Title: Only by having value can we attract the attention and respect of others!
Have you ever noticed that if you don't reach out to others, they won't reach out to you? This situation may be an indication that you have not yet demonstrated usable value. Don't make the mistake of thinking that being nice to others earns respect, sometimes your warmth and politeness can only be misinterpreted as begging for favor. So, no matter how tough it is, you have to have chips to exchange with people.
Life is like a transaction, you will get what you are willing to give. The upward road will never be smooth sailing, and smooth and moisturizing will only make you stagnate. It's never too late to work hard!
Some people may say, "I'm kind to people, why don't I get it in return?" because your kindness may not be seen or taken for granted. It's not that just because you're good to others, others have to be nice to you. Interpersonal communication requires equality and mutual benefit, and needs to be exchanged.
Don't always expect people to care about you and contact you. You see, others may have their own busyness and troubles. If you want to be noticed and respected, you have to show your worth. Let others see that associating with you is meaningful and rewarding.
Don't be afraid to give, because only what you give will you get something. But don't trust others either, as some may just be taking advantage of you. Learn to maintain balance and learn to protect your interests in interpersonal interactions.
Life is a game, and your value is your bargaining chips. Only with enough chips can you be invincible in this game. Therefore, no matter when and where, we must maintain our own value, continue to work hard, and move forward in a better direction!
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