On April 13, 2009, Zhao Benshan drove a Rolls-Royce to the wedding scene of the apprentice girl, giving the little couple enough face.
At the wedding, Yadan and Wang Jinlong said earnestly: Don't leave!
Who knew that within a few years, the two divorced, and then on the same yacht, they each found their own happiness.
Where did this marriage originate, and how did it get to the point of no return? As a good partner in the past, what did this marriage bring to their careers?
Yadan was born in Heilongjiang in 1987, originally named Lv Pin, but later changed to the stage name because the name was not recognizable.
Her father was an instrumentalist and her mother was a duo-turned-actress.
The union of such two professions should have been a pair made in heaven, but the triviality of the family gradually caused them to have contradictions and differences.
So when Yadan was only more than twenty days old, her mother chose to leave, and since then Yadan has grown up under her father's care.
It was somewhat difficult for a grown man with a child, so when Yadan was very young, his father married another duo turned actor.
When Yadan was 3 years old, she welcomed her own sister.
She is very good to her sister, because her mother is also very good to her, and the family is happy together, if not to say that it is not obvious that it is a reorganization of the family.
It is precisely because of this that the girl, who was abandoned by her mother at a very young age, always thought that her stepmother was her biological mother.
After remarrying, his father and stepmother formed a two-person theater troupe, and the family moved to Liaoning to seek a living.
Yadan, who grew up in such an environment, was naturally attracted to such a rich and interesting performance form as the duo, so she learned from the actors in the troupe since she was a child.
This child has a lot of spirit when he is young, whether it is Beijing Opera, duo zhuan or pop songs, he can almost catch it.
So at the age of 9, she began to be able to pick big beams and follow her father's troupe everywhere. But the price was that she dropped out of school in the fourth grade because of too much schoolwork.
Although this form of performance is very popular in Liaoning, it cannot withstand the fierce competition in the industry, so his father's troupe has been losing money.
Long-term economic pressures crushed the harmony of the family, and the father of the girl often quarreled with his remarried wife over firewood, rice, oil and salt.
Finally, all the quarrels ended when Yadan was 10 years old.
The father's second marriage was broken and the younger sister was taken away by the stepmother. At that time, the girl was very uncomfortable, and she didn't understand why her mother didn't take her away as well.
Seeing Yadan crying all day, in the end, her aunt couldn't stand it and told her the truth, it turned out that she was abandoned by her biological mother when she was a child.
After the divorce, his father could no longer support the development of the troupe alone, so he had to dissolve the troupe and was saddled with debts.
At that time, Yadan had already become famous in the two-person transfer world, so the burden of the family fell on her. When Yadan was invited out to perform, her father took the guys to her side as an instrumentalist, and they carefully saved every sum of money and went to pay off the debt.
This life lasted for 5 years, and it was not until Yadan was 15 years old that they lived a less strapped life.
That night, Yadan's father bought a few bottles of wine, apologized to Yadan while drinking, and finally couldn't help but collapse and cry on the table.
But fortunately, Yadan is very promising, and soon she was lucky enough to be favored by Zhao Benshan and become her female disciple, as one of Zhao Benshan's few female apprentices, her future is full of brightness.
It was also here that she met her first love, and her senior brother Wang Jinlong.
Due to their perennial partnership, the two have an extraordinary tacit understanding with each other.
However, because Yadan has always been more famous than himself, Wang Jinlong does not dare to confess rashly even if he has ideas in his heart.
Finally, on New Year's Day 2008, he ushered in the opportunity to pursue love.
After the performance that day, Wang Jinlong specially bought a supper for her, and looking at the reunion of others in the cold wind, Yadan couldn't suppress her inner grievances and cried.
After silently crying with Yadan, Yadan choked up and said that he was abandoned by his mother since he was a child, and also began to tell about his father's hard work for many years.
Wang Jinlong himself is also a suffering life, and he easily empathizes with Yadan's emotions, so the two confide in each other.
Finally, Wang Jinlong grabbed Yadan's hand and said: Suffering is to better temper us, happiness is to be created by ourselves, are you willing to be my girlfriend and fight with me?
The girl who had a good impression of Wang Jinlong whispered: I have been waiting for you.
Later, Yadan and Wang Jinlong went to Jilin to participate in the performance, and Wang Jinlong's mother specially came to visit his future daughter-in-law.
After the performance, when Yadan saw Wang Jinlong being held in her mother's arms, she couldn't stop envying.
Just when Wang Jinlong reacted and was about to introduce Yadan to his mother, he found that Yadan was crying silently outside, he hugged Yadan and asked the reason, Yadan couldn't control the grievances in his heart and said: I haven't seen my mother since I was a child, and I envy you and your mother so close.
This sentence was just heard by Mother Wang, who walked to the door, and she grabbed the girl and said distressedly: In the future, you will treat me as your own mother.
The next day, Wang Jinlong came to his house with Yadan, and Mother Wang personally wrapped Yadan's favorite three fresh dumplings for her.
During the meal, Mother Wang kept looking at Yadan and made Yadan a little embarrassed, and finally Mother Wang said: If you like it, I will give you a bag every day in the future.
The long-lost "mother's love" suddenly surrounded Yadan, and she worked harder in the aftermath.
In 2009, she appeared on the Spring Festival Gala with "Not Bad Money" and became famous in one fell swoop.
That classic sketch dialogue is still modeled by many people today: "Well, Scottish flirting." "Grandpa, grandpa, it's the opposite, it's a Scottish mood."
