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Written by Haruho
Editor/Sunny Dash
Preface
As a post-80s actor, she has successfully won the love of countless fans with her excellent acting skills and handsome beauty that never ages, and is affectionately known as the "Goddess of Frozen Age". However, when we dig deeper into her personal journey, it is revealed that the star hides a moving and sad past.
Zhang Jianing was born in a single-parent family and experienced the trauma of her parents' divorce since she was a child. At that time, her father's temperament changed drastically shortly after she was born, and he repeatedly filed for divorce. Later, the wish came true, and the father left the mother and daughter, quickly entered a new marriage, and also had the long-awaited son. In this family environment, Zhang Jianing, who was young, had expectations for his father, but in the end he was completely cold and abandoned.
In order to support her daughter, Zhang Jianing's mother had to work as a teacher during the day and go out to set up a stall at night to make money. This heavy workload even led to serious problems with her body and forced her to be admitted to the hospital. At that time, it was a critical period when Zhang Jianing needed her mother's company, but she could only watch her mother struggle alone. This made her childhood full of helplessness and loneliness, and her upbringing process seemed extremely difficult.
Although he suffered a heavy blow from his family, Zhang Jianing was not completely defeated. On the contrary, with her own efforts, she has succeeded step by step. Under the careful cultivation of her uncle, she entered Chinese opera and began to engage in the acting career she had always longed for. In order to give her mother a better life, she even ate in the school cafeteria for four years in a row, wore cheap sweatpants, and worked hard.
This hard work paid off in the end. On the road of acting, Zhang Jianing gradually emerged and was highly recognized by industry insiders. In just three years, she has taken over 18 films, and with her outstanding performance in the TV series "Twinkle Twinkle Twinkle Star", she has become an unforgettable "frozen age goddess" in the hearts of the audience. In order to fulfill her wish to send her mother to a mansion, she even endured physical pain and insisted on working while sick.
Finally, with hard work, Zhang Jianing realized his dream and bought a mansion worth 5 million for his mother. This is undoubtedly the best reward for her mother's silent efforts over the years. But just when their mother and daughter happily moved into their new house, an unexpected figure appeared in their lives - that is, Zhang Jianing's biological father.
The father, who had never cared about Zhang Jianing for many years, took the initiative to ask for help after learning that his daughter had made a fortune. In the face of such relatives, Zhang Jianing did not give any sympathy or favor, but took the initiative to help her mother establish a relationship with another man, and even planned a romantic marriage proposal ceremony. Although this behavior was abused by some netizens, thinking that she was "unfilial", in fact, Zhang Jianing's inner thoughts were very clear.
For her, the father who has been ignoring her for many years is no longer a relative in her heart. She is not obligated to take on this responsibility, and she is not willing to use her own money to help this person who ruthlessly abandoned their mother and daughter. In contrast, it is her mother and uncle who have been by her side who have been silently playing an important role in her life. It is precisely because of their selfless support and teaching that Zhang Jianing finally succeeded and realized his ideals.
It is not difficult for us to see that Zhang Jianing's filial piety to her mother is undoubtedly the biggest driving force to support her progress. She not only devoted herself to her acting career and worked hard, but also bought a mansion worth 5 million for her mother through her hard work. This kind of deep love and filial piety for his mother makes people sigh at Zhang Jianing's incisive spirit of "filial piety".
But at the same time, Zhang Jianing is resistant to the traditional lifestyle of marriage. This may have something to do with her childhood family environment. The divorce of her parents left her with indelible scars and had a serious impact on her concept of marriage. When faced with reporters' questions, she even bluntly said that she didn't understand why she wanted to get married.
Maybe Zhang Jianing in the future will be able to get out of her own shadow, get rid of the fear of marriage, treat her other half with a sincere heart, and embrace her own happiness just like she treats her mother. After all, marriage and family are an important part of life and a way to realize self-worth. Only by getting rid of the trauma of the past can she truly embrace her own beautiful life.
epilogue
Zhang Jianing's life experience is undoubtedly a magnificent legend. From a single-parent girl from a poor family to a well-known "frozen age goddess", her life footprints are undoubtedly worthy of our deep thought and learning. Her filial piety to her mother, her persistent pursuit of her artistic career, and her unique attitude towards marriage all reflect the inner monologue of a modern woman with a unique personality.
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