble. What we like is watching other people's performances, and the trouble we fear is resisting performing in front of people.
However, socializing has led to us having to perform certain occasions. Everyone is born an actor, but not every actor is a good actor.
From home to school, and then from school to society, we move forward non-stop, and at the same time helplessly accept all the scenery around us.
Some people are extroverts, some are introverts, but from what I've observed, most people are really introverts.
If it's not for life or anything else, let a person say from the bottom of their hearts, everyone wants to be quiet in their own home.
Those who do not like to go to other people's homes, nor are they very happy to have others come to their homes, are not unsociable, but they follow their hearts enough.
In many people's childhood memories, neighbors often visit each other's doors. Everyone sat together and talked about the east and the west, and they talked about it all morning or afternoon, and sometimes they even stayed at the neighbor's house to eat.
At that time, the feeling was more pleasant, and the relationship between the two families who could talk together must be good. However, with the development of society and the transformation of interpersonal relationships, small talk has gradually become a burden.
This phenomenon does not mean that human affection is weaker, but that we have a more convenient way to socialize and a clearer sense of self.
The more independent-minded people are, the more willing they are to be alone. Because when they are alone, they are immersed in the silence of solitude, and they can learn what they want to learn, read what they want to read, and do whatever they want.
Being able to accomplish something without the help of others is a huge sense of joy and accomplishment.
With the increasing pace of life, busyness has become the norm, which leads to people's limited time. As the old saying goes, scarcity is precious, and when time becomes a scarce resource, no one will be willing to spend precious time entertaining some indifferent people and chatting about some indifferent idle days.
The more knowledgeable a person is, the faster and more obvious it will be. At the same time, the faster people grow, the more they need inner exploration, they will spend a lot of time getting to know themselves, and they will no longer have time to deal with those relationships that are not important.
The reason why social interaction can be tiring is because some relationships don't fit in well.
No one likes to get along with the same person with different aspirations for a long time, we may choose to be tolerant when we don't understand, but we will definitely not decide to walk with them after tolerance.
The more thoughtful people are, the more willing they are to be alone. Because for them, being alone is not only not a punishment for loneliness, but also a great reward.
The reason why people with strong hearts prefer to be alone is because their hearts are strong enough to let their lives have their own set of processes, and the rash addition of others will only disrupt the rhythm of his life.
The heart is not restless, so life will not be boring. At the same time, for the step-by-step person, all unplanned socialization is an interruption.
The best relationship between people is one that keeps a distance. It's not a good thing to be too eager to get to know others, or to be understood.
No matter what stage of life you go to, you should have the ability to be self-consistent, and self-consistency can be said to be the unity of knowledge and action, or it can be said to accept yourself.
People who can be self-consistent are people who are strong inside. After all, everyone has strengths and weaknesses, and it is easy to accept your strengths, but it is very difficult for most people to admit their weaknesses.
A person with self-consistency is a true master, who is not only able to endure the bad things in life, but also to accept the imperfections of themselves.
There is no right or wrong in the world, and all outcomes are just previous choices. Whether a person is introverted or extroverted, it is his own choice, there is no superiority or inferiority, and there is no right or wrong.
The greatest sobriety in life is to do what you love to do. After making a decision, only you know whether it will be mental enjoyment or mental torture next.
Those who don't go to other people's homes and don't like people to come to their homes are just bravely refusing to cater to them, and they are brave and right.
Life is to live for yourself. If you care too much about other people's opinions, you are doomed to not make the choice from your heart.
When life reaches a certain age, there will be more and more "unspeakable" sadness, and those accumulated sorrows and dissatisfaction are not resentments that can be resolved by chatting a few idle days.
Slowly, thinking people begin to construct their hearts. So they became quieter and quieter, more and more calm, and more and more reluctant to chat, and even more reluctant to visit the door.
When enthusiasm becomes weak, growth will appear unconsciously. Warmth still depends on oneself, and people who rely too much on relationships are always unable to truly control their own destiny.