When we were in high school, we all studied such a text, "Wei Feng Gangster", which tells the tragedy of a woman's marriage, and there is a very famous sentence in the text: "The scruffiness of a scholar can still be said." The woman's timidity cannot be said. It means that even if a man falls in love, he can withdraw at any time and get out, but women are not, once a woman recognizes a person, it is difficult to let go.
This poem is based on the self-description of an abandoned woman, showing us the real married life, once loved when it was also a mountain alliance and a sea oath, it was difficult to give up, but I didn't know how to cherish it, firewood, rice, oil and salt, and the short of the parents replaced the wind and snow, and the advantages became disadvantages.
The oath is still in my ears, people are no longer young, and the time that I once thought we could grow old together was lost to the impermanence of the world after all.
In real life, it is not uncommon for couples to love for several years, and it is not uncommon to lose to marriage after all, and the story of Chang Shuhong and Chen Zhixiu is just one of them, but this time, the party who betrayed love was replaced by a woman.
If life is only as it first seems
Dunhuang murals are famous all over the world, those mysterious colors, lifelike characters make travelers yearn for it, this is a cultural treasure bred in China, has a high artistic historical value, and these precious murals can be preserved to this day, thanks to a person, he is Chang Shuhong.
Chang Shuhong studied art in France, although he was already a well-known painter in France, but the mountains and rivers of the motherland still haunted him, he gave up his rich life and personal artistic creation, and led the team to carry out restoration work in the difficult conditions of the Gobi.
There is no electricity here, in the dark night, the bean-sized kerosene lamp is the only light source, the cultural relics of the motherland can no longer be spoiled by thieves, this is Chang Shuhong's only wish, so he carried a huge pressure, single-handedly built the Dunhuang Art Research Institute.
The institute was short of funds and once came to a standstill, Chang Shuhong relied on the portraits to earn funds to survive, and the bells in the eaves accompanied him into dreams, just like the lullaby sung by his mother was as reassuring as his mother.
Chang Shuhong dedicated his life to Dunhuang, and even buried here a hundred years later, forever guarding this piece of land that he could not let go. However, Dunhuang was his favorite place, and it also brought him deep pain.
In 1908, Chen Zhixiu was born in a wealthy family in the south of the Yangtze River, is a typical eldest lady, with a naïve desire for love, in 1925, at a banquet, 17-year-old Chen Zhixiu met 22-year-old Chang Shuhong, and the two fell in love at first sight.
They are so compatible, have the same artistic pursuits, and their circumstances are very similar, according to today's words, Chang Shuhong and Chen Zhixiu can be regarded as a flash marriage, and in the same year after they met, they entered the palace of marriage hand in hand.
After marriage, the two set off to France, which is a romantic city, nourishing the palace of art, Chang Shuhong studied art, Chen Zhixiu studied sculpture, the life of the two was rich and sweet, it should be the happiest time of this marriage, in 1931, their daughter Shanna was born, if there is no aftermath, I believe that the family is extremely complete.
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In 1936, Chang Shuhong found a book about Dunhuang at a used book stall on the banks of the Seine, which gave him a great shock, and the magnificent pictures planted the seeds of returning to China in Chang Shuhong's heart, and in countless days thereafter, he fell asleep and accompanied him to sleep.
I want to return to China!" Chang Shuhong thought so, and immediately decided to leave, in the distant motherland of Dunhuang, there is a mysterious force that resonates with him and keeps calling him. But Chen Zhixiu frowned, is the comfortable life in Paris coming to an end? In the future, will he only be accompanied by yellow sand and scorching sun?
The husband had already moved first, and Chen Zhixiu and her daughter continued to stay in Paris for another year, before packing up and leaving, and the family of three was reunited.
Chang Shuhong was looking forward to an opportunity to be sent to Dunhuang, but Chen Zhixiu hoped that this day would never come, but in 1941, Chen Zhixiu's dream was shattered, Chang Shuhong was appointed as the director of the Dunhuang Art Research Institute, and the family went to Dunhuang in this way.
Maybe just hearsay, you can't imagine how difficult life is in the Gobi, where water resources are scarce, vegetation is sparse, and ordinary people disdain to ask for dry firewood, which are all treasures that can not be found here, and the staple food dry food can never be eaten fresh, because there is no fire, and the food made has to support the family for a month.
In Paris, they were armed with knives and forks, ate delicious food, carved knives, and did the most elegant literary work, and when they walked along the banks of the Seine, the river breeze blew the hems of French dresses...... And this kind of life is like the next day, there is only endless wind and sand here, and endless suffering.
Chen Zhixiu has been accustomed to a life of fine clothes and food since she was a child, and thought that love could withstand all difficulties, but her husband was obsessed with the construction of the research institute and had no time to be distracted by her.
Abandon the husband and children
In the army, Chen Zhixiu met Zhao Zhongqing, Zhao Zhongqing was a friend of Chang Shuhong, Chang Shuhong trusted him very much, and even when Chen Zhixiu was sick, Zhao Zhongqing took him to see a doctor.
Feelings slowly grew, the husband's snub and Zhao Zhongqing's company were in stark contrast, and finally in 1945, Chen Zhixiu left a book and ran away, and the affair of the official's wife eloping with the officer was soon discovered, Chang Shuhong couldn't accept that his beloved wife would abandon him and his children, and he also tried to look for her, but for various reasons, he finally gave up.
Chen Zhixiu and Zhao Zhongqing once again regained the happiness brought by love, but the good times did not last long, Zhao Zhongqing was arrested and imprisoned because of his identity, and Chen Zhixiu also had an empty diploma, nowhere to show his fists and feet, and a pair of hands holding a carving knife had to do the work of a servant.
Chen Zhixiu's evening was bleak, her daughter had seen her once, and she felt sorry for her when she was still working as a maid at her age, but when the former abandonment had disappeared, Chen Zhixiu's biological son couldn't forgive his mother, and he didn't want to meet her and recognize her, but said coldly: "I don't know her." ”
Brief summary:
As the saying goes, adversity sees true love, and the husband and wife share adversity is often rumored to be a good story, but in real life, how much love can't bear the torture of reality?
Maybe both of them are at fault in this relationship, Chang Shuhong should not have neglected the communication with his wife, leaving Chen Xiuzhi helpless in a strange place, and Chen Xiuzhi should not run away irresponsibly, if the two of them can sit down and talk about it, will it be another ending? But if it is only if, now, both of them have passed away, Mr. Chang Shuhong has let go of the betrayal before his death, and this past has finally come to an end.