When did you cut off the pull of your childhood? Netizen: Only at the age of 30 did I know that life is not bad
In everyone's growth process, there is an invisible thread, which originates from childhood and invisibly leads us forward. This thread is sometimes the expectations of parents, sometimes their own fears, or social pressures. We were pulled by it, until one day, we bravely raised our scissors and cut off this last bond. On that day, we truly became masters of our own lives.
Xiao Wang, an ordinary office worker, was tightly bound by a thread called "Parental Expectations" in his childhood. His parents wanted him to become a doctor, but he had a keen interest in the arts. When he filled in the college entrance examination, he filled in the medical school according to his parents' wishes, but he was full of confusion about his future.
"Why did you choose to study medicine? Do you really like it? His friend Xiao Li asked.
Xiao Wang smiled bitterly, "No way, my parents have always wanted me to become a doctor, and I don't want to disappoint them." ”
Xiao Li looked at him sympathetically, "But your own happiness is more important." ”
Xiao Wang was silent, he knew what he liked, but the thread seemed too strong for him to break free.
Time flies, and Xiao Wang becomes a doctor. He had a stable job and a good income, but his heart was never satisfied. He began to wonder what his life was for. For the expectations of your parents, or for your own dreams?
At the age of 30, Xiao Wang finally mustered up the courage and decided to follow his heart. He quit his job as a doctor to devote himself to the field of art, which he loved. Despite the difficulties at first, he felt joy and freedom like never before.
"Do you regret it?" Xiao Li asked him.
"No, I don't regret it." Xiao Wang replied firmly, "I finally understand that life is not bad, and I want to live for myself." ”
Xiao Wang's story has aroused heated discussions on the Internet, and many netizens have expressed their resonance.
"I'm 35 years old and have just quit a well-paid job to start my own business. Although the future is uncertain, I feel extremely relaxed and happy. Netizen Mr. Zhang left a message.
"When I was 28 years old, I decided to give up the marriage arranged by my parents and choose to spend my life with the person I really loved. Although there was a lot of opposition at the time, I stuck with my choice. Now, I'm living happily ever after. Netizen Ms. Li shared her story.
There is a thread in everyone's life, and it may come from childhood, or it may come from the process of growing up. This thread is sometimes a bondage, sometimes a motivation. But no matter what, we should be brave enough to face our hearts and find happiness that truly belongs to us.
On the road of life, we will always encounter a variety of choices. Sometimes, we are swayed by the expectations and pressures of the outside world and lose sight of our inner voice. But remember, life is not bad, and we should be brave enough to follow our dreams and live for ourselves.
Whether you're 20, 30, or 40 years old, you can cut the thread that binds you if you want to. Life is short, we should do what we want to do, love the people we want to love, and live the life we want to live.
As Xiao Wang said: "Life is not bad, I want to live for myself." "Let's bravely pursue our dreams together and become masters of our own lives.