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My name is Zhou Qin, 32 years old this year, and my husband Qi Jian was introduced 4 years ago and tied the knot. We have a 2-year-old son.
Qi Jian's family is out of town, his parents died unexpectedly when he was two years old, and he and his brother grew up with their grandmother. His college fees are all earned by his own work-study, and even the job is applied for by his own ability.
I admired Qi Jian's courage and perseverance from the bottom of my heart, so before we met, I already had a good impression of him. In addition, Qi Jian is tall, handsome, enthusiastic, and cares about me in a meticulous manner, and soon we will talk about marriage.
But when my parents knew that Qi Jian was a foreigner, they resolutely disagreed. Especially when he knew that he had no parents and an 85-year-old grandmother to support, he was even more opposed to our relationship.
My parents just felt that Qi Jian's family was out of town, the family conditions were not good, and the financial burden was heavy, so they couldn't give me happiness.
Qi Jian understands his parents' worries very well, and he promised to buy a house in the local area before marriage, not to his hometown, and to be doubly good to me after marriage.
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I also cried and went on a hunger strike to protest against my parents, and threatened them that if I did not agree to our marriage, I would never marry for the rest of my life.
My aunt also came to be a lobbyist, Qi Jian has no parents, so I can avoid the conflict between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and I don't have to worry about being angry with my mother-in-law.
What's more important is that I don't have to leave my parents, I am around me every day, and they can enjoy the family. There is no need to be like her who married far away, no matter how much my grandmother misses and needs her, she has to focus on her in-laws and small family.
I don't know if it was my threat or my aunt's lobbying work, but my parents suddenly agreed to our marriage. The prerequisite is that before getting married, even if you borrow money and take out a loan, you must buy a house locally.
Qi Jian was so happy that he called his parents three times in a row, promising to do so, and he had already started to look at the house. Qi Jian said that he has saved more than 200,000 yuan from work over the years, just waiting to spend this money on the blade of getting married and buying a house.
At the critical moment of buying a house, Qi Jian's eldest brother called, and his grandmother had a recurrence of cerebral infarction. Qi Jian put down everything and hurried back to his hometown.
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It's a pity that the old man stayed in the ICU for 7 days and finally passed away.
Qi Jian said that since he rarely returned to his hometown from work, his grandmother has been taken care of by his eldest brother, and he felt that he owed his grandmother and eldest brother, so he bore all the expenses of the old man's hospitalization and taking care of the aftermath. As a result, there is not much left in the deposit.
I can't buy a house for a while, but I can't get married forever. After all, we are both not young anymore, and my parents have already released the news of our marriage, so it is impossible to say that we are not married.
Qi Jian promised my parents that if he didn't dislike it, he could be a son-in-law. In the future, my parents and I will be his closest people in the world, and he will honor my parents as his biological parents.
He will definitely work hard to make money, and with his ability, I can live in a new house and live a good life. It's just that I have to be wronged to rent a house with him first.
My parents saw that Qi Jian was so filial to his grandmother, and he must be a person who knows how to be grateful and affectionate. Besides, he had no father and no mother, which was really pitiful, and he immediately promised us to live in the house after we got married.
Therefore, when I had no house and no bride price, I married Qi Jian.
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My parents wanted to open it, but persuaded me that I don't have to care about the form, as long as Qi Jian is good to me, it is better than anything. also said that Qi Jian was a poor child, and he should be more considerate of him.
Of course I was happy to hear my parents say that. My husband was chosen by myself, who is considerate if I am inconsiderate?
Not only did my parents not let us take living expenses, but after we had children, they also showed us the children for free, and even bore all the expenses of the children.
Last year, my dad was sick to the hospital for a week. I discussed with Qi Jian, and we would bear my dad's hospitalization expenses. My dad has health insurance, but it doesn't cost much in total.
Qi Jian said that he had already contributed to the bed every day, and he could no longer contribute money. As soon as he spoke, he probably felt that he shouldn't say it, and then changed his words, now that he has a son, he has saved money to change to a big house quickly.
After getting married, Qi Jian's salary card has always been held by himself, and he has never taken care of the family's expenses. Every time I asked, he said that his salary was not moving, and he wanted to save up to buy a house.
I feel that I spend a lot of money, and my salary is basically moonlight, and it is a good thing that he can save his money. Therefore, he was not forced to hand over his salary card.
Although he refused my father's medical expenses, I didn't care about it anymore because he worked so hard to accompany the bed, and he usually treated my parents well. But I felt very uncomfortable.
Back then, when I asked Qi Jian to return the cost of my childbirth to my parents, he said that they were all a family, don't care. He also said that his money was saved to buy a house, and it was not spent indiscriminately. Buying a house is a big plan for both of us, and I can only endure the unhappiness.
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At the end of last year, my family's old house on the edge of the county was occupied by the highway that was about to be built, and a total of 1.2 million yuan was compensated.
After Qi Jian found out, he went to my parents without consulting me, wanting to buy a big house with the compensation money, and our family moved over. My parents refused, saying that the money was of other use.
Qi Jian and I had a big quarrel, and I explained to him that it was my parents' money, and we had no right to interfere. Qi Jian said that my parents didn't treat him as a family member, and said that I didn't have the same heart with him.
When Qi Jian asked my parents for money for the second time and was refused, he was hysterical, not only arguing with me, but also with my parents. He even threatened my parents not to provide for their pension in the future if they did not come up with the money to buy a house.
I'm in a hurry, over the years, my parents have posted their pensions, served our family, and let us live a life of food to open our mouths and clothes to stretch. Qi Jian is not grateful, and now he even threatens his parents for 1.2 million.
Qi Jian said that we used him as a cow and horse, and shouted that 1.2 million must be given to him, otherwise he would not give up and do what he said.
My parents have 1.2 million in their hands, have a pension, are in good health, and help us everywhere. Qi Jian is still so arrogant, if one day, my parents are old and need someone to take care of them, can they still count on Qi Jian?
How much I liked Qi Jian at the time, and how much I hate being blind now.
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In fact, my parents originally planned to spend less money, buy a one-bedroom apartment for them to live in, and transfer the current big house to me, so that our family of three can live.
The rest of the money for me to save for a rainy day. They always feel that the house price is so expensive, and it is a pity to throw all the money on the house.
Who knew that my parents didn't have time to say their plans, Qi Jiangou jumped off the wall in a hurry, and he would take revenge.
It wasn't until the divorce and division of property that I didn't know that Qi Jian didn't even have 1,000 yuan on his salary card. His brother is lazy and good at gambling, Qi Jian's money is in the account on the front foot, and it is transferred to his brother on the back foot.
Even treating his grandmother was fake, because the balance on his bank card never exceeded 1,000, let alone 200,000.
Qi Jian really has a good calculation, if it weren't for the 1.2 million, he would have painted me a big pie for a lifetime. My parents and I had to raise his son and his brother for the rest of his life.
It is said that money is a demon mirror, which is not false at all, 1.2 million makes Qi Jian appear in his original form.
Although I also paid the price, it is better to stop the loss in time than to be sucked by blood for the rest of my life!