01. Introduction

Extramarital feelings are like a mess, and once they are touched, it is difficult to get out.

Initially, men simply wanted to get away from the blandness and tedium of married life by seeking a fresh, relaxing feeling outside of marriage.

When extramarital relationships threaten the peace and stability they have, men will also come to their senses and cut off the wrong feelings.

Men, when you want to quickly cut off extramarital feelings, do the following first.

02, and women outside of marriage, gradually keep a distance

Extramarital relationships are fragile, and the slightest disturbance will make a woman outside of marriage feel uneasy and at a loss.

If a man wants to cut off his relationship outside of marriage, he must first keep his distance from the woman. used cold treatment to make her realize the fragility of this relationship.

For example, don't see each other too often, and stop keeping an eye on her movements. Don't be obedient to her requests.

Create some space between each other, and try to erase the traces of her life. Let everything outside of marriage gradually fade out of its own world.

Women outside of marriage are also very realistic.

If she doesn't see hope in you, doesn't get the benefits, fame, extra help, etc., she will turn around and leave.

Most of the extramarital relationships are actually about taking what they need.

Once you can't provide what she wants, then the relationship ends there.

The man gradually distances himself from the woman outside of marriage, no longer asks for her, and soon becomes strangers.

03. Have a firm attitude and don't get involved with her repeatedly

In "People in Embarrassment", there is a bridge that touched me very much.

Li Chenggong in the play is working hard away from home. He falls in love with the young and beautiful Mannie and promises her a bright future.

After the bumps and bumps of the journey home, he has a deeper concern for his family, his wife and children. So, when he saw the picture of Mannie floating away with the current in his wallet, he also made a decision in his heart.

Back at home, Mannie followed him and told him that she had already seen his wife. Hearing this, Li Chenggong said "I'm sorry" and then turned to leave.

In his heart, home is still the happiness he desperately wants to maintain, and no one is allowed to destroy it.

After completely cutting off the extramarital relationship, he is very glad that he still has the opportunity to be a good husband and father.

Emotional matters are the most difficult to control.

Some men, after betraying their marriage, know that they should withdraw as soon as possible, but they still can't leave ruthlessly.

When a man wants to cut off his extramarital feelings, don't drag his feet. Have a firm attitude, no matter whether she is crying or showing weakness, don't be soft-hearted, and don't get involved with her repeatedly.

If a man is held back by feelings, hesitates, and procrastinates, it will only bring more harm.

Firmly express your attitude, completely break off contact, and return to your family, so that life can get back on track.

04. Stand with your wife and get support

Before, I have met some men who have betrayed their marriages, and they say that it will be much easier to return to the family and get the support of their wives.

Dominique de Werther said, "When life's temptations come, think about whether it's really worth the risk of everything you're going to lose." ”

If a man is deeply aware of his mistake and is determined to cut off extramarital feelings, he should make a stand to his wife and win her support.

Extramarital feelings are not something that can be broken by saying it, and the entanglements between each other are not easily erased.

If a woman outside of marriage is unwilling, she may choose to break the net, make this disgraceful relationship public, and destroy the trust and perseverance between husband and wife.

Men should communicate with their wives in advance and make their positions clear. Let your wife know that you really want to return to the family.

Strive for the opportunity to continue to operate each other's marriages, use time to repair the feelings and trust between each other, keep the husband and wife together, and resist the external crisis together.

With the support of his wife, no matter what excesses the woman does outside of marriage, both parties will have enough psychological preparation and coping methods.

The man decides to cut off the extramarital relationship, and if necessary, to unite with the support of his wife to overcome the crisis of the marriage together.

05, Wen Qiusheng's message

Extramarital relationships, how brilliant they begin are, how tragic they are when they end.

After enjoying the freshness and passion outside of marriage, men also need to pay a huge price for it, and even bury their future and happiness.

Don't covet extramarital feelings, take back your heart, and invest more energy to manage the relationship between husband and wife and keep your happiness.

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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.