Yadan and Wang Jinlong's marriage
Yadan and Wang Jinlong are Zhao Benshan's apprentices, and the two got married in 2009. At that time, they were born from the grassroots, worked hard together under the leadership of Zhao Benshan, and finally became famous in the cross talk industry. In the years after marriage, their careers have gradually improved, and they have frequently appeared on the stage and received a lot of applause. Just when their careers were in full swing, there were cracks in their love lives.
According to insiders, Yadan and Wang Jinlong had some personality differences from the beginning. Yadan is more outgoing and cheerful, and likes to socialize; Wang Jinlong, on the other hand, is introverted and withdrawn and prefers to be quiet. This personality difference makes it difficult for the two to get along harmoniously in life, and conflicts continue to accumulate. According to media reports, they often quarrel over trivial matters, and in the end, no one will obey anyone.
Although Zhao Benshan and others tried their best to dissuade them, Yadan finally chose to divorce in 2017. According to Yadan herself, the decision to divorce was made out of love considerations. She believes that if two people can't truly understand and tolerate each other, living together will only increase each other's pain. Divorce, while a difficult decision, is an opportunity for both parties to start over.
The impact of divorce decisions
After the divorce, there was a clear difference in the life trajectories of Ya Dan and Wang Jinlong. Yadan chose to change careers and began to engage in emerging industries such as live streaming on the Internet. With her talent and hard work, she quickly opened up her popularity in this field and attracted a large number of fans. Today, Yadan not only has a successful career, but also has a very considerable income and a carefree life.
Wang Jinlong's development is relatively backward. After the divorce, he continued to pursue the traditional two-person business, performing in small theaters and villages. Due to the fierce competition in this industry and his advanced age, Wang Jinlong's income and fame have declined. According to reports, his quality of life is not too high, and he sometimes even needs to rely on relatives and friends for funding.
Judging from the current living conditions of the two, it was wise for Yadan to make the decision to divorce back then. If she didn't have the courage to leave at the beginning, she would probably be like Wang Jinlong, trapped in the original industry and lifestyle, and it would be difficult to realize her self-worth. Divorce gives Yadan the opportunity to start anew and pursue the life she truly yearns for.
Divorce is the right decision
Looking back on the whole incident, it is not difficult for us to find that although there was a lot of criticism at the time, the decision to divorce Yadan and Wang Jinlong was correct. This decision not only freed Yadan from a suffocating marriage, but also gave her the opportunity to pursue her ideals and values.
From a broader perspective, this incident also reflects the progress of society. In the past, people tended to be conservative about divorce, believing that divorce was a shame. But now, people have come to terms with divorce as an opportunity to start over. The example of Ya Dan and Wang Jinlong shows that sometimes divorce is not a bad choice, on the contrary, it may allow both parties to get a new life.
Divorce is not a one-and-done solution. It requires enough courage and determination on both sides to truly get out of the gloom and start a new life. Yadan's success is largely due to her strong personality and unremitting efforts. Instead of being crushed by the shadow of divorce, she took on new challenges with a positive and optimistic attitude.