In my opinion, the importance of sex in married life is indeed a matter that needs to be seriously considered. My name is Zhang Feng, I am an ordinary office worker, and I have been married to my wife Xiaoxue for five years. Although our married life is uneventful, it is also full of warmth and happiness.
Xiaoxue is a gentle and considerate girl, she is very considerate and caring for me. After we got married, we lived an ordinary and happy life, eating breakfast together every morning, going to work together, cooking together in the evening, and watching TV together. Although life seems ordinary, our love and tacit understanding with each other make us feel happy.
However, just recently, there was a sexual argument between us. That day, I got home late, and Xiaoxue was already waiting in the living room, looking dissatisfied.
"You're back late today!" Xiaoxue said angrily.
I smiled a little helplessly and explained, "I'm sorry, I'm a bit busy with work today. ”
Xiaoxue said reluctantly: "This is the third time!" Our lives have become the same, not even the most basic sex life! ”
I felt a little embarrassed, and I knew that Xiaoxue was right, and our married life did lack some passion and romance. But I also feel that sex is not the most important thing in married life, but the more important thing is to understand and trust each other.
"I know I'm not good enough, I'll improve." I whispered.
Xiaoxue listened to my words and looked at me with some emotion, she knew that I didn't deliberately ignore her needs, but sometimes work did make me so busy that I forgot about my family. We hugged each other tacitly and decided to work together to make our married life more fulfilling and happy.
So, from that day on, we decided to strengthen communication, increase communication with each other, and find the passion and romance in our married life. We agreed to take some time out every night to have a good chat and share each other's feelings and feelings. We also decided to schedule some romantic dates every weekend to make our married life more colorful.
After a period of hard work, our married life has become more harmonious and satisfying, and the relationship between us has become closer. We deeply understand that while sex is important in married life, what is more important is understanding and supporting each other. Only by tolerating and understanding each other can our married life be happier and more satisfying.