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After 11 years of marriage and 5 years of forbearance, Ma Yili "does and cherishes", how many words are insincere?

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1. Bright summer, looking back on the past

Ma Yili sat alone in the living room, her eyes fixed on the wall full of memories. In the mural, what catches the eye is a happy family portrait of their family, she is close to her two precious children, and the article is standing aside, her face full of happiness.

However, now this warm picture has become a thing of the past, and when she stares at this photo again, tears quietly welled up in her heart, and her heart was full of endless doubts and suspicions: how much sincere emotion was contained in the promise of "do it and cherish it"? For the sake of this family, she silently endured for five years, but in the end, a mess of tears swirled in her eyes, and finally slid down her cheeks, although the decision to divorce was full of struggle and pain, but it was like a key, opening the shackles in Ma Yili's heart and allowing her to regain her life.

After 11 years of marriage and 5 years of forbearance, Ma Yili "does and cherishes", how many words are insincere?

After the divorce, Ma Yili devoted all her energy to her career. Years of hard work have not been in vain, and excellent film and television works starring her have sprung up one after another, with a good reputation.

From the movie "The Good Man of Jiangbei" to the TV series "The First Half of My Life", her superb acting skills have won high praise from the industry, and her personal career has finally climbed to the peak again.

At the same time, the article fell into a low point in his life. The exposure of the cheating scandal caused his reputation and interpersonal relationships in the entertainment industry to collapse in an instant, and almost no one was willing to invite him to play an important role.

After 11 years of marriage and 5 years of forbearance, Ma Yili "does and cherishes", how many words are insincere?

Even if he occasionally receives some scenes, it is often just the decline of some inconspicuous roles, the decline of his career, and the heavy blow of divorce, which makes the appearance of the article age rapidly in just a few years.

2. The dream road of Shanghai girls

Ma Yili was born in the bustling Hongkou District of Shanghai, although the family is not well-off, but her parents love this only daughter very much. Although the two old men live frugally, they do not hesitate to meet the needs of their daughter.

After 11 years of marriage and 5 years of forbearance, Ma Yili "does and cherishes", how many words are insincere?

Since childhood, Ma Yili has shown a unique passion for dance and performance. When the images of those vigorous and chic actors on the TV screen come into view, she will always imitate them wholeheartedly, with the little star dream in her heart, which has begun to emerge in childhood.

In the face of her daughter's firm pursuit of art, the family can only choose to silently support her to embark on this challenging artistic path.

One day, my father accidentally found out in the newspaper that the art troupe was recruiting new members, and he did not hesitate to take Ma Yili to sign up. In order to motivate his daughter to persevere, the father even made a "big reward" promise: as long as she successfully completed the rehearsal, he would take her to taste a tempting KFC meal.

After 11 years of marriage and 5 years of forbearance, Ma Yili "does and cherishes", how many words are insincere?

At that time, KFC had just entered Shanghai, which was undoubtedly an irresistible temptation for children. Ma Yili, who has always been a little willful and reckless, is also deeply attracted at the moment, she mustered up her courage and never complained about being tired during the rehearsal process.

After school, her father took her to the front of KFC as scheduled, but he did not take her directly into the restaurant, but handed her the money and said softly: "You go in first and enjoy the food, I will wait for you outside."

An inexplicable sourness surged in Ma Yili's heart, how could she accept this love from her father with peace of mind? So, she resolutely returned the banknote to her father and politely declined the "heavy reward".

After 11 years of marriage and 5 years of forbearance, Ma Yili "does and cherishes", how many words are insincere?

From that moment on, Ma Yili made a vow in her heart that she must do her best to make money and repay her parents for their nurturing grace in the future. At the age of 17, she ushered in her first film "Liu Haili", although it was only an insignificant supporting role, but the 800 yuan salary she received still made her ecstatic.

