Nemo (pseudonym), a post-90s highly-educated beauty, once studied in Japan, majoring in vocal violin, and loves skiing English.
Anyone who thinks about it thinks she should do a glamorous job. But in the end, Nemo chose to go to the mansion to work as a live-in nanny.
Netizens questioned that she wanted to be on the throne, and her own mother didn't understand that she was blacklisted. Even so, Nemo persisted.
So, why did she choose this?
The source of this article is from the official media [Shandong Educational Television] [Changzhou Wujin Procuratorate] (link attached at the end of the article). In order to improve the readability of the article, there may be polishing of the details, please read sensibly, for reference only!
Invited to be a live-in nanny
In fact, Liu Yu's first job was not a nanny, but a makeup artist. The reason why I went to work as a nanny was because of a guest.
Liu Yu works as a makeup artist to put on makeup for a lady, and the two talk eloquently from various topics.
After learning that Liu Yu is not only proficient in piano, violin, makeup, baking, and driving.
After learning that she was fluent in English and Japanese, the lady immediately invited Liu Yu to her home as a live-in nanny.
This invitation made Liu Yu hesitate.
As an only child, her parents worked hard to bring her up, and she was worried that her parents would feel ashamed of her job as a nanny.
After three days of careful consideration, Liu Yu decided to give it a try, and if he really couldn't do it, he would make another plan.
When he first arrived at his employer's house, Liu Yu did not have his own room, so he could only share a bunk bed with his children.
But she didn't think there was anything wrong with this, but she adapted quickly.
Although Liu Yu worked as a nanny for the first time, he had a strong ability to live because of his study abroad experience.
She was able to put on an apron and cook for her employer's family, and she gradually fell in love with the job.
However, because he has not been in the industry for a long time, Liu Yu still encountered some small troubles in taking care of children.
Every morning at 6 o'clock, Liu Yu began to be busy. Skillfully tie an apron and prepare the ingredients, and you will soon be able to make a healthy and delicious breakfast.
After breakfast, Liu Yu drove his employer's children to and from school.
After school, Liu Yu is responsible for tutoring the children with homework, reading English picture books, practicing piano and learning English with her.
Later, the first employer left Beijing because of emigration.
But Liu Yu soon won the favor of other employers with her "all-round" talent, and continued to work in the live-in nanny job she loved.
Working as a nanny in different families, Liu Yu has also experienced some small stumbles, but it does not hinder her enthusiasm for work.
Today, Liu Yu works in a villa with his own private room.
And her monthly salary is as high as 15,000 yuan, which is much higher than ordinary work.
Liu Yu also shares videos of his life online, including making various delicacies and taking care of children.
Slowly, her account became more and more followers.
With the support of fans, Liu Yu fell in love with this job more and more.
It's just that there are more people who know her, and some people will inevitably be curious: obviously she has studied abroad, why don't you look for other jobs and become a nanny instead?
Don't be a traditional girl
Liu Yu was born in 1992 and is an authentic Shandong girl.
She came from an ordinary but happy family, her father was a worker, and her mother was a housewife.
As an only child, Liu Yu has been 100% pampered by her parents since she was a child.
Her mother has high expectations for Liu Yu, hoping that she can become a literary young woman. When he was a child, his mother began to train Liu Yu to learn music.
Although Liu Yu showed extraordinary talent at a young age, she was often not very cooperative when she was naughty and active.
But Liu Yu's mother was very patient.
The hard work paid off, and Liu Yu, with his solid musical foundation and extraordinary talent, was admitted to a conservatory of music as he wished, majoring in vocal music and violin.
During her university years, she was diligent and studious, not only with profound vocal and violin skills, but also taught herself a variety of musical instruments, which can be called "versatile".
In 2014, after graduating from university, Liu Yu did not choose employment, but proposed the idea of studying abroad to his parents.
Although her parents were a little worried, they finally let her go to Japan to study.
During his year in Japan, Liu Yu's life was quite poor.
She worked multiple jobs to make ends meet, but never gave up on learning and improving herself.
