Although love means a lot to women, love is not the whole of life, and women cannot use love as their main spiritual pillar.
After reading this news, I felt a little chilled. It seems to confirm some rumors once again: men become bad when they are rich, and women might as well rely on themselves if they want to rely on men.
It is true that after the age of thirty, a woman should assess her place and, getting rid of a lifestyle that relies on passion, should also become more mature. This is a reality that must be faced.
Note that you are not a very special person. If you don't have unique skills or abilities, there's a good chance you'll be abandoned by society. We should always constantly expand our capabilities and knowledge in order to maintain our position in a competitive environment.
Of course, many women may think that finding a good husband has solved their future life problems, so why work so hard? However, for a long time, it has been difficult to get real freedom and respect by relying on others to earn money. We should pursue our careers and independence, especially women, and we must think seriously and not give up on our future easily.
In fact, those women who share this view may well not have completely shaken off the influence of fairytale romance novels.
In real life, we can't expect someone to protect us unconditionally throughout our lives. But we still want ourselves and our loved ones to live a stable and happy life. It's the same with men, they will look at fame and fortune.
They will weigh in their hearts, and every time he pays you how much money and what price he pays, he will carefully calculate.
In the future, in case your relationship breaks up and you have to break up, he may come back to you to ask you for those so-called material truths.
When women reach the age of thirty or even forty, they should not see love or marriage as the center of gravity in their lives.
You need to understand that at this stage, the best way to live is to be true to your heart, live only for yourself, and only do what you want to do. Remember, your voice is the most important thing, and enjoying a life of self-determination is the most important thing.
Being true to oneself is essentially loving oneself. Instead of seeing ourselves as vassals to others, we should recognize that we have independent souls. This is the self-awareness that everyone should have.
For example, if you like to chase stars, go for it and don't let the outside world criticize you.
Some people may say, you have reached such an age, why do you still like those high-profile stars or clowns like a little girl.
They don't say these things because they want to help you, but because they want to attack your personality by belittling your hobbies. Please don't pay attention to their words, stick to your hobbies, and be who you really are.
The best way to hit someone is to deny what they love and are passionate about.
Female friends should be vigilant, be financially independent and assertive, and make a group of like-minded friends at the same time, so that you can take care of your family and your career will be more prosperous. It is recommended that female friends do not believe rumors and make rational judgments.
Why care about those narrow ideas? If you like it, go after it and ignore other people's gossip. Don't let people who aren't doing as well as you want to influence your decision-making. After all, it's your life, and you should go for the happiness you want.
As long as you don't respond, those people will also feel bored and stop bothering you.
Being true to yourself means always maintaining dignity. Even if you encounter bad luck and downfall, you should not bow to the despicable villain.
In the journey of life, ups and downs are normal. No one can stand on the top of the mountain forever, and no one will be deeply suppressed by the bottom of the valley forever. During happy hour, we enjoy the moment when we build tall buildings to entertain our guests, but there are also times when the tower collapses and we fall in pain. However, these are all inevitable challenges in the course of life.
When a woman enters her thirties, she should have a calm mind, not be happy with things, not sad about herself, leave merit and honor and disgrace behind, and only retain her innocence and sincerity.
The word "innocent" essentially refers to "high and clear", because the real society is very dirty, just like the saying "the world is crowded, all for profit", most people tend to move closer to the strong.
After the age of 30, if a woman does not want to join the crowd, she should insist on maintaining a noble character and refrain from accepting generous gifts from others.
Not only will this hurt your self-esteem exceedingly, but once it starts, a dependency mentality will form, which will be repeated endlessly.
When you realize that you can get everything you want with just a nod and a bow, you can't help but feel happy. After all, why not take advantage of this easy opportunity?
You know, if you live with this idea of survival, you are not far from spiritual destruction.
Being true to oneself not only shows not being tied to others, but also means not humiliatingly carrying out the demands of others for the sake of trivial gain.
Many women feel constrained and believe that their compromises with life and money are not based on sincere ideas.
You only have one life, and you can't choose to be free or alone. We live in a colorful world, and we can't avoid being stained with some color. We might as well enjoy this colorful world and make ourselves happier and more relaxed.
Excuse me, don't you feel a little weak to excuse yourself for such reasons?
As the saying goes, "All roads lead to Rome", and if you have the will and determination, you will succeed. There is no need to emphasize too much the difference between "backbone" and "soft bones", simple and clear expressions are more fresh and natural.
If a thirty-year-old woman does not work hard and is willing to fall, it is likely that the ending will not be very good. These words may be relatively straightforward, but I hope to remind women to cherish their time, strive for a better life, and not give up and fall easily.
To sum up, after the age of 30, the best way for women to live is to be loyal to themselves.
First, we must learn to love ourselves. Secondly, we should hold on to our self-esteem and not bow down to the little people who are in a mean place. Finally, we should keep forging ahead and not be bothered by the limitations of boiled frogs in warm water.
When you are able to achieve such a state, I believe that you will be able to achieve the life you want and enjoy happiness and joy without fear!