She returned home with a load of joy and neatly laid out the bills on the bed while her father counted them over and over again, and the whole family had a smile of pride and happiness on their faces.

Since then, Ma Yili has relied on the income earned by her own efforts to bear the tuition and living expenses of the university for four years, and has never reached out to her family to ask for a penny. Her persistent pursuit of an acting career stems from her endless gratitude to her parents.

After 11 years of marriage and 5 years of forbearance, Ma Yili "does and cherishes", how many words are insincere?

Back in 1997, when Ma Yili was devoting herself to the filming of the hit TV series "Night Walker", she met the famous director Guan Hu who she could not forget. This talented and personable director fell in love with Ma Yili at first sight, and the two instantly sparked.

After only 3 years of getting along, Ma Yili has fallen into the love trap woven by Guan Hu and is unable to extricate herself. During this period, their relationship was like an endless flame, hot and stirring, and frequently became the focus of everyone's eyes.

However, they leave their work behind and indulge in the sweet ocean of love all day long, enjoying a carefree time to the fullest.

After 11 years of marriage and 5 years of forbearance, Ma Yili "does and cherishes", how many words are insincere?

It was not until 2000 that Guan Hu finally returned to the professional field and devoted himself to the intense filming of the TV series "Black Hole". In this drama, he not only tailored a role for Ma Yili, but also invited his ex-girlfriend Kong Lin and future wife Liang Jing to participate in the role.

Unexpectedly, during the cooperation of the crew, Liang Jing actually had a crush on Guan Hu and quietly intervened in their emotional world. Ma Yili regarded Liang Jing as her confidant and best friend, and she was unguarded, until the marriage news was made public, and she was shocked to learn from media reports that Guan Hu had married Liang Jing.

All this was like a thunderbolt from the sky, making Ma Yili feel the endless humiliation and betrayal of life. In the face of media interviews, although she held back tears and smiled to wish them a happy marriage, no one could understand the pain and unwillingness in her heart.

After 11 years of marriage and 5 years of forbearance, Ma Yili "does and cherishes", how many words are insincere?

However, Ma Yili did not give up the persistent pursuit of love because of this. In 2005, when she was filming the movie "Jin Yiwei", she met and fell in love with an actor who was 8 years younger than herself.

Although this relationship has been controversial due to the large age gap, and relatives and friends have expressed concern, Ma Yili has a firm belief and moves forward bravely.

Under the passionate and sincere pursuit of the article, Ma Yili was finally moved by his deep affection and decided to spend the rest of his life hand in hand with him. The two entered the marriage hall in 2008 and had a lovely baby daughter, named Wen Junzhu and nicknamed "Wen Aima".

After 11 years of marriage and 5 years of forbearance, Ma Yili "does and cherishes", how many words are insincere?

Now, the family of three lives a warm and harmonious life, and Ma Yili has successfully got rid of the shadow of the past and started a new chapter in her life.

Part 4: Career and family are both hands-on

Ma Yili, who had a daughter after marriage, did not devote herself to family life as everyone expected. On the contrary, she still maintains a strong fighting spirit in her career, and has starred in many acclaimed film and television masterpieces one after another.

After 11 years of marriage and 5 years of forbearance, Ma Yili "does and cherishes", how many words are insincere?

On the bright Avenue of Fame in 2008, she won the Changchun Film Festival with her film "The Good Man of Jiangbei" with her unique vision, and then contributed superb acting skills in many popular works such as "Marriage Defense" and "Jingwei World", which made her fame and prestige continue to rise.

At the same time, Ma Yili's husband's article is also ushering in the peak moment of his life and career. The anti-Japanese TV series "Snow Leopard" starring him was broadcast on major TV stations, and the role of "Zhou Weiguo" played by him was deeply loved by the audience, and the image of the tough guy instantly became the object of thousands of fans.

