I can proudly say that my mother is an outstanding volunteer captain, she is enthusiastic about public welfare, selfless dedication, leading by example, she is my role model, I wish my mother a happy Mother's Day! With the sound of the prompt, Tian Guiling saw such a simple and unpretentious letter in the crowd at home - my mother. This was written to her by her 36-year-old son, Yoon Binrui, on the eve of Mother's Day 2024. Looking at it, Tian Guiling couldn't help but redden, in her 30-year volunteer career, she has become a "good mother" for many difficult children, but she almost made herself a "bad mother" in her son's heart. Now, with Yin Binrui's growth and participation, he not only understands his mother, but also begins to admire his mother, so on the eve of Mother's Day, he wrote a letter to his mother and wished his mother a happy holiday!
The clothes and shoes that were hidden were the son's silent resistance
"For more than 20 years, it is a luxury to spend the holidays with my mother, and when it comes to holidays, I either visit the old man or the child......" The most difficult thing for 36-year-old Yin Binrui this year is that other people's New Year's holidays are reunion days, but their family is just the opposite, because her mother Tian Guiling is always not at home.
"I've been volunteering for 30 years, and I used to do it in the workplace, but at that time I was a volunteer, and I just had to give my time and love. Later, after joining the Youth Volunteer Team of Life Daily, I became the team leader, and my responsibilities and burdens were heavier, so I could spend less time with my son. Tian Guiling, the captain of the youth volunteer team of Life Daily, mentioned the past and was very sorry for his son Yin Binrui, "I think about my son the most sorry for so many years, I didn't have time to accompany him when I was young, and I didn't take him to eat delicious food, and then my younger brother came to the family, and I ignored ......him even more."
After serving as the captain of the team, Tian Guiling always went to visit the lonely and widowed elderly in the nursing home, students with difficult families, and did not leave time for her family, so Yin Binrui was the most resistant to her mother's volunteer activities during college, "I used to be busy with studies, and my mother was not the captain, and she would leave me some time, after I went to college, my time was rich, but she was outside every day, and at that time, as she grew older, her health was not very good, so I didn't want her to go." Yin Binrui told reporters that at that time, in order to prevent his mother from participating in the event, he thought of a lot of ways, "I talked to her, I also lost my temper, and secretly hid her flat shoes and volunteer vest, just to make her unable to participate in the event, but nothing stopped her." Speaking of this, Yin Binrui, who is now mature, couldn't help laughing.
The extra brother made him start to understand his mother
"At first, there was suddenly an extra brother in the family, sharing my mother's love with me, I really didn't understand and complained. After a long time, I finally understood my mother, so I also helped my mother buy food for my younger brother, treating him as if he were my own brother. Mom always said, let's help him, don't want him to reciprocate, I just hope that he can have a warm home like you, have a mother who loves his mother, and grow up to be a positive person. ”
In 2013, Tian Guiling came into contact with Xiao Puquan in a volunteer activity, and Tian Guiling was very moved by Puquan's sensibility and willingness to learn, and since then she has been more pity for this child whose mother died and her grandmother depended on her life. "During the holidays, I brought Puquan to my house, wanting to change the child's living environment and take him to play in Harbin, so I took him to eat KFC and went to the park to take the children's train, he was very happy, but my son was not happy, because I didn't take him there." Seeing his younger brother who suddenly "broke into" his house, not only sharing his mother's love, but also getting the company he didn't get when he was a child, Yin Binrui's heart was unbalanced, and he also showed resistance to the arrival of Puquan. "Actually, it's not just a little jealous, but also part of the reason is that my mother is not in good health, I remember once she braved the heavy snow to give Puquan a parent-teacher conference, I didn't let her go, she had to go, we quarreled, she also disciplined me, I didn't consider my physical condition at all, I was in a hurry!"
Throughout the holiday, Pu Quan lived in Yin Binrui's house, he looked at this younger brother who was much younger than him, watched him sensibly gather around his mother, and his personality gradually changed from cowardice to cheerfulness, and unconsciously, his thoughts also changed. "Can I call you Mommy?" Pu Quan's words back then confused Tian Guiling's family, but it was Yin Binrui who quietly pulled the corner of Tian Guiling's clothes before she reacted. Looking at the tearful Puquan, Tian Guiling said, "Yes, you can call it whatever you want." After Tian Guiling agreed, Puquan cried excitedly, and reported to his grandmother that he had a home, a mother, a father and a brother......
"Son, do you agree? Let Puquan call me Mom! "Well, he's so pitiful, I agreed, and I'll have an extra brother in the future." That night, the conversation between Tian Guiling and Yin Binrui made Tian Guiling realize that the sensible Yin Binrui said that he was unwilling, but in fact, he had silently accepted Puquan in his heart, and since then, Yin Binrui has indeed led Puquan to eat delicious food like his brother, buy him clothes, school supplies, etc. "In fact, before my mother brought him back, I heard a lot about him, and after he came to my house, I saw his sensibility and caringness, in fact, I had already accepted him, and I gradually felt the meaning of my mother's efforts over the years."
Join the volunteer family and donate money and materials to give love
"I pay attention to the public welfare activities of my mother's team every day, and sometimes I also participate in donations, watching my mother coordinate and arrange volunteer work so well, and often give my mother a thumbs up, but I am more worried about her health."
After accepting Puquan, Yin Binrui also began to do public welfare activities with Tian Guiling, "My mother has a bad heart, I felt sorry for her at the beginning, and began to pick her up. Speaking of the opportunity for him to join the volunteer team, Yin Binrui also explained a little stiffly. Later, I participated a few times, and I saw the smiles of those lonely elderly people because someone came to visit them, and the grateful eyes of the children in need because of their love, I really remembered it, and I also understood the joy of helping others, and since then I have naturally joined the big family of volunteers. ”
In March 2024, Tian Guiling met Aunt Tian, an elderly person living alone, who was on crutches and also suffered from eye disease, because of the death of her wife and the cancer of her child, she wanted to give up the treatment of her eyes. After returning home, Tian Guiling chatted with Yin Binrui about Aunt Tian, "You went to see a doctor, and you don't care about these things if you don't concentrate on treatment?!" Yin Binrui first "complained" about Tian Guiling's distraction, and then expressed his opinion, "This grandma is too pitiful, let's help her if we can, let's go to her house in two days to see ......" Listening to Yin Binrui's words, Tian Guiling smiled with relief.
Photo courtesy of the interviewee
"He is also very useful, not only donating money and materials, but also helping me to read the news in the volunteer group, my eyes are not very good, he can help me reply, organize tasks, and statistics...... He can do it all. Tian Guiling said with a smile, "He always told me, can I be a vice captain, I will tease him, I said that you are still far away, he will say, then I will inherit the captain!" ”
"Mom is a person with leadership and organizational skills, she is a very kind person, she will not refuse anyone who is in difficulty, she always takes it upon herself and gives silently." ——Yin Binrui wrote to his mother Tian Guiling on the eve of Mother's Day in 2024.