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My daughter was admitted to the selection of students when she graduated, and now seven years have passed, which is completely opposite to what she imagined!

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Xiaoxiao graduated from Zhejiang University with excellent grades that year, successfully passed the selection and transfer examination, and entered the provincial unit to work. For a young person who has just entered society, this is undoubtedly a dream opportunity.

My daughter was admitted to the selection of students when she graduated, and now seven years have passed, which is completely opposite to what she imagined!

The stable establishment and the treatment within the system make Xiaoxiao full of hope for the future. After 7 years of training, Xiaoxiao found that life in the system was very different from what she imagined.

At the beginning, Xiaoxiao was temporarily transferred out of the provincial unit and transferred to the county. The job that was promised to be transferred back in half a year ended up in vain. Xiao Xiao can only accept the reality and continue to work in the county.

At the age of 27, Xiao Xiao was successfully promoted to the deputy section level. This is an important step in her career. But it didn't take long for Xiao Xiao to be forcibly assigned to a remote township as the deputy head of the township.

My daughter was admitted to the selection of students when she graduated, and now seven years have passed, which is completely opposite to what she imagined!

The 28-year-old deputy head of the township sounds very powerful, but Xiaoxiao is miserable in her heart. She not only missed the best time of her youth, but also gave up the opportunity to develop in the provincial unit.

Now, the place of work is far away, and it takes more than 1 hour to drive back and forth. There is no holiday on Saturdays, and Sundays are not certain. This is too far from what she imagined life in the system.

What makes Xiao Xiao even more sad is that most of her college classmates are now successful in their careers and rich in life. And she has not yet found a suitable other half. As soon as he said that he worked in the township, no one was optimistic about this marriage.

My daughter was admitted to the selection of students when she graduated, and now seven years have passed, which is completely opposite to what she imagined!

In fact, Xiao Xiao also chose this path with hope. She believes that through the shortcut of selection and transfer, she can achieve stability and rapid promotion. But the reality is brutal.

In the past 7 years, Xiaoxiao has not only not been reused as she deserves, but has been sent to the remote and difficult grassroots frontline. The passion of the first arrival has long since disappeared, replaced by frustration and confusion.

Xiaoxiao's experience reflects the reality of many selected students. We must see that the selection of students is not necessarily an iron rice bowl. The threshold and difficulty of promotion within the system are also far beyond imagination.

My daughter was admitted to the selection of students when she graduated, and now seven years have passed, which is completely opposite to what she imagined!

More importantly, in this environment, the grassroots lack vitality, and it is difficult for the talents of the selected students to be fully utilized.

So, where should Xiaoxiao go? In my opinion, she should not give up on this, but adjust her mentality and re-examine her career plan.

Xiaoxiao can take the initiative to communicate with leaders and express her career development demands. In the day, we must seize every opportunity to express ourselves. At the same time, she can also improve herself through further education and accumulate reserves for future development.

My daughter was admitted to the selection of students when she graduated, and now seven years have passed, which is completely opposite to what she imagined!

Xiao Xiao has to learn to see a little. The experience of life is never easy. Compared with the temporary achievements of her classmates, Xiaoxiao has a long-term career path waiting to be explored. The key is to stay passionate, enrich your inner life, and strive to live in harmony with your environment.

Xiao Xiao can properly plan the next step of development. If you are really dissatisfied with the status quo, you can also consider leaving the system and choosing another direction of development. At the age of 30, it can be said that there are still infinite possibilities.

There are no ifs in life, and each of our experiences is unique. The important thing is to face the reality with a positive attitude, turn difficulties into motivation, and believe that dreams will eventually come true.

My daughter was admitted to the selection of students when she graduated, and now seven years have passed, which is completely opposite to what she imagined!

I believe that as long as Xiaoxiao adjusts her mentality and starts anew, she will be able to regain hope and move towards a fulfilling and successful life.

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