Duras Says:
People who really love you will have pity in their eyes, and those who don't love you will only have desire in their eyes.
People don't treat important things casually. Love and non-love, there are expressions.
If a man truly loves you, he will definitely do both.
One
With you, is a man willing to spend money for you
Uncle and aunt are a very unsuitable pair in the eyes of relatives and friends.
My cousin is a girl from a provincial town, beautiful, capable and gentle, and she was raised in the palm of her parents' hands, even if she was born in the 60s when she was poor in material resources, she grew up without worrying about food and clothing.
In contrast, Uncle Cousin's condition is far worse. He is a wooden person, with an average appearance, his father died early, his mother remarried, and he has come all the way and worked his own.
But the two have been married for 40 years, but they have always been sweet and harmonious.
The younger girls also asked their cousins why they fell in love with their cousins, and my cousins told us a story with a smile:
There were a lot of people chasing me at that time, but he was the only one who had a dollar in his pocket and was willing to give me money.
In the book "Intimacy", there is this view:
Falling in love with someone is not about what you get, but about having the opportunity to do something for the other person.
When a man really loves a woman, he will be willing to give everything he has for the woman.
He can be very reluctant to himself, but he will definitely be very willing to the woman he loves.
Where the money is, there is love, and being willing to pay money to a woman is the most direct manifestation of a man's love for a woman.
Two
With you, will men carry things
Reader Xiaoyue recently encountered a major event: her mother was seriously ill and almost lost her life.
It is precisely because of this incident that Satsuki is even more convinced that the man in her family is a man worthy of trust.
Satsuki is a single-parent girl who was raised by her mother, and after she went to college, her mother got together with an uncle and worked in other places.
But two months ago, my mother returned to her hometown alone, and Xiaoyue took her to the hospital for examination and came up with a diagnosis: lupus erythematosus.
The month from the examination to the diagnosis was a difficult time in Xiaoyue's life. The uncle who was with his mother never showed up, and Satsuki's husband worked in another city, so he could only be Satsuki, and he took his mother to various hospitals while going to work alone.
Xiaoyue is also mentally prepared to carry it alone, the uncle who is with her mother is naturally unreliable, what about her husband? After all, it is a son-in-law, how many sons-in-law will be very attentive to their mother-in-law? Whoever is in charge of the parents can't have too high expectations.
But Xiaoyue's husband's performance was greatly unexpected by Xiaoyue.
He took annual leave, took a period of leave, and ran directly back to Xiaoyue's side.
From running around the hospital to paying various treatment fees, Xiaoyue's husband did not complain, and after finally getting the diagnosis result, he took the initiative to say to Xiaoyue:
In the second half of the year, you will change jobs and come to me, and then bring your mother over and live with us, so that we can all rest assured.
Don't worry, your husband is here, if something happens, don't be stupid and carry it alone.
Chen Daoming once said
The love between husband and wife is not when the moon goes down before the flowers, but when the catastrophe comes.
A man who truly loves you will come because of your light and will also give you the firmest support when you are in a difficult time.
Writer Zhang Xiaoxian said:
No matter what a woman seems to want, there are only two things she wants, a lot of love and a lot of security.
And a lot of love and a lot of security that a woman needs can be satisfied from these two actions of men.
When a man is willing to spend money for you, it puts you first.
When you encounter difficulties, he can carry things, will carry things, even if it is not his responsibility and obligation, he is willing to be in the same boat with you, because he wants you to be happy, happy, and worry-free.
Such a man is the man who truly loves you.