What would it be like to have a husband who is 16 years younger than you? And the little husband is still very rich, very rich in Dubai's rich second generation.
In marriage, no one can guarantee that the life after marriage is not good, Zhou Juan is.
Failed marriages
In Zhou Juan's first marriage, everyone envied her for marrying a rich second generation, and Zhou Juan also accepted this marriage under the urging of her parents.
Because there was no long-term contact before marriage, and I didn't understand each other thoroughly, I was okay at the beginning, my family had money, and I didn't have to worry about food and clothing in life.
But gradually, Zhou Juan discovered her husband's shortcomings.
Although the family has money, Zhou Juan's husband relies on this to not work hard and not be motivated.
Later, he "lay flat" directly at home, playing games at home every day, stretching out his hands to eat and open his mouth, it is simply the life of a young master!
Zhou Juan came home from work every day, saw the dirty living room, her heart was angry, and she couldn't find her husband at home.
Although Zhou Juan has a decent job in a big city and is a female white-collar worker in the eyes of outsiders, she is indeed from the countryside, and her thinking is somewhat different from that of her husband, who has lived a prosperous life since childhood.
Zhou Juan is a girl from the countryside, her parents are ordinary farmers, and when she was a child, the family's main source of income was farming.
Zhou Juan is a girl in the family, obedient and sensible, and her brain is also very smart, and her grades are always among the best in school.
Parents are also full of expectations for their children, thinking that they must let their children study hard and live in the big city.
Zhou Juan is also very competitive, and at the same time, she has also developed a self-reliant and self-reliant character.
In this way, she was admitted to university, majoring in media, and the four years of college ended quickly, and Zhou Juan found a good job in a TV station.
With her super work ability, Zhou Juan quickly gained a firm foothold in the TV station.
A few years later, Zhou Juan jumped ship to a company to do operations, and her position was not low, but in just one or two years, she achieved the position of vice president of the company.
From a rural girl to being able to become the vice president of a company, Zhou Juan's hard work all the way is on her own.
After being introduced by others, Zhou Juan met her current husband, because she was almost thirty years old, and her parents in her hometown heard that Zhou Juan had a partner, so they began to urge her to marry.
So I married my current husband, who would have thought that people before and after marriage could have such a big change.
Zhou Juan has always been positive, conscientious and responsible for her work, relying on her own hard work, on the other hand, her husband is idle, relying on "gnawing the old" to live, and her ideology is completely different.
A few days later, Zhou Juan found out that she was pregnant, and after learning that her wife was pregnant, her husband was "rare" for a few days, and then he still had to do what to do.
After the child was born, Zhou Juan was looking forward to the young child, who could arouse her husband's "father's love" and be able to accompany Zhou Juan's mother and son at home with peace of mind.
Her husband has indeed changed, Zhou Juan is full of hope for her future life, and she is eager for him to do a good job in the future!
After the confinement, Zhou Juan quickly devoted herself to work, and now that she has a child, she has an idea in her heart, that is, she wants to start her own business and have her own children's clothing brand.
She had some savings and persuaded her husband to start a business with her, and the couple worked together.
In the past six months, everything has been going smoothly, a clothing company has been established, and business has gradually improved.
After the company was on the right track, Zhou Juan became pregnant again, and during her childbirth, her husband was staring at her.
The second child came at a bad time, because there was no contraception, and it came unexpectedly, but since it came, Zhou Juan would definitely choose to give birth.
After the child was born, her health was not very good, it may be that Zhou Juan's body did not take care of her after experiencing a child, or it may be that she was too busy with work and did not notice her body.
On the one hand, there are two young children, Zhou Juan is haggard, and at this time, when she is about to reflect the importance of her partner, Zhou Juan's husband quit because he can't stand the restrained life.
After Zhou Juan fell into confusion in an instant, the two began to quarrel, and the three views did not agree, Zhou Juan no longer had expectations for this marriage, so she filed for divorce with her husband.
