Time flies, time flies, and before we know it, we have come to old age.
Born in 1965, I am 60 years old this year, and once upon a time I thought that 60 years was a distant future for me.
But in the blink of an eye, 30 years and 50 years have passed.
When you are old, when you hate yourself, you can't guarantee that others will like you.
It seems impossible not to be hated and disliked by others, and we can only try to be self-aware.
I summarized it, the old people who are not welcomed have the following reasons, hurry up and compare, how many of them are accounted for? If there is one, it will be changed, and if there is none, it will be crowned:
suit oneself
In real life, there is such a part of the old man, he always has his own stubborn opinions, and always feels that everything he does is right.
Just like some elderly people stubbornly believe that health supplements can keep you healthy. No matter how their children stop them, they still go their own way, and are keen to organize groups to listen to free health classes, and then listen to the fools of others calling their fathers and mothers, and buy back some health products that have no health care effect.
Some elderly people even spend tens of thousands of dollars to buy a health care bed, just imagine, lying on a bed can keep healthy, isn't this a fool's dream?
However, some old people are stubborn and do their own thing, and they are indifferent no matter how much their children stop them.
In the end, he let his hard-earned pension money go down the drain, and when he was sick and hospitalized and needed money, he opened his mouth to ask his children for money while crying, how can such an old man be treated by others?
selfish
Some elderly people don't know how difficult it is to understand their children, and they only care about their own pleasure.
Even if you are young and physically strong, you just spend all day at home idle, doing nothing, and don't know how to share your children's worries.
Although everyone is very resistant to continuing to work when I am old, I think it is not a good thing to find a little work to do when I am healthy.
Because, people always have to move, and lie down at home all day long, I think that will lead to psychological problems.
Isn't it a bad thing to go out and find some work to do, not only to exercise and exercise, but also to be able to contact people?
Not really, but at the same time, you can have an extra income, so why not kill two birds with one stone?
Not all the elderly work after retirement, because they have no money in their hands, and some people just want to be able to use their brains and hands to contact people, so that their old age life can be more fulfilling.
Even if you don't want to continue to find a job, then you should help the children share some of the pressure and help bring the baby to pick up the baby, so how can you be disliked? Therefore, all the old people who are disliked have their own reasons.
There is also a truth for the elderly, including those who travel during peak hours, always relying on the old and selling the old, and I want to have a comfortable seat to enjoy.
Don't you know that it is even more difficult for children. The elderly should know that it is not easy to understand the young people.
Therefore, don't travel during peak hours, because we elderly people have a lot of time, and we can choose a more relaxed time to go out shopping leisurely, rather than having to compete for seats with young people.
Therefore, this kind of selfish old man will not be treated well.
不拘小节
When people get old, they should pay more attention to their words and deeds.
Some old people are informal, unhygienic, spitting and littering when they go out, how can such old people be treated like others?
There are also old people who don't pay attention to hygiene, and they are sloppy all day long, do you think they can not annoy people?
We're just old and not stupid, we also have to clean ourselves up and go out refreshed, don't give others a chance to hate us.
Including our home, we should also clean up the windows, and don't build it like a garbage dump all day long, so that we can be treated by others?
There are also people who have to get rid of some bad habits when they are old, don't smoke, smoke the room all day long, do you say that children can not hate it?
Don't drink, drink all day and talk nonsense, nonsense, do you think you can be treated by others?
Leaning on the old and selling the old
When people are old, they must forget the glorious past, face up to reality, integrate into the current role, and cannot rely on the old to sell the old.
We can't talk about how our era was going to be all day long, just imagine that our era has become a thing of the past, and today's young people have not personally experienced our difficult and difficult era, they can't empathize.
Therefore, when people reach old age, they should not rely on the old and sell the old, but keep up with the pace of the times, so as to reduce the chance of being hated by others.
Nosy
When people reach old age, don't worry about it, just take care of themselves.
Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, and we can't compliment the way of thinking of young people now.
Not only do we look down on the way young people behave, but young people also don't understand the behavior of older people.
Therefore, let go of each other, and return each other to be free, and let others go is also to love themselves.
In short, there is a reason why people are not treated well in old age: they do their own thing; Selfish; Informal; Relying on the old and selling the old; Nosy.
Let's take a look at it and see how many you have? If there is, it will be changed, and if it is not, it will be crowned.