Faced with a huge gap in her career, Ma Yili chose to temporarily put aside her personal pursuit and devote herself to family life. She dutifully plays the role of a good wife and mother, busy with household chores every day, cooking delicious meals for her husband and taking care of her daughter's daily life.

After 11 years of marriage and 5 years of forbearance, Ma Yili "does and cherishes", how many words are insincere?

Seeing his wife give so wholeheartedly to the family, the article is filled with gratitude. He is determined to achieve more brilliant results in his career, so as to repay Ma Yili's magnanimity and firm support.

Under the silent hard work of his wife, the article's acting career is thriving. In 2010, he successfully became one of the popular male artists with the hit drama "Snow Leopard", and he was even more humble and polite and affectionate at various award ceremonies: "Thank you to my wife Ma Yili, without her selfless support, I would not have everything I have today."

The two hugged and kissed in public, and the sweet and romantic scene filled the atmosphere with a poetic atmosphere.

After 11 years of marriage and 5 years of forbearance, Ma Yili "does and cherishes", how many words are insincere?

However, just as Ma Yili took the initiative to slow down her career for the sake of her family, the article's view of her quietly underwent a subtle change. She used to be innocent, lovely, gentle and generous, but now in his eyes, she seems to be too rigid and rigid, lacking the vitality and interest of life.

In contrast, the actress Yao Di, who was filmed at the same time, has a bright and moving face and a lively and cheerful personality, which is more in line with the article's desire for life at this time. Therefore, a magnificent extramarital affair quietly ignited between them.

Time flies, in a blink of an eye, in 2011, the article and the cutting-edge actress Yao Di co-starred in a high-profile TV series "Naked Marriage Era", this work not only has extremely high ratings, but also the tacit cooperation of its main creative team and the rich performance skills of the two actors make the show fascinating.

After 11 years of marriage and 5 years of forbearance, Ma Yili "does and cherishes", how many words are insincere?

It is worth mentioning that the two leading actors are young and in their prime, so in real life, the interaction between them has gradually become subtle and full of romance.

Fans are full of praise for the "on-screen couple" they play in the show, carefully compiling all kinds of beautiful two-person worlds, and the crew also cleverly creates a hype atmosphere.

However, in the eyes of onlookers, these may be small fights, but for the parties involved, it is undoubtedly a dangerous game.

After 11 years of marriage and 5 years of forbearance, Ma Yili "does and cherishes", how many words are insincere?

Soon after, intimate photos of the article and Yao Di traveling to Hong Kong and Shenzhen began to circulate on the Internet. In the photo, the two of them are walking intimately, or their fingers are clasped, and there are even pictures of hugging and kissing, all of which reveal deep affection.

All of this shocked and painful for Ma Yili that her husband had betrayed her during the postpartum period, when she needed love and care the most. The beautiful expectations she once expressed with the words "do it and cherish it" now seem so ironic.

What's even more chilling is that at this time, Ma Yili had just given birth to her second child, and her physical condition was extremely weak. As a mother, her greatest wish is to be cared for and loved by her husband, but the reality has hit her hard.

After 11 years of marriage and 5 years of forbearance, Ma Yili "does and cherishes", how many words are insincere?

When the news of the article's derailment spread rapidly on the Internet, the majority of netizens came forward to denounce Ma Yili's behavior and accuse him of despicable behavior.

Under the pressure of public opinion, he had to publish a long article late at night, apologizing to his wife and family: "I deeply hurt Ma Yili, failed my family, and lost my responsibilities as a husband and father.

After 11 years of marriage and 5 years of forbearance, Ma Yili "does and cherishes", how many words are insincere?

However, Ma Yili's response was beyond everyone's expectations. She posted a text on social media: "Love is easy to get, marriage is hard to keep, do it and cherish it." ”

Behind this seemingly open-minded statement, there is endless disappointment and grief over her husband's betrayal. For the sake of her children and family, she finally chose forbearance and forgiveness, however, no one knows how much grievances and torture she has endured in the past five years.

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