On the road of life, we all go through various ups and downs, and sometimes we even face the painful blow of losing a partner. When loneliness comes like a tide, many people will choose to remarry to find a new life partner, hoping to find that spiritual comfort and warmth of life. But we must understand the meaning of the phrase "It is better to be covered with a thousand layers of thickness, than meat to meat", that is, no matter how much material conditions are piled up, it is not as warm as sincere emotional exchange. In the process of remarriage, there are several taboos that we need to pay special attention to.
First of all, don't always think about how much financial benefit the other person can bring you. Remarriage is not about doing business, it is not about looking at how much money the other party has, how many houses and cars they have. We're looking for someone who can spend the rest of your life with you, not an ATM. If you are always thinking about what you can get from the other person, it is difficult for such a marriage to last.
Second, don't try to turn the other person into the perfect image you have in mind. Everyone has their own personality and habits, and it is impossible to change them exactly according to your wishes. If you're always trying to make each other what you want them to be, it's just going to make each other feel exhausted. In remarriage, we must learn to be tolerant and understanding, and respect each other's personality and habits, so that a truly intimate relationship can be established.
Also, don't always compare your current with your predecessor. Everyone has a past and an ex. But after remarrying, we should focus on the present and the future, rather than always dwelling on the past. If you always compare the current with the predecessor, it will only make the current one feel unfair and hurt. We should cherish the happiness in front of us and manage our current married life with our hearts.
Also, communication with your children is also very important. Remarriage often involves the emotional problems of both children, and if it is not handled well, it is easy to cause family conflicts. Therefore, we need to communicate openly with our children, understand their thoughts and feelings, and try to make them feel the warmth and love of the family.
It's also important to maintain your independence and hobbies. Remarriage does not mean that you have to fully integrate into each other's lives and lose your personality and interests. We need to maintain our independence and interests on the basis of mutual respect, which will not only enhance our mutual affection, but also enrich our lives.
Finally, don't just find someone to marry just because you're lonely. Remarriage is a major event in life and needs to be carefully considered. Don't just find someone to marry because of a moment of loneliness, it is easy to get yourself into deeper pain. Before deciding to remarry, we need to fully understand the other person, assess our own needs and expectations, and ensure that the marriage is long and happy.
In short, "the cover is a thousand layers thick, it is better to eat meat". On the road to remarriage, we should pay attention to emotional communication, respect each other's personalities and habits, cherish the relationship with our children, maintain our independence and hobbies, and avoid hasty marriage because of loneliness. Only in this way can we find happiness that truly belongs to us.