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Text: Mr. Mu Jinxi
With the change of people's concepts, they have a negative attitude towards certain traditions, which is a necessary process of the changes of the times.
During this time, there was a problem worth pondering in Shangqiu, Henan, a bride listened to her best friend's words, she must get off the red envelope of 28,800, the groom had no money, and asked the bride to give it afterwards, but she didn't expect her girlfriend to disagree, and finally the two sides had a dispute, which was very unpleasant.
What's the deal with this drop-off fee?
This is a special expenditure of local customs, and the groom needs to give the bride a little money when he accepts it, some places have it, some places don't, and this is all discussed in advance before the bride and groom receive the bride.
I don't know if the newcomer didn't talk about it, or the woman had a whim and suddenly asked the man for 28,800 getting off the bus, and the man could only persuade the woman to make up for her afterwards.
If the bride really wants to marry the groom, seeing the groom's embarrassing scene, she will inevitably give in, but she didn't expect that under the persuasion of the bridesmaids, even if the groom persuaded her for half an hour, she still didn't agree.
Subsequently, the man's people couldn't bear it anymore and found someone to scold the bride's best friend, and the contradiction between the man and the woman appeared, and this marriage was basically cold.
After the groom and the bridesmaids had an argument, the bride's behavior made people feel wrong, and the two were about to go to the marriage hall, but when they had an argument, the bride still stood on the side of the bridesmaids, completely ruining the marriage.
In the process of pulling between the two parties, the bride was also beaten, and the two sides caused a dispute because of the off-the-bus fee, which directly led to the wedding being ruined, which attracted a lot of discussion among netizens.
The topic of "the bride wants 28,800 off-the-bus" was exposed, and many people don't understand why the bridesmaids want to think of this way, let the groom and the bride go toe-to-toe, and finally let the relationship end without a problem.
The video screen was exposed, and many netizens stood up to speak for the man, condemning the woman's unreasonable behavior, especially the bridesmaids, the bride invited her over to help, but she didn't expect that she let the wedding end early, and I believe that the opinions of both families on her will be great.
We must admit that two adults were able to get married because they spent a lot of energy to maintain their relationship, but I didn't expect that the relationship could not stop the requirements for material life, which was a big surprise.
After the bride supports her best friend's behavior, it is undoubtedly trampling the groom's emotions under his feet, and if they negotiate the drop-off fee in advance, and the groom is not prepared, it is a problem in the south.
After the man can't bear it, I don't know if there will be a follow-up to this relationship, and whether the bride will look back and think about whether 28,800 is important or a husband is important.
Just when everyone was arguing, this incident became more and more intense, and the suspected girlfriend issued an apology, which pushed it to the climax, which caused many people to participate, and had a great impact on the initiator's girlfriend.
When talking about the issue of this getting off ceremony, the girlfriend mentioned that this is a getting off ceremony, emphasizing that this is a traditional custom, and she hopes that the bride's wedding can be carried out happily, and the implication is that she is unintentional.
Looking back at this incident, because it was a dispute during the wedding, or because of the traditional custom of "getting off the bus", it fully shows that some couples do not understand each other enough, magnifying a small problem, leading to the escalation of the problem.
In fact, the customs of marriage are much the same, and there are some etiquettes in some places that need to be looked at carefully, which needs to be negotiated by both families on the eve of the wedding to avoid such embarrassing problems.
In addition, these etiquettes were originally a blessing to the newlyweds, but some people took it as a way to collect money, and when there was no fixed standard, they exaggerated these expenses to see the man's attitude.
Wedding is a major event in life, two people have come to this point, they are already about to face a new life, right or wrong is up to them, relatives and friends should not interfere too much.
The reason why many netizens have opinions about the bride's best friend is that her behavior disrupted the rhythm of the newlyweds, and she asked the groom for 28,800 just as a getting off ceremony, no matter how you look at it, it is all a squeeze on the man?
In other words, without this drop-off ceremony, perhaps the bride and groom would not have had such a big conflict, reminding us to think carefully about the details of the wedding. #热点引擎计划#
I hope that when you are planning a wedding, you must be careful about these situations, and if there is any problem in advance, this embarrassing scene will not occur.