When I heard the words of divorce, my husband didn't agree, and I was only married for a few years, so I wanted to divorce?
But Zhou Juan really doesn't want to live like this anymore, she has to work every day, she has to take care of her two children, and she has to quarrel with her husband from time to time......
Zhou Juan really didn't want to live like this anymore, so she passed the law to sue for divorce, she has a career and money, and divorce may also support herself and her two children.
The divorce lawsuit lasted for a long time, and the husband was reluctant to divorce.
In fact, it is quite contradictory, the husband doesn't care about the family and the children, he only cares about having fun, and the wife divorces him, but he doesn't want to leave.
Zhou Juan was also completely disappointed in her husband, so she insisted on divorce, and what marriage brought to Zhou Juan was not happiness.
Later, the court finally ruled that the two were divorced, the two children were still young, the ex-husband was unreliable, and the two children lived with Zhou Juan.
Life after the divorce was not so easy, but Zhou Juan felt more relaxed than ever.
When I go to the company during the day, I often bring my two children to the company, and there are many people in the company, and there are people watching.
When she was busy, she let the invited aunt watch at home, and Zhou Juan was also very relieved.
On this day, it happened to be a weekend, Zhou Juan decided to relax and take her two children to the park to play.
Meet Bohu
The youngest son rarely comes out because of his poor health, and now he is alive and kicking, and it is strange to see everything, which also makes Zhou Juan happy and distressed when he sees it, and he usually spends too little time with the child.
Just when Zhou Juan was not paying attention, the youngest son was attracted by a toy in the hands of a foreigner, and unconsciously came to the foreigner.
"Uncle, can I play with your toys?"
Bohu turned his head to see that it was a little doll, and instantly raised a kind smile, "Of course you can." ”
On this side, Zhou Juan came back to her senses and saw that her youngest son had taken the toy from Bohu's hand, and hurriedly ran over to apologize.
When Bohu saw Zhou Juan, he was immediately attracted by her: "It turns out that Chinese women are so beautiful"
However, seeing that Zhou Juan had children, and thinking that there might be a family, he put away his curiosity and began to talk to Zhou Juan.
It turned out that Bohu was from Dubai, came to China to study at the age of 18, and had a gold mine at home, and was a rich second generation.
I came to China to study in order to return home in the future to inherit the family business, after all, the family has minerals, dozens of gold shops, and a large hospital.
I learned so much about Bohu on the day of the park, after Bohu added Zhou Juan's contact information, I slowly learned about it.
Bohu was so enthusiastic that after learning that Zhou Juan wanted his son to learn foreign language from primary school, Bohu recommended himself and became Zhou Juan's child's private foreign teacher.
At this time, Bohu was still a student studying abroad, only about 20, but Zhou Juan was already in his 30s.
Later, Bohu learned that Zhou Juan had divorced, and now she was single and living alone with two children.
Slowly, the relationship between the two became more and more familiar, and the son also liked Bohu as a "teacher" very much.
Zhou Juan did not think of what Bo Hu thought of herself, in the minds of Chinese, the difference between the two is 16 years, there will be no result.
What's more, she is 16 years older than Bohu, Zhou Juan just thinks that Bohu is a very good person and regards him as a friend.
However, Bohu confessed to her without any preparation from Zhou Juan!
The first thought in Zhou Juan's heart was: refuse! Refused without hesitation.
Knowing Bohu's thoughts, Zhou Juan began to avoid Bohu, but the enthusiasm of foreigners was irresistible.
It was at this time that Zhou Juan's ex-husband came to make trouble and wanted custody of the child, so he started a lawsuit again, and finally awarded his eldest son to his ex-husband.
When Zhou Juan was sad, Bohu was by his side and coaxed Zhou Juan with his youngest son.
Although Bohu is younger than Zhou Juan, he is responsible in case of trouble, and he is inevitably attracted by this handsome guy invisibly.