Yadan's exaggerated and cute tone attracted the love of many audiences.
After achieving success in her career, she also began to pay attention to her emotional life, and when she became popular, she chose to marry Wang Jinlong.
Both of them are actors that Zhao Benshan is optimistic about, and they are good partners on the stage, and it is a good relationship to be able to come together, so their union has been blessed by many people.
On April 13, 2009, Zhao Benshan drove his Rolls-Royce to the wedding scene of Yadan and Wang Jinlong.
After the ceremony began, Zhao Benshan warned the young lovers that love requires patience and respect.
In the face of Master's blessing, the two promised in unison: We will never leave.
Two years later, the two have a son, happiness seems close at hand, but a peaceful life is secretly turbulent.
After marriage, Yadan's career is still prosperous, but Wang Jinlong's career has not improved, and slowly the two have no common language in their careers, and they almost no longer perform on the same stage.
Passion sustains love, but it does not sustain marriage.
After a long time, the girl who was busy in her career gradually began to be a little dissatisfied with her husband who played soy sauce, conflicts gradually arose, and her marriage became increasingly broken.
This marriage, which was envied at first, finally came to an end in 2017.
But in fact, as early as 2016, Yadan revealed the news of the divorce of the two during the live broadcast, and Wang Jinlong also said, but I don't know what the reason was not officially announced until 2017.
Perhaps they still had some expectations for this marriage at that time, and they did not call it divorce, but used a very romantic word: fate is over.
It is said that when the two had problems in their marriage, Zhao Benshan discouraged them many times, hoping that they could think well, because there is an unwritten tradition in Benshan Media, that is, no matter which husband and wife as partners mix well, they cannot give up the other.
But Yadan said that this is not a question of whether it is red or not, and marriage is a matter of two people and cannot be bound by rules, so in the end the two went their separate ways.
After the divorce, the outside world talked about this broken relationship, and there were even rumors that Yadan was usually too busy with work, and then Wang Jinlong cheated so Yadan was discouraged and filed for divorce.
But it doesn't matter, because both have found the lifestyle that suits them best.
After the divorce, the girl put her time and energy into work, and her income skyrocketed, and when she was fine, she went out with friends to party and play, and her life was very comfortable.
However, such a coziness has provoked rumors for her, and some people say that she can be so happy to abandon her husband and son, which is simply ruthless and senseless.
These words caused Yadan's popularity to decline a lot, but in fact, things are not as they seem.
Yadan has been very busy with work, so the child has grown up with her grandmother since she was a child, and after the divorce, considering the relationship between the child and her grandmother, she handed over the custody of the child to Wang Jinlong.
But even so, Yadan did not give up her responsibility as a mother, and she often found opportunities to go back to see her children.
In addition to enjoying her single life and children, she also struggles hard in her career.
However, because her acting style has long been fixed, she can hardly find any breakthroughs in comedy, coupled with the continuous emergence of new people in the comedy industry, so she has to switch to the film industry.
She participated in "Voldemort Jigong", but for various reasons, the film did not even make it to theaters.
In the end, there was no way, she simply became an Internet celebrity, and with the traffic she accumulated in her early years, her live broadcast career was doing well, and even began to cultivate new people.
But after all, she has not received professional training, so she is always complained by the audience that she will not bring goods when she brings goods live.
In the face of all kinds of doubts, she carried them all.
Some people think that her career is no longer as good as before, and her life should not be much better, but she has found another way to achieve a happy life.
In 2019, a video of a girl being proposed was leaked, and the other party was also Zhao Benshan's apprentice, and the two were like-minded.
The marriage proposal was on a yacht, and the dress of the girl was obviously pulled on the stage temporarily, and she immediately agreed to the other party after being surprised and moved.
Just two days ago, Yadang's "new father-in-law" released the good news that Yadan gave birth to a big fat boy.
It is reported that this is Yadan's third child, 35-year-old she has both children and happy families, which can be regarded as getting rid of the shadow of lack of family affection in childhood.
Wang Jinlong also started a live broadcast like Yadan after his divorce, and there was another woman who was live broadcast with him at that time, and the behavior of the two seemed to be intimate, which caused many people to speculate.
But Wang Jinlong did not respond at that time, until the girl released a video herself, which was considered to solve everyone's curiosity.
In the video, the woman and Wang Jinlong are on vacation on a yacht, she is holding Wang Jinlong while filming with her mobile phone, and the action between the two is undoubtedly a couple in love.
Compared with the woman's generosity, Wang Jinlong is a little shy, and even his eyes have been avoiding the camera.
Coincidentally, sharp-eyed netizens found that this yacht seemed to be the yacht where the girl was confessed. This operation made the melon-eating masses very excited.
However, there was no other entanglement between Yadan and Wang Jinlong in the follow-up, and Wang Jinlong's new girlfriend was the No. 97 disciple of Zhao's family class, and she was also regarded as the junior sister of Yadan and Wang Jinlong.
Fate is so wonderful, these two people go around in circles or find good people in the common circle.
In fact, Yadan and Wang Jinlong's marriage ended decently, when someone asked Yadan how to distribute the property after the divorce, Yadan waved his hand and said freely: Just that little thing, one person got half of it.
You know, Yadan's ability to make money after marriage is several times that of Wang Jinlong, but she doesn't care at all, it is such open-mindedness that makes them never slander each other even if they are separated.
There are too many people in this world who can only accompany us for a while, but we will eventually meet the person who accompanies us to the end, and we are grateful for the passers-by!