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Really powerful people rarely continue to make the same mistakes in their lives.
People can't pour twice in the same place, eat a trench and grow a wisdom, I used to think that this is a kind of wisdom, but now it seems that he feels more like a kind of survival kung fu and strength.
Since it is kung fu, it naturally means that not everyone has such general inner cultivation and concentration.
When a person can't cook, in every day's life, people will be sad about this three meals a day, unless you have enough financial resources to live a life of eating takeout every day.
Life is destined to be such a process, encountering problems, overcoming problems, and in the process of constantly conquering problems, we can train our own strength and accumulate our own wisdom.
When I can slowly cook, especially my cooking skills have made great progress and precipitation, because the distress of not being able to cook no longer exists.
Life is destined to be a battlefield, which may make you feel clueless, and it is destined to make you encounter pain of one kind or another.
If a person does not have enough wisdom and concentration, the same mistakes will inevitably be repeated, continued, embarrassed, and painful in life.
If you are somewhere and your ability is not up to par, then you will encounter similar situations repeatedly, and that is the suffering of repetition.
02
After coming into contact with a little bit of Buddhist theory, I gradually began to like the saying of "the way of gathering and destroying suffering", and I should feel that it is a kind of wisdom and thinking of life.
The so-called bitterness gathers and extinguishes the Tao, he refers to such a thing, it tells us that life is bitter, life is really bitter, this is a kind of life status quo, and it is not subject to human will, if you find it with your heart, you will find that there is too much pain in life.
Therefore, a person's state of mind is crucial to the most important, a thought to become a Buddha, a thought to become a demon, a thought of heaven, a thought of hell, a gentleman and villain are always thinking about it.
Since the things we face are often painful, such as work matters, academic troubles, family life encounters with firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and the difficulties in the realization of personal ideals, they are all regarded as a kind of suffering in life.
And when we face them, it seems that the best way to think is to keep our hearts calm and calm, and collect them one by one, just want to take a cloth bag to collect the copper coins you like, and collect them one by one. Then destroy them, and slowly summarize the methods and experiences, which are called wisdom, as a reference for your future life.
03
It is true that one should not make the same mistake more than twice.
You have more contact with people in your life, and you may slowly find that in fact, the really powerful person is often a particularly self-disciplined person.
Confucius said:
"The gentleman asks for himself, and the villain asks for others."
In fact, the biggest enemy of people in this life is often themselves.
Sometimes the so-called cultivation is to recognize your own flaws and deficiencies, find and discover your own loopholes, and slowly check and fill in the gaps, so that you can better improve and be comprehensive.
Any things and setbacks encountered in life are actually the best materials.
In the past, just like when I was driving, I would have a moment of distraction, just because such a move almost caused a tragedy, so since then, I have learned from the pain, changed the past, as long as I was driving, I must be careful and cautious enough.
In fact, when a person is driving, half of his life is handed over to himself, and the other half is handed over to God.
So in a sense, I often tell the people around me that just like the story of the barrel theory, each of us is born with a leak, try to make up for your own mistakes, just like Nuwa makes up for the sky, the more you make up for yourself, the less chance you may encounter risks in life.
04
When encountering a specific bump in the road, whether a person chooses to escape, or chooses to move forward bravely and face difficulties, the improvement of a person's ability and the precipitation of wisdom are destined to be worlds apart.
Lao Tzu said in the Tao Te Ching:
"The great things in the world must be done in detail; Difficult things in the world must be done easily. ”
A writer once wrote an article to tell us:
"A great man cannot be made in a comfortable life, and it is difficult to train an excellent sailor on a calm lake."
Many people say that Mount Everest is the most difficult peak to conquer, but in fact, in our opinion, the most difficult thing to conquer in this life is often ourselves.
When you encounter a specific thing, you are not so much defeated by difficulties as you are defeated by yourself.
Pu Songling told us:
"书痴者文必工,艺痴者技必良。。"
In life, a person must dare to overcome the things you face, so that ability and experience can be constantly nourished.
Han Yu said, there is a succession of hearing the Tao, there is a specialization in the art industry, just entering the room, a person on the road of the profession, every same problem encountered, only when you continue to overcome it, can you accumulate bit by bit and slowly move towards the heroism of the great craftsman class.
05
Everyone longs for their excellent skills to solve cattle, and they all dream that they will one day be able to be high-spirited on their professional path.
However, with the passage of time and precipitation, the ability and specialty that was skilled at the beginning may also have a hand-born performance one day.
Just like even if you are a person who studies the law, there will be a period of time when you don't choose to keep up, and you will leave a certain blank in your mind.
It is in this experience that we know the truth that the song does not leave the mouth and the fist does not leave the hand.
The knife is sharpened on the stone, and people practice it in the world, but the jade is not cut, and the instrument is not formed, and people do not learn and do not know.
In fact, a person's ability is often tempered in the process of solving problems.
Just like today, when we are reading math books, he will also tell you about various methods and experiences of doing problems, and constantly summarize and improve, a person's level and ability will have a rising performance, rather than staying in the self-restraint of carving a boat and seeking a sword.
But one thing is holding us back, probably because we lack the ability and experience to do so.
However, if the same thing continues to block the path of our progress and restricts the space for self-growth, it must be that there are serious changes and risks in the cognition in your mind.
The Book of Changes says:
"If you are poor, you will think about change, change will be successful, and you will last for a long time."
Whether it is life, health, work, reading, writing, practice, sports, or practice, they are all sailing against the current, and if they do not advance, they will retreat. Even if you've achieved a perfect score of 100 on something before, it will degrade as long as it is abandoned for a while.
Therefore, there is no such thing as a one-and-done thing in life, success and honor are always in the past, and there is always a new starting point under your feet.
Overcoming a difficulty, there is naturally a solution and wisdom to solve the problem.
After overcoming a technical difficulty, you will naturally master a higher-level technical essentials.
If you are somewhere and your ability is not up to par, then you will encounter similar situations repeatedly.
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