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Fan Wei: It took two years of hard pursuit to marry a daughter-in-law, and he has been in love wholeheartedly for 34 years, and his son is his pride

author:It's a funny one

On the sketch stage, Fan Wei is Zhao Benshan's golden partner, and his status is equivalent to Yu Qian, the "cross talk queen" in the cross talk industry.

Now that he has moved to the big screen, he has become a rare talented actor for decades, winning numerous awards.

even became the Golden Horse Award actor.

But before the age of 30, Fan Wei's life can be said to be very mediocre, and it has become a problem to become mediocre to start a family.

After several blind dates, those girls either disliked him for being poor, or they disliked him for being too wooden and honest.

Until one time he was sick and went to the hospital for injections, and met Yang Baoling, a nurse there.

Fan Weicai, an older young man, suddenly opened his mind, not only emotionally, but also had new ideas in his career.

For him, Yang Baoling is his lucky star, and his son is his pride.

Fan Wei: It took two years of hard pursuit to marry a daughter-in-law, and he has been in love wholeheartedly for 34 years, and his son is his pride

01

Fan Weineng embarked on the road of literature and art, half of which came from his love, and the other half from the wishful thinking of his parents.

For this, he not only suffered a lot, but also made a lot of jokes.

Fan Wei's parents are ordinary people, but they both like literature and art, his father likes to sing, and his mother likes to dance.

So they ignored Fan Wei's thoughts and forced their dreams on Fan Wei.

When he was in elementary school, his mother sent Fan Wei to learn to dance, hoping that he could become a dancer in the future.

But who knew that Fan Wei had no talent in dancing at all, and his limbs were stiff like marionettes.

It's okay if he doesn't have talent, but he's still working very hard,

After a period of time, not only did he not learn the dance, but he also got a wound.

In the end, the teacher could only persuade him to quit.

Seeing that he couldn't learn to dance, his father came to the scene and advocated sending Fan Wei to learn to sing.

At the very least, it's safer than learning to dance.

Fan Wei: It took two years of hard pursuit to marry a daughter-in-law, and he has been in love wholeheartedly for 34 years, and his son is his pride

Fan Wei and his younger siblings

After a period of time, Fan Wei learned well, and the teachers and classmates in the school also praised him.

But as everyone knows, this is completely the tallest one among the shorts, and can only scare and scare laymen.

After graduating from primary school, his father was full of joy and brought Fan Wei to a more professional vocal teacher.

The teacher only listened to Fan Wei sing a song, so he persuaded:

"Take it back, this kid's voice is not good, and he is not the material for learning to sing."

This time, not only his parents were dead, but even Fan Wei himself was confused.

He didn't know what he could do.

During that time, Fan Wei became very inferior, and his personality became more and more introverted.

The only thing he likes is to listen to cross talk on the radio and secretly enjoy it himself.

When the parents found out, they felt that their son was saved.

I am born to be useful, this kid can't dance or sing, so it's time to learn cross talk.

Fan Wei: It took two years of hard pursuit to marry a daughter-in-law, and he has been in love wholeheartedly for 34 years, and his son is his pride

So it took a lot of effort for my father to lead 16-year-old Fan Wei to Mr. Chen Lianzhong.

Chen Lianzhong is a cross talk actor in the Shenyang Quyi Troupe and is quite famous in the local area.

The apprenticeship in the cross talk industry pays attention to "three years of apprenticeship and three years of apprenticeship", and the master and apprentice must first run in.

Under Mr. Chen's guidance, Fan Wei began to learn tongue twisters and hone his skills.

In order to get Mr.'s approval, Fan Wei didn't know where to ask for a "home remedy".

I practiced with a pebble in my mouth, and within a few days, my mouth not only did not practice, but it was worn out.

I had several large mouth sores, and I breathed in cold air in pain.

But even so, he still refused to give up, and when Mr. Chen found out, he was angry and distressed.

I thought that this kid was too stunned, but at the same time, I also had some expectations for Fan Wei's future.

