In recent days, the unfortunate experience of the 21-year-old "fat cat" in Chongqing has touched the hearts of countless netizens. This young and promising "genius" was actually planted in the hands of a scumbag, and finally embarked on a desperate road of suicide. Behind the tragedy is the chilling "fishing girl culture". In the condemnation of many netizens, a famous emotional program host Tu L actually lay down a gun!
The "Chief Emotional Mentor of China", who has nearly 60 million followers, is known for his sharp and outspoken words on weekdays. However, this time, his Weibo account was crowded with all kinds of negative comments, all related to words such as "fishing for girls" and "poisonous chicken soup".
Many people directly pointed out that he was the "godfather of fishing for girls" and the initiator of unhealthy tendencies. For a while, was he deliberately leading women to objectify themselves and provoke gender antagonism to make money? Or was he innocently lying down and being brutally subjected to cyberbullying? The question aroused my deep thinking.
Objectively speaking, a big V like Tu L, who is quite influential in the emotional field, may have a subtle impact on fans with their words and deeds. If you blindly promote the fallacy of "making money from men", it will undoubtedly make more women embark on the road of no return to practice themselves.
I have watched some of Tu L's program clips, and his sharp and sharp comments often made the guests present embarrassed. But at the same time, this kind of pan-entertainment emotional program often deliberately sensationalizes and creates confrontation for the sake of ratings. Over time, it is easy for the audience to form a black-and-white mindset, believing that the emotional world is either male or female, right or wrong.
In fact, in this complex society, there is no absolute right or wrong, and every relationship has its own unique background and story. We can't blame one group for all the fault just because of a moment of anger.
At that time, the slogan "women can hold up half the sky" was put forward by the People's Republic of China in order to encourage women to shake off the shackles of the old society and pursue independence and self-improvement. Today, we should promote equality and harmony between men and women, rather than treating each other as enemies and ATMs.
As a conscientious public figure, Tu L should lead by example and convey positive energy. In the face of overwhelming doubts, he can't just hide in the safe zone and only allow fans to leave messages.
After all, to have influence comes to have a corresponding social responsibility. If he is truly aware of the bias in his remarks, he should have the courage to admit his mistakes and take the initiative to cut out misleading content. I believe that as long as he is willing to prove himself with actions, he will be able to regain the trust of the public.
This May Day, the figure of wedding cars on the street has decreased significantly. More and more young people are reluctant to enter the palace of marriage, and I am afraid that the culture of fishing women will be to blame.
Think about it, which man is willing to marry a woman who regards himself as a cash cow? Which woman is willing to marry a man who only wants her own money? Only by seeing each other honestly, dissolving suspicion with love, and melting away estrangement with true feelings, can a happy family be established.
At this moment, when we sigh for the misfortune of the "fat cat", we must think calmly, what has created such a distorted social ecology?
In addition to condemning those fishing girls who harm others and themselves, should each of us also reflect on whether we have inadvertently become accomplices in poisonous chicken soup? Let us abandon our prejudices, treat others with reason and love, and build a harmonious relationship between the sexes. I believe that in an atmosphere of mutual respect and appreciation, there will never be a repeat of the tragedy of the "fat cat".
There is true love in the world, don't let desire blind you. Emotional Vs, you are shouldering the heavy responsibility of leading the fashion, please be sure to put morality first, take words as teachers, and be responsible and warm trendsetters. Let's work together to build a better world where "scumbags" no longer harm innocent girls, and "fishing girls" no longer drive sincere men to a dead end!
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