Ma Yili, who has been divorced for 5 years: Everyone who is a mother should have a happy life!

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2024-05-14 14:01Posted in Zhejiang Parenting Creators

Wow, wow, wow, I really didn't expect that Li Juan's essay collection "My Altay", which I loved before, would be made into a TV series.

I originally thought that the prose was not like a novel, and there was no storyline, but I never thought that the drama version of "My Altay" was more beautiful than expected: the scenery of Altay in Xinjiang is picturesque, and the rich and interesting local life scenes are so moving......

Just like the leading actor Ma Yili said, "Seeing the scene in the play, tears are about to flow, every frame is very precious, its beauty is combined with the air, breathing, humidity, and the local grass, cattle, sheep and horses, in the two months of filming, it seems to have a beautiful dream, I hope everyone has time to go to Altay away from the hustle and bustle, and have a 'dream'." ”

Of course, it's not just the scenery, what surprises me more is Zhang Fengxia played by Ma Yili, no wonder he was praised by many netizens for being "too good at casting".

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Who is Zhang Fengxia? She is Li Juan's mother, but Li Juan in the TV series changed her name to Li Wenxiu, and Zhang Fengxia is not Juan's mother's real name.

In Li Juan's pen, her mother is particularly strong and straightforward, like a tattered but fiery three-wheeled car, galloping in the wind and rain of life, fearless.

So the name Zhang Fengxia, not to mention, has a sense of fit made in heaven with Juan's mother.

Ma Yili's style also features a high degree of restoration, with two coarse braids, dark and rough skin, and a working woman who has been exposed to the wind and sun for many years.

Zhang Fengxia is a woman who can make her life extremely vivid and interesting anytime and anywhere.

As soon as the play appeared, the TV in the commissary opened by Zhang Fengxia broke down, the commissary is located in a remote area, and it is troublesome to maintain, but passing the time on the TV every day is a compulsory course for the elderly in the village, and this group of old ladies lacks "electronic mustard", but how can they chat about melon seeds~

So Zhang Fengxia pulled the group of old ladies outdoors and sat in a row on the poplar trees. Then a TV frame was built with bricks in front.

When the wind blows, it's the BBC's "Earth Pulse";

Chickens and ducklings walked by, and it was CCTV's agricultural science and technology channel.

A group of old ladies were arranged by Zhang Fengxia to be quacked.

Zhang Fengxia does not understand the local Kazakh language, but she can also mingle with the men, women and children on the grassland, and she has her own set of communication "passwords".

She named the Acacia Bird brand cigarettes "Little Bird Smoke", and it happened that there was a small bird printed on the shell, because it was really impossible to explain what "Acacia" was to the locals in limited Kazakh language;

Cigarette brands that have no characteristics are named by color, red smoke, blue smoke;

The bottle of grenade-like liquor is just two words "bang";

The commissary also makes clothes for the locals, and what mercerized cotton, acrylic, and polyester fabrics are too complicated, so she tells customers that they are all plastic.

was originally a complicated and profound matter, Zhang Fengxia relied on his own random translation, and cleanly let everyone know.

Zhang Fengxia also has a unique sense of relaxation, "everything is a floating cloud", "It doesn't matter if the bed collapses, if the sky falls, it won't affect my sleep." ”

Once she took her mother-in-law and Li Wenxiu to the market town to buy goods. Li Wenxiu was responsible for taking care of the goods and her grandmother, and Zhang Fengxia went to a farther place to talk about business.

Li Wenxiu remembered that he went to the Internet café to send an email to submit an article, and when he came out of the Internet café, he found that his grandmother was missing. She asked her mother with a sad face what to do. I thought I would be reprimanded by a slashing head and covering my face, but I didn't expect Zhang Fengxia to say very calmly, "It's okay, the old man can't go fast." ”

Grandma was soon found at the market stall, and the three women were finally able to drive home with a donkey cart full of goods.

Li Wenxiu still blamed herself in the car, so Zhang Fengxia had no choice but to tell her daughter a secret, "What's this, I have lost your grandmother dozens of times." Wouldn't it be enough to pick it up again? ”

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Relaxation is relaxation, Zhang Fengxia has her own principles of doing things, and she will also discipline her daughter.

A few days after Li Wenxiu returned from Urumqi, he accidentally discovered that there were a lot of foreign debts on the account books of the commissary, adding up to three or four thousand! She excitedly went out to help her mother ask for money.

However, this girl is not familiar with the place, and the way she asks for debts is also very stunned, and when she sees a person, she asks, are you who is on the ledger? You owe our family six dollars and five, don't you?

In one afternoon, half of the village was offended.

Zhang Fengxia pulled her daughter and the people in the village to apologize one by one, smiled, and bent over at a 90° angle, "Look, you wronged these two eldest sisters, they look a little alike, but one doesn't owe us money, and the other I owe her money." ”

There was also an uncle who came over to explain to Zhang Fengxia that he would repay the money after selling the sheep after going to the summer pasture; Another uncle, who owed the largest amount of 2,000 yuan, chased after the mother and daughter, and wanted to use his family's camel to pay off the debt.