Fan Wei: It took two years of hard pursuit to marry a daughter-in-law, and he has been in love wholeheartedly for 34 years, and his son is his pride

As far as the conditions are concerned, Fan Wei is "handsome and bad", and he doesn't take advantage of it, to put it bluntly, the ancestor doesn't appreciate the food.

But Mr. Chen thinks that what if Master Zu is also afraid of Fan Wei, who is stunned, hard and persistent?

02

After 5 years of study, Fan Wei was also admitted to the Shenyang Quyi Troupe and became a professional cross talk actor.

But in the troupe, there is a seniority, and those important performances can't be Fan Wei's turn at all.

Coupled with his introverted personality and not good at words, he has fewer opportunities.

Although the master wanted to help him, he was also powerless.

But fortunately, Fan Wei's popularity is good, he treats people sincerely, and would rather suffer his own losses than take advantage of others.

Every day with his head down, the leader asks him to go east, and he will never go west.

A friend asked him to do something, and he would do whatever he said,

Anyway, it feels like two words, reliable.

Fan Wei: It took two years of hard pursuit to marry a daughter-in-law, and he has been in love wholeheartedly for 34 years, and his son is his pride

But a few years have passed, and Fan Wei, who is reliable in life and work, has been single.

His parents arranged several blind dates for him, but they all ended in failure.

The girls said of him:

"He's a good person, but he's too honest, and he looks a little old."

Several blind dates failed, which made Fan Wei's heart very hurt.

In order to escape his feelings, he put all his thoughts on the creation of cross talk.

After a while, he really wrote a good cross talk, called "A Factory Director's Diary",

Because of the novel form, it was also taken to the radio station for broadcasting.

Fan Wei: It took two years of hard pursuit to marry a daughter-in-law, and he has been in love wholeheartedly for 34 years, and his son is his pride

In 1988, Fan Wei was 26 years old.

His parents were dying gray because of his marriage.

But Fan Wei is still not in a hurry, he does not compete for fame in the group, he is not greedy for profit, he only writes cross talk,

wrote works such as "Much Ado About Nothing", "Self-reaping the Consequences", "Five Years" and so on.

Even if others bully him and take his works to stage on stage, he is not angry.

I also sat happily under the stage and watched, full of a sense of achievement.

It is said that fools have foolish blessings, and at this time, Fan Wei's good luck came.

Because he was too obsessed with creation, he often stayed up late to write, and after a long time, he fell ill.

The good friend really couldn't stand it, so he dragged him to the hospital for treatment.

When he took the medicine to the nurse for injection, Fan Wei, a straight man, was attracted by a beautiful nurse.

Fan Wei: It took two years of hard pursuit to marry a daughter-in-law, and he has been in love wholeheartedly for 34 years, and his son is his pride

The girl was tall, with clear eyebrows, a white coat, and a nurse's hat behind her head.

When giving injections to patients, she is always soft-spoken, careful and patient.

Whether it is facing the elderly or children, there is always a smile on his face.

For a while, Fan Wei was stunned and forgot that he was still queuing.

It wasn't until a friend reminded him that he realized he had lost his temper,

It was really insulting to stare at other people's girls for a long time.

After the injection, Fan Wei had the heart to get to know this girl, but when the words came to his mouth, he swallowed again,

When he returned, he sighed, his heart full of loss and self-blame, and he thought:

"Fan Wei, Fan Wei, you deserve to be a single."

Fan Wei: It took two years of hard pursuit to marry a daughter-in-law, and he has been in love wholeheartedly for 34 years, and his son is his pride

But what he didn't know was that his friend saw all this in his eyes,

decided to help him and promote this marriage.

But because of his personality, Fan Wei's emotional road was long and hard.

03

A few days later, Fan Wei was rehearsing in the rehearsal hall of the unit, and more than a dozen colleagues were sparsely sitting in the audience.

Fan Wei may have been too involved and didn't even find out that he was in a corner of the rehearsal hall.

The girl who had made him think about it appeared, and there was a person standing beside her, who should be the girl's mother.

