In an ordinary third-tier city, Li Jia is a woman in her prime. She owns a small accounting firm, and although the business is not booming, it is enough to sustain one person.
On a sunny weekend afternoon, Li Jia was sorting out the accounts at home when suddenly her mobile phone rang. She looked at the caller ID, it was her boyfriend Zhang Ming.
"Hey, Brother Ming, what's wrong?" Li Jia picked up the phone.
"Jiajia, are you at home? I'm downstairs at your house now, can you come up for a moment?" Zhang Ming's voice was a little excited.
I saw Zhang Ming holding a bouquet of bright roses in his hand and standing at the door with a bright smile.
"Jiajia, these flowers are for you. Zhang Ming handed the flower to Li Jia, his eyes full of expectation.
"Thank you, Brother Ming, it's so beautiful. Li Jia took the flower and couldn't help but get closer and smell it, the fragrance of the flower was fragrant.
The two walked into the house side by side, and Li Jia carefully inserted the flowers into the vase and placed them.
"Jiajia, I have something to tell you. Zhang Ming sat down, looking a little nervous.
"What's the matter? Li Jia also sat down and looked at Zhang Ming curiously.
"You know, we've been together for almost 5 years. We've gotten along well over the years, and I've grown fond of you. Zhang Ming took a deep breath, "So, Jiajia, are you willing to marry me?"
Li Jia was a little surprised for a while, but then a happy smile appeared on her face.
"Brother Ming, of course I do! We have been together for so long, and I love you more and more. Li Jia excitedly shook Zhang Ming's hand.
"Great, Jiajia! I'm so happy!" Zhang Ming hugged Li Jia excitedly, and the two looked at each other and smiled.
At this moment, Li Jia suddenly thought of a question, "By the way, Brother Ming, when are we going to have a wedding?"
"Well, we can discuss it slowly. However, I already have preliminary plans for the wedding. Zhang Ming said mysteriously.
"Oh, you've got it all figured?" Li Jia asked curiously.
"Yes, I've found a beautiful wedding house in the heart of the city. Moreover, I intend to prepare you a large bride price. Zhang Ming said excitedly.
"How much is the bride price?" Li Jia asked with some concern.
"Haha, 100,000 yuan! This is a very generous bride price. Zhang Ming said confidently.
Hearing this number, Li Jia's expression was a little subtle. She knows that in this city, a bride price of 100,000 yuan is a lot of money.
Hearing Zhang Ming mention the bride price of 100,000 yuan, Li Jia's expression was a little subtle. She knows that in this city, a bride price of 100,000 yuan is indeed a big expense.
"A bride price of 100,000 yuan? That's a lot of money. Li Jia said hesitantly.
"It's okay, Jiajia. I have been working quite smoothly in the past few years and have saved a lot of money. It is not difficult for me to prepare this bride price for you. Zhang Ming said confidently.
"But, Brother Ming, I think this kind of bride price is too high. We can completely simplify and save some money. Li Jia carefully put forward her thoughts.
"Jiajia, don't worry. This is my obligation, and I want to give you a decent wedding. Zhang Ming held Li Jia's hand and said seriously.
Li Jia hesitated, but still did not continue to object. She knew that in this society, a high bride price had become a common marriage custom. Even if she is a little reluctant in her heart, it is not good to insist on her ideas too much.
"Well, then do as you say. However, we also have to discuss the matter of the marriage room. Li Jia said.
"That's no problem, let's go and see which house is the most suitable. Zhang Ming said with great interest.
The two discussed for a long time and finally decided to buy a two-bedroom wedding house in a high-end community in the city center. Although the price is expensive, Zhang Ming said that there is no problem at all.
"Daughter, this wedding is really grand. Zhang Ming's family gave a lot of dowry. Li Jia's mother said happily.
"Mom, I think this kind of bride price is a bit too high. We can keep it simple. Li Jia said worriedly.
"What? How can this be? This is a major event in your life, how can you save money?" Li Jia's mother frowned.
"But, Mom, I think this kind of bride price will be a great burden on the family. We could do something else with the money. Li Jia whispered.
