Yesterday, I attended a gathering of friends, and we casually touched on a topic: "Why are women reluctant to get married these days?" ”
The implication is that today's girls are too demanding, not only for men to have good looks, but also for them to have money status.
To be honest, as a woman, I don't agree with that. In my opinion, most women are not asking too much, but men are giving too little. This is a real phenomenon that requires us to think and reflect.
The reason women need men is in the hope that they can chase a better future together and not experience pain and frustration. The length is 50 words.
In short, those men who can touch a woman's heart are usually better than women and deserve their admiration and admiration.
If you want to flirt with a woman, you don't have to be too proactive, such a strategy will be more effective.
1. Only if you are good enough, can you come with flowers
The ancients had clouds, and it was difficult for warriors to cross the beauty pass. In the same way, it is difficult for a beauty to pass the test of a warrior.
Whether in times of war or peace, heroes have always attracted the attention of women in particular.
Women will feel safe because they believe that this kind of man is reliable. Men must understand that for women, security is very important. The above views are only universal, but women need men to protect and take care of them so that they can have a higher sense of happiness and trust.
In the process of showing love to a woman, the focus is not on your initiative or eloquence, but on how much stability your presence itself can bring her.
Friends who love to watch dramas will know that the kind of TV series that depicts the character of a domineering president is usually more popular with female audiences.
Perhaps because love is difficult to meet in reality, women often transfer their yearning to film and television dramas to satisfy their spiritual desires. This shift in thinking may be the sustenance of their hearts, or it may be their real needs. In any case, the romantic love in film and television dramas can always bring comfort to their souls.
Obviously, the key to attracting women is not to rush her to know you, but to strive to be a shining person. You need to let her see you and feel your charm and confidence so that she will automatically approach you.
This is why, although ancient kings could not favor one woman, there were still many women who competed to join the list of the three thousand beauties of their harem, perhaps because of their pursuit and desire for royal power and wealth, or their thirst for status and status.
At the end of the day, love can't escape the influence of human nature. Even if you stand quietly and don't speak, having the ability to stand out from the crowd will still make a woman feel the reliability that exudes from you.
When you have enough abilities and stand on the high ground of society, women will naturally be attracted to your charm.
2. Compared with taking the initiative, occasionally being cold can win a woman's heart
To achieve love, both parties need to work together. If you are the only one who invests everything in your relationship, you will end up only being a dispensable substitute in the eyes of women. Remember, love goes both ways.
Wise men do not actively pick up women and resort to other methods, such as getting the attention of women through intermediaries or certain events. It's a more sophisticated and elegant way to attract a woman's attention.
In the world of feelings, it is more important to take the initiative than anything else. As long as you're not the one who started the story, you have the freedom to make decisions. Remember, being in control of your emotions is the key to success.
You know, when you show a cold attitude, women are often more eager to get your attention and think that you are highly attractive.
Classic sayings such as "Distance produces beauty, and what you can't get is always in turmoil" conveys a profound truth: sometimes a passive situation can be more effective than an active one. This reminds us to occasionally slow down and wait for an opportunity to come, rather than blindly chasing quick success.
It's worth noting that people like high-end hunters tend to appear as prey, so avoid being too proactive when flirting with girls, and it will be more handy to stay a little cold.
3. Actions are always more convincing than words, and women's hearts are even more so
As the saying goes, there are not many words to be ruthless. If you nag too much about women, it will only make her think that you are unmanly, like a mother-in-law.
If you want to win a woman's heart, don't just say it, but surprise her with practical actions.
In order to please Yang Yuhuan, Tang Xuanzong painstakingly held a grand banquet and invited many guests to come and enjoy Yang Yuhuan's beauty. This banquet is known as a feast of bliss, with a huge amount of money and a variety of specifications, which can be called an unprecedented grand occasion.
In order to win the heart of Princess Wencheng, Songtsen Gampo did not hesitate to invest a lot of manpower and financial resources to build the Potala Palace to alleviate the princess's homesickness. The revised expression is more fluid and natural, and the balance of formality and ease is better. A total of 50 words.
Even Lu Bu, who is not good at words, can give up everything for his wife Diao Chan, and only ask for a covenant with her to accompany Baishou. This allows us to see the power of love, which makes people feel emotional.
We should trust what we see with our own eyes and be cautious about what we hear. For modern women, the era of pursuing love has long passed, and they value the impact and effect of practical actions more.
We should realize that at all times, the favor of a domineering president is eternal for women.
In the eyes of women, actual actions are more important than empty words a hundred times. As long as you are consistent in one thing, she will think that you are a down-to-earth and reliable man who is worth entrusting with all his life.
Conclusion:
We need to believe that the power of human beings is infinite, especially in the field of great variables. If you want to make the heart of the woman you like, you must let yourself shine, let her see your charm and strength, and let her believe in you and recognize you. Everyone can work hard for this goal, as long as the confidence is firm and actively pursued, they will definitely be able to reap happiness.
After all, all a woman is looking for a faithful companion and a stable life, which is the common aspiration of ordinary women.
If you don't have the strength to take the initiative to present yourself, women may think you're wasting each other's time. After all, what she wants may not be what you can offer. Please work hard to improve your strength, which will not only be good for you, but may also give you a better life experience.
As the saying goes, "Habitual routines win people's hearts". You need to prove to her that not only can you satisfy all her fantasies about love, but you can also hold on to it through the ups and downs of life.
If you want her to believe that you are the gentleman who can care for her when she is frustrated and share joy with her when she is happy, then show that you are sincere and considerate. She will feel your sincerity and warmth, as well as your care and love.