There is a gap between the two, age, nationality, relatives and friends, and different lifestyles, etc., are all obstacles.
Bohu said to Zhou Juan: Don't worry, I will not abandon you!
In this way, the two of them were together, and the first thing they disagreed with was the families of both parties.
Zhou Juan's parents thought that the two of them didn't match anywhere, how could they go long, and besides, are foreigners reliable? What if it's a liar?
However, under Zhou Juan's persuasion, she agreed for the time being, and did not get married immediately.
Bohu's family is the most difficult to deal with, and I originally thought that after Bohu returned from school, he would find him a well-connected daughter-in-law.
Zhou Juan is not only old, but also has given birth to two children, with a "drag oil bottle", she is not worthy of her own children at all.
On the phone, Bohu's attitude was very tough, he liked Zhou Juan, and he must be with her.
Bohu's parents were stunned, and as soon as their brains rushed, they said that they would break off the relationship, and Bohu also said that he wanted to stay in China and wanted to be with Zhou Juan all the time.
Bohu has no financial resources from his family, and he is a student who has not graduated, so he can only work to earn money.
Zhou Juan saw that Bohu was so fierce for himself and his family, she felt very sorry for him and wanted to help him in life, but Bohu refused.
He has the ability to make money, how can he let Zhou Juan support him, he has to work hard to let Zhou Juan spend his money in the future.
Bohu and Zhou Juan are married, although he is a rich second generation, but now he is in a "cold war" with his family, and he is in Zhou Juan's house.
Although it is said to be rich, in the eyes of Bohu, a foreigner, it is not a matter at all, and it is the same wherever he lives!
Soon Bohu found a job and began to be a member of the Chinese office workers, and Zhou Juan was in good spirits on happy occasions, and the company was also run very well by her.
Both are working together for the future.
The youngest son likes this foreign stepfather very much, and the two get along very well, as if they are "brothers".
It has been a long time since the two got married, and in life, Zhou Juan and Bohu have no contradictions, only mutual tolerance.
Later, Bohu received a message from his family in Dubai, and they compromised and asked Bohu to take Zhou Juan back.
The two came to Dubai, Zhou Juan followed the local customs and put on local clothes, and Bohu's family accepted Zhou Juan, and they wanted Bohu to come back to inherit the family business.
Bohu was unwilling, he was afraid that Zhou Juan would not adapt to life here, China was Zhou Juan's home, and he also fell in love with the country of China.
No way, on the day the two returned to China, Bohu received a huge amount of money, which is the only thing parents can give to their children.
After returning to China, Bohu had the money and began to prepare for a big job, and Bohu became a partner of a supercar club, and the business was booming.
Now, Zhou Juan and Bohu live a rich and happy life, and their youngest son has grown up.
They have their own Douyin account on short videos and share some life news every day.
However, there are still regrets, because the eldest son was sentenced to his ex-husband, he was taken to New Zealand some time ago, and his ex-husband did not let Zhou Juan contact his eldest son.
Today, May 11, in the updated video of Bohu and his wife, Zhou Juan said that through self-media, some netizens helped Zhou Juan contact her eldest son in New Zealand, and the eldest son also brought Zhou Juan a gift.
Those who pay attention to Zhou Juan and his wife will know that the relationship between Zhou Juan and her ex-husband should be very poor, so it is very difficult for Zhou Juan to see her eldest son, and she can only contact her through her mobile phone.
This is also the only regret place.
Zhou Juan and Bohu's transnational love is a marriage that many people can't envy, Zhou Juan is over 40 years old this year, but she is still thinking about getting pregnant and wants to have a common child with Bohu.
Lovers who love each other will not be hindered by age, as long as they meet the right person, anything can be overcome.
Zhou Juan is also really lucky, after experiencing an unhappy marriage, she can still meet a rich second generation like Bohu, who is held in her hands.
Information sources:
Douyin account: Bohu and his wife
Editor: Xiao Meng