After Fan Wei finished rehearsing, his friend ran up to the stage and squeezed his eyes at him, motioning him to look over there.

The friend whispered in his ear:

"This girl said, those who are over 5 years older are not considered, you are already 6 years older, so I said that your age is three years younger."

Before his friend left, he lent him some money and asked him to take the girl to eat something good.

Fan Wei: It took two years of hard pursuit to marry a daughter-in-law, and he has been in love wholeheartedly for 34 years, and his son is his pride

On the way to the hotel, Fan Wei already knew that this girl's name was Yang Baoling.

She is a nurse in a public hospital.

At the dinner table, Fan Wei had a rare extravagance and ordered five or six dishes.

It wasn't until Yang Baoling's mother stopped him that he stopped.

Although Fan Wei is talking about cross talk, interpersonal communication has always been a weakness.

He sat there, hesitant not knowing what to say.

In the end, it was Yang's mother who helped him out of the siege and asked him about his situation, but he also asked, and he replied,

As long as Mother Yang doesn't ask, he will only bow his head to eat.

When he was halfway through the meal, Fan Wei couldn't hold it back.

Although he likes Yang Baoling very much, he doesn't want to lie to her.

So Fan Wei took the initiative to confess, told his real age, and sold his good friend.

Saying that all this is a friend's own initiative has nothing to do with him.

Fan Wei: It took two years of hard pursuit to marry a daughter-in-law, and he has been in love wholeheartedly for 34 years, and his son is his pride

Looking at his nervous appearance, Yang Baoling didn't react, but Yang's mother smiled.

After eating this meal, Fan Wei began to wait for news, half a month has passed, and he is already cold.

But he still didn't want to give up easily, so he asked his friend:

"Did Xiao Yang say anything? What is her impression of me, whether it is successful or not? ”

Hearing his words, his friend looked at him dumbfounded, very speechless, and said to him angrily:

"You're not in a relationship with me, why are you asking me for? If you really like people, then you can chase them. ”

Hearing what his friend said, Fan Wei was a little enlightened and understood that the blind date was just the beginning, that is, to get to know each other.

If he wants to go further, he still needs to take the initiative himself, and "waiting for the rabbit" will definitely not work.

My friend was happy at once, saying that he used the words strangely, and he was still waiting for the rabbit.

In the eyes of friends, talking about relationship issues with Fan Wei is completely like playing the piano to the cow.

Fan Wei: It took two years of hard pursuit to marry a daughter-in-law, and he has been in love wholeheartedly for 34 years, and his son is his pride

In the end, Fan Wei wrote a letter and asked a friend to bring it to Yang Baoling.

But a week passed, he didn't wait for Yang Baoling, but waited for Yang Baoling's mother.

Mother Yang said to Fan Wei that Yang Baoling was not very satisfied with him, mainly because she disliked him for being too honest, unable to speak, and sloppy.

But Mother Yang came to him this time just to tell him that although Yang Baoling was not satisfied, she was still very satisfied as a mother.

And support Fan Wei to take the initiative to pursue and perform well.

Hearing Mother Yang say this, Fan Wei's confidence increased greatly, and he felt that this matter had become seven or eight points.

But what he didn't expect was that he chased him for two whole years.

04

Fan Wei is just silly, he is not stupid, not only is he not stupid, but he is also very thoughtful.

Yang Baoling also slowly discovered this in the process of interacting with him.

Fan Wei: It took two years of hard pursuit to marry a daughter-in-law, and he has been in love wholeheartedly for 34 years, and his son is his pride

Since meeting Yang Baoling, Fan Wei's life has also undergone some changes.

Every day after work, he no longer locks himself in his room to write cross talk,

Instead, he rode his bicycle directly to the hospital to pick up Yang Baoling from work.

In the spring, he picks a handful of wild flowers by the roadside,

When summer came, he would weave the wicker into rings,

In the fall, he sent scarves,

In winter, gloves are given when it snows.

He has read a lot of books over the years, and he still has a lot of things in his stomach.

After getting acquainted, his conversation box also opened, and the words he said often impressed Yang Baoling.

