What is Nirvana? As the old saying goes, "Don't borrow people to get rich, don't ask people for value". If you think about it carefully, it's really like this, if you never have to borrow money, it means that you are rich, if you never need to ask someone to do something, you can solve all problems by yourself, that is enough to show your ability and status, the so-called wealth, isn't that what it is?
In fact, in any society, there are rich and poor, but there is a word called "class solidification", the more a stable society develops, the more obvious the rich and poor strata are, that is, the rich get richer, the poor get poorer, what is the reason for this phenomenon?
The gap between rich and poor may not be in the amount of wealth, but in their way of thinking. I don't know if you have ever heard such a saying, "The poor want to save face and be rich", and picking the door is stingy, so this sentence may explain the difference between the rich and the poor.
In life, we can often see such a kind of person, who is poor, but has to pretend to be very generous, while some people are obviously rich, but they are careful and more scheming than ordinary people. From a psychological point of view, the more a person wants to express something, the more he lacks something.
For example, wealth, wealth is sometimes manifested in vanity, which is the so-called "face". So in real life, because you want to save face, there are always people who have swollen faces and become fat, such as class reunions, everyone takes turns to entertain, even if it is borrowed, you have to show a very generous appearance, even if you go back and gnaw on steamed buns for half a month, you can't lose this face in front of your classmates.
In the same way, in various social scenarios such as relatives, friends, colleagues, etc., it is actually a very common phenomenon for the poor to save face, so the poor often fall into such a cycle, on the one hand, they have to pretend to be generous, and on the other side, they desperately save money to pay for face.
However, when it is really necessary to invest, the poor often do not have the courage to pay for the sake of face, but are afraid to try.
And in the eyes of the rich, money should be spent on the cutting edge, not for the sake of face. So many times, we will feel that the rich are stingy, in fact, most of them are because of the difference in consumption concepts, when we see the side of the rich who pick the door, we should also see the atmosphere of spending a lot of money when they invest in a certain cause, which is probably the real face.
There is a saying that "the poor are cautious and generous, while the rich are generous and stingy". For the poor, the rich actually have a common secret, that is, the attitude towards wealth should be rational. This statement breaks down the weakness of the poor.
What does this mean? It is necessary to spend what should be spent, and resolutely not to spend what should not be spent, for the sake of face overdraft, it is irrational, and for the right thing to invest, it is necessary, only to spend money in valuable aspects, in order to form returns and accumulation. And the poor often make a lot of irrational consumption for the sake of so-called face, resulting in their inability to form wealth accumulation, so they can never get rich.
It is not terrible for a person to be in this stage of poverty, but what is terrible is that when a large number of social resources flow to the rich, the poor are not aware of it, and only when they realize that they need to put in more efforts to achieve class leapfrogging, can people awaken their wealth bloodline!