These two types of men tend to be miserable in their old age, and they will leave earlier than their wives, which is really accurate
Life is like a speeding train, in the process of walking, we will meet all kinds of people and encounter all kinds of things, but no one can accompany us to the end, not even our own wife. Although everyone is very envious of that kind of marriage, there are indeed very few who can really implement it, and to some extent, it is quite sad.
The study found that the reason why many marriages cannot be vain is not because the two people are unwilling or have problems in their relationship, but because one of them died early, and most of the people who passed away were men. Watching a former lover leave is not something that everyone can bear, and the endless pain and memories are painful. Which men will leave earlier than their wives? These two types of men need to be extra careful.
A man who overdraws his own body excessively.
Men are under more pressure than women, not only to take on the burden of providing for their families, but also to think about their jobs and their future. In order to have a good development prospect, many men will put all their energy into work, overtime has become the norm until late at night, and they can't even take care of food when they are busy, because of long-term overtime, their bodies are also overdrawn.
But even so, many people don't think about this situation, they think that they are still young anyway, and there will be no major problems. Even if the body is tired, it will be adjusted after resting for a while. But these are just what they think, and as time goes by, many problems will become more and more prominent, and even lead to a series of chronic diseases. If you still don't pay attention to this situation, it will only make your life shorter and shorter, and in the end, it will still be your family who will cry for you.
A man who has been lonely and depressed for a long time in his heart.
There is often such a kind of man in our life, they are busy with work for a long time, and they do not have extra time to cultivate their hobbies and social circles, as if there is nothing to interest them except work. Maybe I didn't feel much when I was young, after all, work can indeed fill all my life, and just to deal with all kinds of people and things is enough to spend my energy.
But once they retire, the situation is reversed, because when they retire, their jobs can be over, but then they find themselves out of tune with their surroundings. This inability to integrate into the new environment can also make people feel restless. In the long run, people will become more and more lonely inside, not talking, not socializing, and even reluctant to go out.
You know, a person's mindset can have a serious impact on his life and physical health. If a person is lonely and depressed for a long time, he may suffer from various problems such as physical emaciation, malnutrition, low mood, and decreased resistance. Even if there is no disease, the influence of emotions may lead to suicidal thoughts, and such a man will not be able to live long after all.