Fan Wei: It took two years of hard pursuit to marry a daughter-in-law, and he has been in love wholeheartedly for 34 years, and his son is his pride

In this way, Fan Wei chased Yang Baoling for two whole years, and Yang Baoling's friends were not optimistic about him.

Because his salary is not high, but he is also old, and those who don't know think he is 40 years old.

But two years later, Fan Wei's persistence finally moved Yang Baoling,

Coupled with the assistance of Yang's mother, the two got married,

and gave birth to her son Fan Xiwen in 1992.

After getting married, Fan Wei not only had more smiles on his face, but also became more active in interacting with people.

With his unique "paradigm humor", he finally ushered in a turning point in his career.

In 1993, 31-year-old Fan Wei won the first prize for performance and the second prize for creation at the Hefei Crosstalk Festival.

This is the highest achievement he has achieved in the 15 years since he learned cross talk.

But at this time, Fan Wei made a decision that surprised everyone,

That is to quit the cross talk circle, change his career to become a comedian, and act in sketches.

Fan Wei: It took two years of hard pursuit to marry a daughter-in-law, and he has been in love wholeheartedly for 34 years, and his son is his pride

Not only do friends not understand this, but even his wife Yang Baoling doesn't understand it.

So Fan Wei explained:

"It took me 15 years to achieve such a little result, maybe my potential in cross talk is so much, so I have to make other plans as soon as possible."

After listening to Fan Wei's words, Yang Baoling was impressed with him again,

It didn't take long for the facts to prove that Fan Wei was right.

When Zhao Benshan was preparing for the 1994 Spring Festival Gala sketch, he sent an invitation to Fan Wei,

For the first time in his life, Fan Wei stepped on the train to Beijing.

After more than half a month of rehearsals, Fan Wei's talent was recognized by Zhao Benshan.

But on the twenty-seventh day of the lunar month, the Spring Festival Gala program team notified Zhao Benshan and replaced Fan Wei.

The reason is that they don't want to use new people.

Fan Wei: It took two years of hard pursuit to marry a daughter-in-law, and he has been in love wholeheartedly for 34 years, and his son is his pride

Although Zhao Benshan strongly opposed, he still couldn't change the final result.

In order not to cause trouble for Zhao Benshan, Fan Wei left without saying goodbye the next day, leaving only a note,

He only has gratitude to Zhao Benshan, and has no complaints.

This also made Zhao Benshan even more determined, and he must pull Fan Wei into the gang.

05

Since 1995, Fan Wei, Zhao Benshan, and Gao Xiumin have become the golden triangle of Spring Festival Gala sketches.

coupled with a talented screenwriter He Qingkui, the status of the three on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala was established.

In the 10 years of cooperation, Fan Wei did his best to be a green leaf for Zhao Benshan.

Especially the sketches of the "Selling Abduction" series, which made Zhao Benshan directly become a god in the Spring Festival Gala,

And Fan Wei's green leaf is also recognized by more and more audiences.

Fan Wei: It took two years of hard pursuit to marry a daughter-in-law, and he has been in love wholeheartedly for 34 years, and his son is his pride

In those years, Zhao Benshan entered the film and television industry and made TV series such as "Liu Laogen" and "Ma Dashuai".

And Fan Wei was not idle, he was directly awarded the title of actor with the movie "July of the Car Watcher",

won the Best Actor Award at the Film Festival, and a new door slowly opened in front of Fan Wei's eyes.

After 2005, Fan Wei also took the initiative to withdraw from the Spring Festival Gala.

Although the explanation he gave was that it was too stressful, it was only a small reason.

Although Fan Wei has always been indisputable and is an honest man, he is like a mirror in his heart and has his own plans.

The "Selling Abduction" series is already the pinnacle of his sketch career, and it is difficult to surpass.

After the peak, it is a downhill road, and he doesn't want to be told by the audience a few years later that Zhao Benshan and Fan Wei's sketches are not good.

And the actor is abandoned by the audience, which is a matter of an instant.