Li Wenxiu understood her mother's thoughts, why the family was so poor that food and clothing were a problem, but she was still not in a hurry to ask for debts. It turns out that the people here value face and commitment, and they are not untrustworthy people, but everyone has their own difficulties in life.

"If you want to stay here, don't think you're smart, don't condescend to judge others, people here have their own rules of survival."

But fortunately, Li Wenxiu still recovered a little bit of foreign debt, and she excitedly asked her mother for credit, "Mom, although I'm clumsy, I'm a little useful, right?" ”

Zhang Fengxia was unhappy when she heard this, she straightened up and taught her a lesson, the first and only time, "Li Wenxiu, did I give birth to you to let you serve others?" What is useful, the cattle, horses, and grass on this grassland are called useful if some people eat and some people use them; If no one uses it, it's good to just stay like this, be free, and be free! ”

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Zhang Fengxia is not a woman who is tough to the end, she will lie alone on the broken sofa outside the house and drink in the middle of the night, thinking about the person who can't let go.

She will fall in love with unreliable men who come to the prairie to pan for gold. The man with the money and the goods said that he was going to do business, but he was not seen for a month.

She leaned against the side of the road and waited, crying and sad, but after a long time, she naturally let go.

She went about her life as usual and opened a commissary. When she returned the money to her sister Zhambyl on the grassland, the other party felt sorry for her, "Your money has been cheated out, don't rush to pay me back." ”

Zhang Fengxia turned around and smiled from afar, "We Han people are different from you, you can divorce when you get married, and if the man is gone, you will find the next one, what's the big deal." ”

The uncle next to him heard this, and came over to Jiang Bu and said, "Oh, Zhang Fengxia, this woman, is the one who doesn't need others to worry about her." ”

Who wouldn't love Zhang Fengxia like this, she can laugh, cry or show weakness, she has seven emotions and six desires, she has her own light and darkness, she will start again if she falls, she will do whatever she thinks, she always moves towards the light step by step.

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Zhang Fengxia in the play is introduced here, if there are any shortcomings in this play, it is too short, only eight episodes, and I finished watching it at once, and I didn't put the mother in Li Juan's book, more interesting plots into the video.

Add some stories about Juan's mother in Li Juan's book, which I like very much.

Juan's mother later planted sunflowers in the desert on the south bank of the Ulungu River, and Li Juan also wrote about this experience in "Distant Sunflower Field".

In Li Juan's text, her mother is a proud person. She planted a hundred acres of sunflowers in the wilderness, with the desert to the south and the Gobi to the north, and there were no trees or people around.

In this sunflower field, the water source is the most precious, in order to save the water for washing clothes, my mother simply did not wear clothes, and worked in the vast sunflower field, honest and frank like Mother Earth:

"All summer, she walked naked through the sunflower fields, tanned and blurred with everything. The sunlight jumps between the leaves, and the dirt underneath your feet. She walked through the sunflower forest, like trekking through the water, trying not to float. The most powerful force of the earth is not the earthquake, but the growth of all things......"

The sunflower field is empty, not as lively as the grocery store before, and my mother raised a lot of small animals to live a hot life.

"My mother took in a nest of chickens that no one wanted, and she was distressed that the chickens were frozen in the cold weather, so she turned out a bunch of torn sheets, old clothes, and rotten curtains, and made clothes for this group of "remnants of the defeated generals".

Every morning, as soon as the chicken pen is opened, red, yellow, blue and purple swarm out. It was a spectacle. This team was named "The Beggar Gang" by my mother. It's too vivid. One by one, they lacked crowns and eyes, limped, swayed from side to side, and wore tattered clothes. "

Li Juan has been stupid and introverted since she was a child, with mediocre academic performance, she lived in Sichuan with her grandmother when she was a child, and later dropped out of high school to go to a big city to work while looking for her dream of being a writer.

During the day, she helps out in the commissary, and occasionally sleeps in the blue sky and white clouds. Her life was always accompanied by boundless wilderness, silence and solitude.

An interesting and full of vitality mom can be said to be the best antidote to her boring days, as well as the greatest poetry.

Whether it is "Zhang Fengxia" in the play or Juan's mother in reality, it is what I want to live from the bottom of my heart-

Like weeds that can survive everywhere, if there is a sun, it will dry hard, and when the wind and sand hit, they will bend their bodies into a beautiful arc to meet and resist, and they can come in a hurry, or they can walk freely.

Ma Yili said in an interview: Why can Zhang Fengxia have a happy life?

"Zhang Fengxia looks like a rough line, but he knows how to grasp the big and let go of the small, in that environment, you must have thick lines, you can't be thin, you can't be persistent, and you can't stare at a detail, so you must have a bad time in that environment, and there is no way.

To be able to integrate into the local living environment, she must be a woman with her own life wisdom and tips. ”

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