Preface
In today's society, success seems to have become the goal pursued by many people, and everyone hopes to achieve a better life and higher social status through their own efforts. However, the road to success is never easy, and it is fraught with a variety of challenges and trials. Sometimes, success seems to be just around the corner, just the last step away, but it is at this time that you can accidentally step on the edge of failure. And many times, such failures are not due to their own lack of ability, but because their mouths are not "strict" enough.
1. The key to success is to choose who and when to share information
In real life, we often encounter such a situation, that is, when we have achieved certain achievements or gains, our hearts are always full of infinite joy and excitement, and we can't help but want to take it out and share it with the people around us. At this time, many people will commit a big taboo, that is, they do not have any filtering and selection of the information they want to share, but unreservedly proclaim their achievements to everyone.
In fact, the key to success is not what you achieve, but when and to whom you can present it. In today's highly competitive society, everyone can become your potential competitor, and once you "show off" your achievements in front of them, it is likely to invisibly arouse hostility and jealousy in the other party, thus laying a hidden danger for your future development.
Second, showing off achievements may bring benefits, but it can also lose potential opportunities and resources
Of course, the reason why people can't help but want to show off after achieving achievements is also inseparable from the pursuit of vanity and face in their hearts. In the concept of many people, only by constantly showing others that they are excellent and different, can they be recognized and praised by others, so as to stand out in society.
Indeed, on some specific occasions and circumstances, showing off one's achievements appropriately may bring some unexpected benefits to oneself, such as gaining the favor of leaders, winning the respect of colleagues, and even getting certain promotion opportunities. However, we often overlook the huge risk of losing the real kindness and help of others, and even the good relationship with others, because of our own "show-off".
3. Keeping a low profile at the right time can lead to more potential opportunities
Therefore, learning to keep a low profile at the right time may be a virtue that we should have after achieving a certain amount of success. When we have achieved something in a certain field, we can appropriately share it with some people who can give us real help and advice, vanity and face are important, but it is not worth it for us to offend others or lose more opportunities and resources for this.
Only when we learn how to protect our achievements and know how to share our joy with the right people at the right time can we stand out in the fierce social competition, get more potential opportunities and resources, and go to the pinnacle of life.
epilogue
On the road to success, timely low-key and silence can often have unexpected effects, so that our achievements can be recognized and affirmed by more people invisibly. Therefore, when we are only one step away from success, we might as well try to close our mouths, interpret our own value with practical actions, and believe that that success is truly our own, and we can bring more happiness and joy to ourselves.