Fan Wei: It took two years of hard pursuit to marry a daughter-in-law, and he has been in love wholeheartedly for 34 years, and his son is his pride

Maybe this is the reason why Fan Wei feels under pressure on the Spring Festival Gala,

In the hearts of the audience, acting well is what it should be, and acting badly is not supposed to be.

This is unfair, but it is true.

Some people say that Fan Wei left Zhao Benshan because the two of them did not share the money equally.

But with Zhao Benshan's strength, this should be impossible,

And Fan Wei's pattern is not so small.

After leaving Zhao Benshan, Fan Wei won frequent awards with films such as "Tracking Kong Lingxue", "Unproblematic Problems", "One Sentence Top 10,000 Sentences", "Chang'an Road", "One Second", "Long Season", "Morning Clouds and Twilight Rain" and other films.

is now an actor who has conquered hundreds of millions of viewers.

His achievements are only higher than when he cooperated with Zhao Benshan.

Fan Wei: It took two years of hard pursuit to marry a daughter-in-law, and he has been in love wholeheartedly for 34 years, and his son is his pride

On the other hand, Zhao Benshan, after losing Fan Wei's green leaf, gradually became powerless in the Spring Festival Gala.

So he began to praise his apprentices, and a few years later, he disappeared from the Spring Festival Gala.

The era that belonged to them is completely over.

At this time, Fan Wei's wisdom is shown, and now he is 62 years old, and he is still at the peak of his career.

Fan Wei's two transformations have shown his wisdom,

But the person he is most grateful to is his wife Yang Baoling.

06

In 2005, Fan Wei bought a 200-square-meter house in Beijing in order to let his son study in Beijing.

Completely settled in Beijing.

And in order to support his career, Yang Baoling gave up her job and became a housewife.

so that Fan Wei can make movies and TV series without distraction.

Fan Wei: It took two years of hard pursuit to marry a daughter-in-law, and he has been in love wholeheartedly for 34 years, and his son is his pride

In 2006, Fan Wei was accidentally injured while filming and fractured his ribs.

During his recuperation, Yang Baoling, a nurse, stayed by his side until he was completely healed.

After this incident, Yang Baoling set the rules for Fan Wei,

That is, it's okay to go out to film, but you can't do dangerous things.

Feeling his wife's care, Fan Wei also happily agreed.

Fan Wei is very famous, and there are many temptations to face.

There was once a female fan who was very obsessed with him, and she gave him a pair of gloves with her own hands.

The glove also had a small red heart embroidered on each finger, along with his name.

Fan Wei: It took two years of hard pursuit to marry a daughter-in-law, and he has been in love wholeheartedly for 34 years, and his son is his pride

And Fan Wei didn't take it seriously, he only regarded her as an ordinary fan,

I thought this pair of gloves was very good-looking, so I took it home directly.

It wasn't until Yang Baoling broke it that Fan Wei broke out in a cold sweat,

Hurriedly explained to Yang Baoling.

Yang Baoling not only did not get angry, but also laughed and said to him:

"I'm not worried about you, if something really happens, I can't take this glove home."

Since then, Fan Wei has paid more attention to his words and deeds, and has become more and more low-key.

Strive to make yourself appear only in front of the audience as an actor.

Fan Wei: It took two years of hard pursuit to marry a daughter-in-law, and he has been in love wholeheartedly for 34 years, and his son is his pride

Now, Fan Wei's son has also grown up, and he, like Fan Wei, is also a cross talk lover.

It is said that he has worshiped the famous cross talk actor Wang Ping as his teacher, and used the vacation time to study.

did not get involved in the entertainment industry prematurely like other second-generation stars.

At this point, like his father Fan Wei, he is very stable,

This made Fan Wei very proud.

But the most enviable thing is the love between Fan Wei and Yang Baoling,

The two have been married for more than 30 years and have always been in love, as if they are still in love.

And Yang Baoling, like Fan Wei, is a very low-key person who pursues a plain life.

She doesn't care whether Fan Wei is an actor or not, as long as Fan Wei returns home,

That's her husband, the father of her son, and nothing else.

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