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Read "Alive": Everyone said that Fugui lived a miserable life, but in fact, he lived a very happy life

"When the family was not ruined, the Xu family had more than 100 acres of land.

At that time, Fugui was alive when a monk rang the bell for a day,

When I wake up every morning, I worry about how to spend the day.

In order to have some fun in life and to pass the time, he went to brothels and gambled.

After losing his family business, his life was hard and tiring, but his heart was very steady.

As Fu Guiniang said, as long as people live happily, they are not afraid of poverty.

In Fugui's life, all his relatives have left him:

first his father, then his son Youqing, his daughter Fengxia, and then his wife Jiazhen;

Then there is the son-in-law Erxi, and the grandson bitter root.

Everyone thinks that he is having a miserable life, but putting aside God's perspective, Fugui is actually happier than most people in this life.

Read "Alive": Everyone said that Fugui lived a miserable life, but in fact, he lived a very happy life

Fugui is the only incense of the old Xu family,

Like many fathers who want their son Jackie Chan, Fugui's father also hopes that he can glorify his ancestors.

Glory to the ancestors, how tiring that is.

Why do you have to do tiring things on a good day?

Fugui's father should do what he can't do by himself, how could he agree.

Moreover, in Fugui's view, his visit to the kiln and gambling is nothing more than a son inheriting his father's business. (After all, that's what his dad did.) )

On the night of losing his family property, Fugui was made a game and was addicted to the gambling table and couldn't extricate himself.

His wife, who was seven months pregnant, came to the door and persuaded him to go home.

Not only did he not listen, but he also beat Jiazhen.

That was the only time, and it was also the thing that made Fugui regret and heartache the most.

Every time I think about it, I feel like a turtle bastard.

Later, like most gamblers, Fugui lost all his fortune.

Die, but Fugui doesn't want to die, after all, that ass debt won't die with him.

This is the first hurdle in Fugui's life, and it is also a turning point for everyone in the Xu family.

Read "Alive": Everyone said that Fugui lived a miserable life, but in fact, he lived a very happy life

After Fugui lost his family property, let's take a look at the reaction of his family:

Fu Gui's mother: "The upper beam is not correct and the lower beam is crooked"

I don't blame Fugui, anyway, I put the blame on Fugui's father, after all, "the son is not the fault of the father".

Wife Jiazhen: "As long as you don't gamble in the future, it's fine." ”

The prodigal son turns back, and there is hope for the days.

Daughter Fengxia: "Dad, hide quickly, grandpa is going to beat you." ”

And what about Fu Gui Dad?

Although, while shouting that he was going to kill you, he also resisted the responsibility of repaying the debt for his son.

More than 100 acres of land and old mansions were exchanged for three heavy copper coins.

Because the burden was too heavy, Fugui's silk clothes were worn out, and his shoulders were bleeding.

Fugui's father told Fugui in this way that money is not easy to come by, and you must know how to cherish it.

Suffering is the most testing of human nature and witnesses true feelings.

In Fugui's later life, you can always get a glimpse of the sweetness in ordinary life.

Whether it is Fugui's parents, or his wife and daughter, as Fugui's closest relatives, you can always see the unconditional love for Fugui in them.

Read "Alive": Everyone said that Fugui lived a miserable life, but in fact, he lived a very happy life

He had the best mother, the best wife, the best children, sons-in-law, and grandchildren

On the day Fugui's father died, neither his mother nor Jiazhen dared to cry loudly.

They were afraid that he would not be able to think about it.

After the death of Fugui's father, Jiazhen's father took Jiazhen in a beautiful manner.

didn't want her daughter to suffer with the loser, so she swore that she would break off with the Xu family.

Fugui's mother begged for the first time in her life, but it was still for Fugui.

Jiazhen was taken away, and Fugui's mother secretly wiped her tears, but comforted Fugui for a hundred years, "Jiazhen is your woman, not someone else's, and no one can take it away." ”

Looking at Fugui, who was listless all day, Feng Xia changed her way to tell jokes to Fugui.

