This is a real case that happened in Wenzhou, and the parties involved are Mr. Chen and his only son, Liangliang.
Liang Liang is now in the third grade of primary school, and when his wife returned late from overtime, Mr. Chen temporarily took over the task of tutoring the children's homework.
At first, Mr. Chen patiently explained the math problems in detail, but gradually he felt the difficulty of teaching children.
Liang Liang obviously didn't fully understand the topic, and was always looking around and distracted.
Mr. Chen repeated the explanation again and again, and spoke for more than half an hour, but Liangliang was still expressionless and at a loss.
Mr. Chen's patience finally burned out, and he began to feel helpless and angry like never before.
There was a hard pomegranate on the table, and he grabbed it with both hands and threw it at the shiny abdomen.
The pomegranate slammed into the child's left groin, and Liang Liang let out a heart-rending scream, "It hurts".
Emotionally, Mr. Chan clearly underestimated the severity of the consequences of this impulsive act.
Seeing that Liang Liang then seemed to "obediently" do his homework, he hastily dealt with this domestic violence incident.
But who would have expected that early the next morning, Liangliang would hold his stomach and cry out in pain.
Urgent medical examination, the results are shocking - the bright spleen was severely damaged, and the entire organ was severely ruptured and bleeding!
The doctor reluctantly told Mr. Chen that the most likely cause of this situation was the pomegranate he threw out.
Although the spleen is usually protected by ribs and muscles, it is extremely fragile and delicate, like tender tofu. Once it is hit violently, it can easily be broken like tofu.
The spleen, as one of the body's blood storage organs, is covered with large and small blood vessels.
Once rupture, a large amount of blood will rush out like a flood, which will soon cause severe blood loss, shock, and life-threatening.
Mr. Chan was full of remorse, and he could not express his suffering in the face of the child's life-threatening situation.
In the end, the doctor made a difficult decision - the bright spleen was completely discarded and had to be removed to save the child's life.
This is a shocking real-life case, but it also reflects a common problem in today's society - parents often lose their mind and patience when tutoring their children's homework.
For parents like Mr. Chen, no matter how difficult and annoying the topic is, it cannot be a reason to hurt their children. Once the spleen ruptures and bleeds, it is difficult to repair and life-threatening, and parents must take precautions.
In fact, it is normal for children to have difficulties in their homework, which is a small obstacle they encounter in the learning process.
Parents should not be in a hurry, let alone go to extremes. You can let your child take a break and rethink in a different environment. You can also patiently explain some ideas and methods to solve the problem, rather than giving answers directly.
Experts say that the most important quality that parents should have when helping their children with homework is infinite patience.
Good communication with children is the most important thing, do not oppress them in a commanding manner, but understand each other.
Tutoring should be a process of parent-child interaction, not a parent's finger-pointing.
Irritable parents need to rethink how they behave.
If you lose your mind just because you teach your child a topic, how will such parents deal with it when they grow up and encounter more problems? Do you have to beat and scold your child every time? That is a bit too much.
In short, no matter what difficulties are encountered in educating children, parents should remain calm and rational.
Guide, enlighten, and encourage children appropriately, rather than hurting them.
Parents and children are the most intimate relationship, mutual understanding and mutual trust, in order to make the road of family education safe.