"Don't talk nonsense! That's a very substantial bride price. You know, it's been a few years since our family had a good life. This wedding is a great opportunity. Li Jia's mother's tone became a little excited.
"But, Mom, I really don't want to burden my family too much for my wedding. We can make it simple and do something else with the money. Li Jia said as softly as she could.
"What do you say? Do you know how difficult the situation is in our family? This is a rare opportunity. We can't miss it. Li Jia's mother's tone became a little stern.
"Don't say it! You just accept the bride price obediently. This is the event of your life, and we can't let you suffer. Li Jia's mother spoke resolutely.
Seeing her mother's insistence, Li Jia nodded helplessly. She knows that in this family, it is often difficult for her ideas to be understood and accepted.
In this way, Li Jia's wedding became more and more grand at the request of her parents. Although she was a little reluctant in her heart, she still chose to obey. After all, this is the most important moment of her life, and she doesn't want to disappoint her parents.
As the wedding date gets closer and closer, Li Jia's inner struggle is getting stronger and stronger. She knew that her parents had high hopes for the wedding, hoping to improve the family's financial situation. However, Li Jia has always felt that such a bride price is too high and will bring a heavy burden to the family.
One day, Li Jia plucked up the courage to talk to Zhang Ming about this issue again.
"Brother Ming, I've been wondering, is the bride price for this wedding a little too high?" Li Jia said cautiously.
"What? Jiajia, what are you talking about?" Zhang Ming was a little surprised, "Didn't we already discuss it before? I have already prepared a bride price of 100,000 yuan." "
"But, Brother Ming, I really think this amount is too high. We can completely simplify and save some money. Li Jia said sincerely.
"Jiajia, don't worry about this. I'm ready, so you can accept it. Zhang Ming said patiently.
"But, Brother Ming, I don't want my parents to burden me too much for my wedding. This money can be used for other places, such as buying a house or investing something. Li Jia insisted.
"Jiajia, don't think like that. This is what I should do, I want to give you a decent wedding. You can accept it with confidence. Zhang Ming still insisted.
The two argued for a long time on this issue, but in the end they still did not reach a consensus. Li Jia felt very helpless, she knew that it would be difficult for her to persuade Zhang Ming and her parents to give up such a high bride price.
As the wedding date gets closer and closer, Li Jia's inner pressure is also increasing. On the one hand, she did not want to disappoint her parents, and on the other hand, she was unwilling to accept such a high bride price.
Finally, the day before the wedding, Li Jia plucked up the courage to discuss the issue with her parents again.
"Mom, Dad, I really appreciate you guys for giving so much for my wedding. However, I have been wondering, is this bride price too high?" Li Jia said cautiously.
"What? too high? What do you say?" Li Jia's father frowned, "This is a lot of dowry, we can't miss this opportunity." "
"But, Dad, I really think that such an amount will put a lot of burden on the family. We can just keep it simple and do something else with the money. Li Jia said sincerely.
"Don't talk nonsense! this is a rare opportunity, how can we miss it?" Li Jia's mother's tone became a little excited, "Do you know how difficult our family's situation is? "
"But, Mom, I really don't want to burden my family too much for my wedding. We can make it simple and do something else with the money. Li Jia's eyes showed helplessness.
"Don't say it! You just accept the bride price obediently. This is the event of your life, and we can't let you suffer. Li Jia's mother spoke resolutely.
At this moment, Zhang Ming also walked in.
"It's nothing, Brother Ming. I was just talking to my parents about the wedding. Li Jia smiled reluctantly.
"Great! Then I'll go and get the bride price money ready tomorrow." Zhang Ming said happily.
Looking at the excitement of Zhang Ming and his parents, Li Jia's heart was filled with bitterness. She knows that her ideas are difficult to understand and accept, and she can only choose to compromise.
On the day of the wedding, everything went in order. Guests arrived one after another, and the auditorium was filled with a joyful atmosphere.
Li Jia wore a white wedding dress, surrounded by her parents and Zhang Ming, and walked to the altar elegantly. Her mood was a little mixed, both excited and a little worried.