The valuable things at home have been sold, and the mother who has been blessed all her life has been blessed, but she twisted and twisted with Fengxia to dig wild vegetables with her basket and small feet.

His hair is gray, but he has to learn to do manual work that he has never done before.

Fugui wanted to borrow some money from his relatives in the city and open a shop.

But as soon as I heard from my mother that your father's grave was still here, I never thought of going to the city to make a living.

Five acres of good land were leased to him by Second Master Long.

Fugui had never done farm work, so he learned to work like the people in the village.

Fugui Niang felt sorry for Fugui, and when she was old, she still followed Fugui to work in the field.

"Four hands are better than two," she said. ”

Even if he stopped under Fugui's persuasion, he was still the same as Fengxia and accompanied Fugui on the ridge.

watched Fugui use the sickle, and didn't forget to remind, "Fugui, don't cut your hands." ”

Read "Alive": Everyone said that Fugui lived a miserable life, but in fact, he lived a very happy life

After the birth of his son Youqing, Jiazhen came back, and the family was complete.

When Fugui was working, he also had a helper.

Jiazhen was born as a young lady in the city, with fine skin and tender meat, and it is natural to feel distressed when she works Fugui.

Asking her to rest, Jiazhen always smiled happily and said, "I'm not tired." ”

She was tired all day, but she was still smiling.

Later, when the war broke out, Fugui was dragged to be a strong man.

Fu Gui's mother was so anxious that her condition worsened and she died soon after.

As the eldest lady's family treasure, she resisted the burden of supporting her family, she worked hard, but her daughter Fengxia became mute because she had no money to see a doctor.

But even so, his children never complained about Fugui.

Every time I see the chapters of Feng Xia and Youqing, I think, "Fugui saved the galaxy in his last life, so he can give birth to sensible children like Feng Xia and Youqing." ”

As Fugui's eldest daughter, when Fugui was still idle, Xiao Fengxia was very optimistic and felt sorry for her father.

Later, Fugui lost all her family property, and she had to start living a hard life, and even became mute herself, but she was not defeated, but lived like her mother into a tough pampas grass.

Follow Fugui to work in the fields every day, do what you can, and reduce the burden on your family.

In order to provide for her younger brother's schooling, the family sold her to someone else's family.

She didn't make a big fuss, but accepted it silently.

I was really homesick, so I walked more than ten miles by myself and went back to take a look.

As the only male member of the Fugui family, Youqing is also sensible.

After learning that my sister was given away in order to provide for her own education, she would rather not go to school than take her sister back.

In order not to break his cloth shoes, he ran barefoot to go to school in the city every day.

After going to school, he took the initiative to take on the family's farm work.

Throughout Fugui's life,

His parents love him, and his mother's death is defending him, "Fugui must not be gambling." ”

His father hated his son for not being angry, but he also sold the family business to clean up the mess for his son.

His wife did not give up Fugui because of his eating, drinking, prostitution and gambling, nor did she leave him because of the decline and decline of the Xu family.

Jiazhen, who suffered a lot, said before he died, "You are so good to me, I am also satisfied, I gave birth to a pair of children for you, and I can be regarded as repaying you, and we will be together in the next life." ”

His children, in their short lives, have been considerate of their fathers and loved their fathers in their own way.

His son-in-law spent all his savings and borrowed some money, just to give Feng Xia the most magnificent wedding.

Fengxia had a difficult birth, and Erxi chose to protect the university without hesitation.

After Feng Xia's death, he helped the family in his own way.

Read "Alive": Everyone said that Fugui lived a miserable life, but in fact, he lived a very happy life

"Life belongs to each person's own feelings, not to anyone else's opinion",

I believe that in Fugui's view, his miserable life is more full of happiness and joy.

The happiness and misfortune of life do not lie in the form, not in the final outcome, but in the process and in people's feelings.

Life is all subtraction, and they are all to be lost, but Fugui loses a little faster than others.