As the saying goes: "Everyone has a love for beauty." "Men like beautiful women, which is not only out of instinct, but also makes men physically and mentally happy, and every man will look at them twice when they meet them.
It is one thing to like a young and beautiful woman, and another thing to marry a beautiful woman as a wife, the former can satisfy the man's visual enjoyment, and the latter can make a man feel the happiness and fulfillment of life.
However, it costs a lot to marry a young and beautiful wife, and it is even more expensive to raise a beautiful woman, he has to buy his wife designer clothes, buy expensive cosmetics, and find ways to win his wife's favor, only then can his wife follow him with all her heart and let him live a happy and comfortable life. Some men obviously do not have the ability to marry a beautiful wife, but they insist on finding beautiful women, and the results can be imagined.
A 35-year-old uncle married a 23-year-old beauty, his wife didn't go out to work, he was pampered and took care of the children at home, and the burden of the family fell on him alone. He gets up early every day and works greedily at night, earning all the hard-earned money. After 3 years of marriage, he was exhausted, and frankly admitted that the pressure of pleasing a beautiful wife was too great, and he couldn't hold on anymore.
Mr. Li is a rural person, his family conditions are not very good, his parents are honest farmers, and his family of three is frugal, and his life is quite shabby.
Mr. Li's academic performance was not good, and after graduating from high school, he was not admitted to university, so he had to go out to work to earn money to support his family. Mr. Li has no skills, no ability and no academic qualifications, so he can only engage in those simple manual labor, with a salary of 35,000 yuan per month.
Even so, Mr. Li is very happy, after all, he has experienced the bustling scene of the city, eaten all kinds of food, worn beautiful clothes, and increased his horizons and broadened his knowledge. Mr. Li's experience working in the city had a great impact on him.
Rural people get married relatively early, and men in their twenties and thirteens usually start a family, have children, and live a happy and beautiful life. Mr. Li also longs for a warm family and romantic love, and he has been on many blind dates under the introduction of the matchmaker, but the results have all ended in failure.
The reason is that Mr. Li is silent, will not coax women to be happy, will not create romance, win the favor of women, and more importantly, Mr. Li does not have a house, no car, and not much savings, how can such a man be favored by women? For these reasons, Mr. Li did not marry until he was in his 30s, and he was a rare bachelor in the village.
On the one hand, Mr. Li longs for a family, and on the other hand, he is financially constrained, and he plans to work hard to earn money in order to save enough capital to marry a beautiful woman. Mr. Li did what he said, he went to the city to work for more than ten years and saved hundreds of thousands, and he planned to use the money to marry a beautiful daughter-in-law.
Ms. Zhang is from a neighboring village, 23 years old, 12 years younger than Mr. Li, Ms. Zhang's family conditions are also not good, but she is slender and beautiful, and she is the village flower of the village. Many men are courteous to Ms. Zhang, but Ms. Zhang doesn't like them, because she doesn't like men of the same age, and feels that they have no knowledge, no charm, and no manliness, and Ms. Zhang prefers older "uncle-type" men.
Mr. Li and Ms. Zhang fell in love at first sight, Mr. Li was attracted by Ms. Zhang's young and beautiful appearance, Ms. Zhang was conquered by Mr. Li's calm and down-to-earth character, they admired each other, recognized each other, and they got married after a month of dating. Mr. Li promised that he would let Ms. Zhang live a good life, and he would hold Ms. Zhang in the palm of his hand and spoil Ms. Zhang as a little princess.
Mr. Li did what he said, and in order to prevent Ms. Zhang from suffering, he didn't need Ms. Zhang to go out to earn money. Mr. Li bought a car and made money by running online ride-hailing. Mr. Li gets up early every day and works late at night, earning more than 6,000 yuan a month, which is enough for them to live a good life.
Two children were born one after another, and Ms. Zhang was pampered and pampered at home with the children, and the burden of life was on Mr. Li alone, so the burden on Mr. Li was heavier. He went out at six o'clock every day, collected the car and went home at seven or eight o'clock in the evening, and after returning home, he had to do laundry and cooking, and at the end of the day he was exhausted, physically and mentally exhausted, and the whole person was not good.
In this case, Ms. Zhang did not be considerate of Mr. Li and felt sorry for Mr. Li, but disliked that Mr. Li did not care about her, did not care about her, did not talk to her and did not understand her lonely heart, and they often quarreled because of these things.
Ms. Zhang accused Mr. Li of being in poor health and had backache and leg pain all day long, and ignored her, and asked Mr. Li to see a doctor. Mr. Li is in good health, and he is listless when he returns home, but because life is too stressful, as long as he rests well, he can still live. Ms. Zhang did not care about Mr. Li's feelings, but complained about Mr. Li, and Mr. Li was quite helpless.
Mr. Li admits that marrying a young and beautiful wife is indeed a decent thing, but he pays a huge price for it, he has to earn money to support his family, and he has to do laundry, cook and take care of the family, as a man, he has fulfilled his due responsibility. However, he endured a lot of tastes that his peers could not experience, and Mr. Li couldn't help but sigh that his beautiful wife was under too much pressure, and he regretted it a little.
This incident has attracted widespread attention from netizens. Many people agree with Mr. Li's approach, believing that every man should get married and have children, and it is better to marry a young and beautiful woman than to marry a woman with ordinary appearance and average figure. He can not only feel the happiness and joy brought to him by beautiful women, but also get the envy of others, why not do this kind of good thing that kills two birds with one stone?
More people are not optimistic about this marriage because the gap between them is too big. Mr. Li is 35 years old, has no education and no ability, is an ordinary rural man, and he can marry a woman with similar conditions on his terms. However, Mr. Li was so ambitious that he had to find a young and beautiful wife, for which he paid a considerable amount of effort and price, and the result outweighed the loss.
Some people also ridiculed: "Money is a man's guts, a rich man can marry a beautiful woman, live in a mansion, and drive a luxury car, it is difficult for a man without money to keep a woman's heart, and he can't live a good life, so why bother?" ”
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