#头条创作挑战赛#
Zhuangzi once said: "The frog at the bottom of the well is indescribably as the vastness of the sea; Summer insects, don't make them know the coldness of ice. ”
This statement expresses the true meaning of cognitive limitations - different visions, different speeches, and mutual understanding, it is difficult to ascend to the sky.
Therefore, the truly strong choose to be silent, and the wise calm the heart of the argument.
In their view, arguing with someone with a disparity in cognitive level is tantamount to playing the harp to a cow, which is not only unhelpful, but also adds to the distraction.
The essence of being a transparent person is not to force the awakening of those who are deeply trapped in cognitive limitations.
Understanding the diversity of the world and accepting the differences in cognition is the beginning of a smart life.
Not easily challenging the gap in cognition is not only a sign of respect for others, but also a manifestation of self-cultivation.
Don't argue with people with low cognition
Li Shanglong shared two clips about reading.
Once, he was reading the book "Hope Is Always There", which was actually the bitter memories of those who had witnessed the war.
Seeing this, a colleague quipped: "You also watch inspirational chicken soup? ”
Li Shanglong wanted to defend himself, knowing that this book was not his "chicken soup", but a historical fact of blood and tears, but in the end he only responded with a smile: "That's true." ”
Undisturbed, he continued to immerse himself in the book, and his colleagues left satisfied.
Another time, during the long subway journey, Li Shanglong flipped through Mo Yan's "Breast Fat Buttocks", but attracted strange eyes and silent criticism from others because of the title of the book.
In response, he chose to remain silent and enjoy his personal reading.
Afterwards, he sighed: "We are the same people, but we are not all the same. ”
Sensible debate fosters communication and thinking, while people with limited knowledge are accustomed to making unwarranted rebuttals.
They are trapped in the prejudices of their own world, judging others in vain.
Arguing with it, instead of being able to obtain true knowledge, will fall into unnecessary consumption and lower one's own realm.
There is no need to convince those who are at a very different level of thought, because it is foolish to try to awaken ignorance.
Life is not always about winning, sometimes take a step back and open the sky.
You don't have to fight over everything, you have to go your separate ways and be okay with each other.
Life is short, energy is precious, and only by being tolerant of others can we truly release ourselves.
In short, the wisdom of life is that it does not resonate with everyone, it is the norm; Learning to let go is not only tolerance for others, but also compassion for oneself.
Don't reason with people who don't know the same
Lin Yutang and Lu Xun, former best friends, finally embarked on their own paths due to differences in concepts.
Lin Yutang pursues fun and advocates light-hearted literature to add fun to life.
Lu Xun, on the other hand, disagreed, worrying that Lin Yutang's humor would eventually blur the harshness and cruelty of reality, causing people to be numb.
Lu Xun repeatedly admonished in private, but after failing to succeed, he even sharply criticized Lin Yutang between the words, and his words were sharp.
In this regard, Lin Yutang felt a slight sigh, but did not say a word.
He knows that the world needs both his humor to comfort and Lu Xun's sharpness to warn the world.
Although the two have different ideological paths, they tacitly understand the general interests of the country.
Lin Yutang's pen revealed: "I always respect Lu Xun, Lu Xun's recognition, I am happy to know each other; Lu Xun's departure, I have no regrets. ”
After going to the United States, when compiling the "Chinese Culture Reader", which introduced Chinese culture, Lu Xun's articles were specially selected to show them to the West, which shows his open-mindedness.
This friendship, which is all the more precious because of the differences, is passed down as a beautiful conversation.
The sea of people is vast, the leaves are different, and everyone is different.
Each person has a unique experience, has a different interpretation of the world, and has a different attitude towards life.
Therefore, forcing those with different ideas to accept their own views is tantamount to brutally interfering with the souls of others.
As the old adage goes, "Be quick in your deeds and prudent in your words." ”
Life is all about action, not words.
Those who have different ways do not need to argue for absolute truth, but only find a way to live in harmony.
Do not look at yourself from the eyes of others, and do not force others to live trivial, in order to cultivate long-term friendship and enjoy personal freedom.
Never wake up a person with low cognition
Scholar Zhang Chao proposed a three-stage epistemology of life:
At the beginning of the moon viewing, the window lattice is a frame. One more level, the moon in the courtyard is wide. The highest realm, standing on a high platform, the moon frolicking and self-open.
The implication here is that the improvement of the cognitive level broadens the horizon, reduces paranoia, and enhances comprehensive understanding.
Zhang Ailing's pen, youth rebellion, trail temptation:
When she was young, the path yearned, and her mother persuaded her to return. "Personal experience, detours and bitterness, may you be spared." Resolutely moving forward, the mother sighed helplessly, and told "the road is difficult, be cautious".
Until the ups and downs, and countless wrestlings, Fang Wu's mother was true.
During the break, I saw the intersection of the old road of Youli, and I felt pity and persuaded me like my mother. Friends don't believe it, just like yesterday, they can only sigh: "Take care all the way".
Zhang Ailing deeply felt that the wise man watched from the sidelines, smiled and waited, knowing that growth requires self-realization.
The wisdom of others, the beauty and fragility, cannot be obtained in person. Self-awakening, the light in the palm, although the light is small, is enough to illuminate the night and lead the way to the right path.
People can only accept the reason of inner identity, and it is useless to force it.
Therefore, persuading or expecting others to change is often painful and exhausting. Go with the flow, adjust your mentality, respect the fate of others, make them self-reflective and self-realizing, and be more wise.
There is an old proverb: "Bosom friends talk about speculation, and the hungry eat more fragrant." ”
A thousand words, invincible to the pain of a fall, a wall of collision, practice to achieve true knowledge. The rest of his life is in a hurry, cherishing his inner strength and restraining his desire to correct others.
Care to a degree, do not cross the line, love non-domination, mountains and roads, accept the world, find the true self, and sober the way for the rest of your life.
At one point, Zigong sought advice from Confucius and asked for wisdom in fellowship with friends.
Confucius pondered for a moment and said slowly: "Guide them with sincerity and admonish them, but if your friends don't accept them, you should stop and stop demanding." ”
This statement echoes the essence of the Tao Te Ching: "When the sergeant hears the Tao, he bows down and does it; When the sergeant heard this, he was skeptical; When the corporal heard this, he scoffed. ”
A true wise man, in the face of the truth, is always keen and studious, and has the courage to change; Fools, on the other hand, tend to rest on their laurels and ridicule new knowledge.
Therefore, it is not in vain to try to awaken a soul with limited cognition.
Life is a journey of self-awakening and growth, during which you must experience pain before you can deeply understand and thrive.
Like this, may we all embrace an open mind, reduce unnecessary arguments, focus on inner improvement, and have the courage to cross the boundaries of cognition.
Only in this way can we achieve a more mature and powerful self.