Soon, Liu Yu graduated and faced a job.
Of course, the parents hope that their daughter will have a decent and well-paid job in the future and live a comfortable life.
But Liu Yu disagrees with this traditional idea.
Accidentally live the life of your dreams
She longs for a free and unfettered lifestyle rather than being tied down by work and family.
After returning from studying in Japan, Liu Yu ignited his dream of becoming a makeup artist.
She has a strong interest in this fashion industry and also wants to try the life of Beipiao. So she resolutely came to Beijing and became a makeup artist.
However, life as a makeup artist is far more difficult than Liu Yu imagined.
Although it is a seemingly glamorous career, the working hours are long and the income is meager.
In order to make ends meet, Liu Yu had to work several part-time jobs at the same time and reluctantly rented a rental room.
Later, when she met her first employer, she changed jobs with the attitude of giving it a try. Unexpectedly, the nanny's job is developing very well.
However, as her video became popular, the fact that she had changed jobs without telling her parents was also known.
At first, Liu Yu just shared the bits and pieces of his daily life online.
She will film herself cooking, putting on makeup, and occasionally recording humorous and funny videos.
However, as more and more fans appeared, some people began to question and criticize Liu Yu's live-in nanny status, and some suspected that she was a sugar daddy.
Until one day, my mother accidentally saw it, and I learned that Liu Yu had been working as a nanny, and my mother also wanted to be crooked......
Liu Yu's mother was undoubtedly in a state of great shock and anger.
As a traditional Chinese mother, she pinned all her hopes on this only child since she was a child.
She hopes that Liu Yu can live a decent and privileged life, but the job of a nanny makes her feel ashamed.
After learning of his mother's anger, Liu Yu was remorseful, but he did not give up the job.
She put aside her plans to share her life online for the time being, and made a special trip back to her hometown to communicate with her mother in person.
In a heart-to-heart conversation with his mother, Liu Yu patiently explained the reason why he chose the job of nanny.
She said that she could not disparage the profession, on the contrary, she enjoyed the lifestyle.
Through the experience of working in various households, she has seen too many unhappy marriages.
The mother-daughter relationship is once again at an impasse
The tension between the husband and wife and the oppressive family atmosphere made her question and fear her married life.
Liu Yu feels that married life means taking on too many unnecessary burdens.
Not only do you have to worry about your children's education, but you also have to worry about housework, mortgages, car loans, and so on.
And all of this can severely limit one's freedom.
Liu Yu is not disgusted with marriage, but feels that marriage is too tiring and tiring.
"I'd rather be alone than be shackled so heavily."
"Celibacy is freedom, and marriage only takes away my ownership of life."
And the mother, of course, could not understand her daughter's thoughts.
In their conservative hometown, getting married and having children is something almost everyone must do.
The mother was deeply afraid that her only daughter would always be single, and there would be no one to support her in the future.
She couldn't accept her daughter's idea of "no marriage and no barrenness", which she thought was not in line with human nature.
As a result, the two fell into a cold war again, even more tense than the previous "nanny door".
Everyone has their own unique path in life, and there is no one-size-fits-all standard.
The important thing is to be able to truly live your life and live the life you desire.
If Liu Yu meets the person who can really make her heart move in the future, she will naturally step into the palace of marriage for this fate.
After all, people's thoughts and feelings change with time and experience......
After reading the story of the returnee nanny Nemo, what do you think in front of the screen? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area......
Resources
[1] [Shandong Educational Television] - "Post-90s Girls Return from Study Tour to Be Live-in Nannies, Post-60s Fathers: There are discussions around, but I don't care too much"
https://www.toutiao.com/article/7046180519410795019/?channel=&source=search_tab
[2] [Changzhou Wujin Procuratorate] (official account of the People's Procuratorate of Wujin District, Changzhou City) - ""Post-90s" returnees chose to be live-in nannies, and were "blacked" by their mothers after becoming popular on the Internet"
https://www.toutiao.com/article/7071778797187645990/?channel=&source=search_tab