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Text: Chen is full
Edited by Chen Satie
Preface
In the journey of life, we are often faced with a variety of choices.
Do you choose to endure or rebel? Do you choose to compromise, or do you choose to persevere?
He Lili, a woman who married into a wealthy family, used her life to give her own answer.
Her story is full of joys and sorrows, as well as helplessness and pain.
But behind these experiences is a figure of tenacity and tenacious struggle of a woman.
A fateful encounter
He Lili was originally a hot actress in the Hong Kong entertainment industry.
She has outstanding beauty and elegant temperament, which has attracted the attention of countless people.
And this includes the heir of the Zhao family, Zhao Shiguang.
Zhao Shiguang is the only son of Hong Kong's "ship king" Zhao Congyan.
He is handsome, golden, and suave, and is the prince charming of countless girls' dreams.
When he first met He Lili, he was captivated by her beauty.
As a result, this wealthy son began his passionate pursuit of He Lili.
He Lili was reluctant to accept Zhao Shiguang's overtures at first.
She is well aware of the complexity of the life of a wealthy family, and she also understands the gap between herself and Zhao Shiguang.
But Zhao Shiguang's sincerity and persistence finally touched He Lili's heart.
After a romantic proposal, He Lili agreed to Zhao Shiguang's proposal.
In 1973, He Lili and Zhao Shiguang held a grand wedding.
The wedding was a major event in Hong Kong's social scene, attracting the attention of many celebrities and the media.
He Lili wore a white wedding dress, held Zhao Shiguang's hand, and happily walked into the palace of marriage.
The test of marriage
However, life after marriage is not as good as He Lili imagined.
Although Zhao Shiguang takes good care of her, his flowery nature has never changed.
Soon after marriage, Zhao Shiguang began to frequently go in and out of various social occasions and had scandals with all kinds of beauties.
As Zhao Shiguang's wife, He Lili was tortured.
Not only does she have to face her husband's infidelity, but she also has to endure the strange stares and gossip of the people around her.
He Lili wanted to leave this marriage many times, but in the end she chose to stay.
She understands that she has fallen deeply in love with Zhao Shiguang, and she is reluctant to let her children grow up without a father.
He Lili chose forbearance.
She uses her tolerance and wisdom to maintain the harmony of this family.
She tried her best to play the role of a good wife and mother, sheltering her husband from the wind and rain and creating a warm home for her children.
Despite the pain in her heart, she always faces everything with a smile.
The amorous Zhao Shiguang
Over time, Zhao Shiguang took over the family business and became a prominent figure in the business world.
His career is thriving, but his private life is more indulgent.
Zhao Shiguang has had improper relationships with many women, and there are even rumors of illegitimate children.
His scandal became the talk of Hong Kong's upper class after dinner, and it also hit He Lili hard.
Faced with her husband's betrayal, He Lili's heart was full of pain and helplessness.
She wanted to let go many times, but in the end she chose to forgive.
She understands that divorce means losing everything: not only losing Zhao Shiguang's love, but also losing the wealth and status brought by a wealthy family.
What's more, she can't bear to let her children suffer the pain of their parents' divorce.
He Lili chose to continue to forbear.
In her own way, she guards the family.
She handles the company's affairs for Zhao Shiguang and creates a good environment for the children to grow up.
She buried all her grievances and grievances in her heart and showed people with a smile.
In the eyes of outsiders, He Lili is a perfect good wife and mother.
The end of life
As the years passed, Zhao Shiguang's health deteriorated.
Although his wealth allowed him to enjoy the best medical conditions, it could not prevent the end of his life.
When Zhao Shiguang was dying, he left a will.
This will became the trigger for family infighting.
To He Lili's surprise, Zhao Shiguang left most of his property to his mistress and illegitimate son in his will.
And He Lili and her children only received a small part of the inheritance.
Anger and counterattack
Faced with such an outcome, He Lili felt angry and hopeless.
Over the years, she has given everything for this family, but in exchange for such an ending.
She couldn't accept that she and her children were deprived of their rights, and that she couldn't tolerate the triumph of her mistresses and illegitimate children.
He Lili decided to fight back.
She consulted a lawyer and began a lengthy legal process.
In this battle for the legacy, He Lili has shown amazing wisdom and courage.
She is not afraid of power and threats, and firmly defends her own interests and those of her children.
After several years of hard work, He Lili finally won the lawsuit.
The court ruled that Zhao Shiguang's will was invalid and that all the estate should be divided equally between He Lili and her children.
This verdict made He Lili a veritable ruler of the Zhao family.
Re-emergence
After winning the battle for the inheritance, He Lili began her own plan of "revenge".
Years of forbearance have allowed her to accumulate too much resentment.
She wants to give those who have hurt her a taste of failure.
He Lili began to rectify Zhao's enterprise.
She worked vigorously to purge disloyal or incompetent employees and reuse a group of loyal henchmen.
Under her leadership, Zhao's enterprise has radiated new vitality and its performance has been rising.
At the same time, He Lili also began to fight those former rivals.
She cut off the women's financial resources and gave them a taste of abandonment.
She also used her influence to keep illegitimate children ostracized from social circles.
Gradually, He Lili became the new favorite of Hong Kong's high society.
Her noble and elegant temperament, wise and keen business acumen, have made countless people admire her.
People have praised her as a remarkable strong woman and a legend in Hong Kong's business community.
However, only He Lili herself knows how many years of forbearance and pain are behind all this.
It took her half a lifetime to get to this point.
Although she has earned respect and status, what she has lost can never be regained.
The dust settled
When the dust settled, He Lili stood at the top of the wealthy family, overlooking everything under her feet.
In her own way, she proved her worth to those who once looked down on her.
But she also understands that behind this victory, there is the price of her youth and love.
Her beauty faded with the passage of time; Her love has long been shattered by countless betrayals.
Although she has wealth and status, her heart is full of bitterness and loneliness.
He Lili began to reflect on her life.
She finally understands that true happiness does not lie in the judgment of the outside world, but in her own inner peace.
She began to learn to let go and learn to enjoy the beauty of life.
She began to focus on philanthropy and use her wealth to help those in need.
In the public welfare activities, He Lili met a mature and stable man.
That man is not as handsome and golden as Zhao Shiguang, but he has a kind and upright heart.
With his company, He Lili found peace and happiness that she had not seen for a long time.
epilogue
He Lili's life is the joys and sorrows of a wealthy woman.
She spent half her life enduring unimaginable pain for ordinary people; But in the end, she used her wisdom and courage to win respect and happiness.
Her story tells us that life is never easy.
Each of us encounters all kinds of difficulties and setbacks.
But as long as we have hope and insist on ourselves, we will definitely be able to get out of the haze and usher in the bright sunshine.
He Lili used her life to interpret a woman's strength and unyielding.
She is the epitome of countless wealthy women and a role model for all modern women who pursue themselves.
Her life is full of legends, as well as inspiration and reflection.
This is He Lili, a wealthy lady who endured for 40 years and finally rose to prominence after her husband's death.