When exchanging rings, Li Jia couldn't help but secretly look at her parents and Zhang Ming, and their faces were filled with smiles of relief and pride. This made Li Jia feel guilty, and she didn't want to disappoint them.
"Jiajia, are you willing to spend the rest of your life with me Zhang Ming?" Zhang Ming asked solemnly.
"I do. Li Jia said softly.
The two exchanged kisses, and the guests erupted in applause. Li Jia's parents hugged them even more excitedly, with tears of happiness in their eyes.
After the wedding, Li Jia and Zhang Ming went together to receive the blessings of their parents.
"Daughter, you are married! Li Jia's mother said excitedly.
"Yes, daughter. If you look at this bride price, it's a lot of money. Li Jia's father also said proudly.
"Mom, Dad, thank you. I really appreciate everything you guys have done for me. Li Jia said sincerely.
"Haha, that's what we're supposed to do. Our family finally has a considerable fortune. Li Jia's father said with a smile.
Hearing her father say this, Li Jia's heart was filled with bitterness again. She knew that her parents saw the wedding as an opportunity to improve the family's financial situation.
"Mom, Dad, I know you've been worried about your family's financial situation. But I really don't want you guys to burden me too much for my wedding. Li Jia said carefully.
"What? It's too much of a burden? What do you say? It's a lot of money, and we've made a fortune!" Li Jia's father was a little puzzled.
"But, Dad, I'm really worried about the burden this money will put on you. We can just keep it simple and do something else with the money. Li Jia said sincerely.
"What do you say? How can this be!" Li Jia's father's tone became a little stern, "This is a rare opportunity, how can we miss it?"
"But, Dad, I really don't want you to pay too much for my wedding. We can just keep it simple and do something else with the money. Li Jia's eyes showed helplessness.
"Don't talk nonsense! This is the event of your life, and we can't let you suffer. Li Jia's mother spoke resolutely.
Seeing her parents' insistence, Li Jia nodded helplessly. She knows that in this family, it is often difficult for her ideas to be understood and accepted.
At this moment, Zhang Ming also walked over.
"Jiajia, what's wrong? You look a little unhappy. Zhang Ming asked with concern.
"It's nothing, Brother Ming. I'm just talking to my parents about the bride price. Li Jia smiled reluctantly.
"Oh, yes? And how did you talk about it?" Zhang Ming asked curiously.
"Great! I'll go tomorrow and get the rest of the money ready. Zhang Ming said happily.
Looking at the excitement of Zhang Ming and his parents, Li Jia's heart once again filled with bitterness. She knows that her ideas are difficult to understand and accept, and she can only choose to compromise.
In this way, Li Jia's wedding was held as scheduled at the request of her parents and Zhang Ming. Although she was a little reluctant in her heart, she still chose to obey. After all, this is the most important moment of her life, and she doesn't want to disappoint her parents.
After the wedding, Li Jia and Zhang Ming returned to the newlywed room together. This is an upscale apartment in the heart of the city, exquisitely decorated and elegantly located.
"Jiajia, this is our new home. What do you think?" Zhang Ming asked excitedly.
"Very good, Brother Ming. Li Jia said reluctantly.
"What's the matter, Jiajia? You look a little unhappy. Is it because of the bride price?" Zhang Ming asked with concern.
"It's nothing, Brother Ming. I'm just a little tired. Li Jia said softly.
"Jiajia, I know that the amount of the bride price this time may be a bit high. However, I really want to give you a decent wedding. You can accept it with confidence. Zhang Ming said softly.
"Brother Ming, I know your intentions. However, I'm really worried that this money will burden my family. We can really make it simpler. Li Jia said sincerely.
"Jiajia, don't worry about this. I'm ready, so you can accept it. Zhang Ming still insisted.
Looking at Zhang Ming's firm eyes, Li Jia nodded helplessly. She knew it would be hard to convince him to change his mind.
In this way, Li Jia began her newlywed life. Although she was a little worried in her heart, she still chose to accept this high bride price. After all, this is the most important moment in her life, and she doesn't want to disappoint her parents and Zhang Ming.